Wifes Ex boyfriend Harrassing Us.

[Xionide]

yep crazy chicks, can live with'em cant killem. I am only fifteen but i have seen my dad go through enough of em to get a fair perspective. you need to cntr+alt+del her quick before her tenticles penatrate your skin. anyway i was gonna say, you kick ass dude! you sound like you can give her the boot and walk away unskaved. and he sounds like a preppy little bitch who needs to grow the f up. you lay the smackdown on dat ho. and these people saying to feel sory for the fella are down right wussies.

WUSSIES

 

[SilverThief]

ha

 

[Ciber]

Originally posted by: XCLAN
errrrrrrrr what a bunch of crap.....
I was getting pissed at this dude and wanted to find out where he lived...cuzz his harassing emails....I found out that the guyz name is not Justin...its Jonathan. The only way i found out his First name was from her Mom. I am paying to have her see a psychiatrist....but I can only take so much...I am litterally at a boiling point here.

Now this is pissin me off....she always Lies...Its lawyer time.

BTW I also found a 140$ phone bill on my cell phone from her callin a friend in texas...she kept claiming it was her Brother......Until I called and tlaked to the guy myself...he immediately hung up......then she admits its a guy that I got pissed about over a year ago.
Pisses me off that she stays at home all day and I work 70+ hours regularly and she does this BS behind my back...not to mention I am becomming deep into debt from her........and I have 200$ cell phone bills? wtf
btw 140$ was the calls to him alone.

I am sure she will read this tommorrow...but she really needs to see this while I am not around and really think about this from my point of view...and how its gunna turn out.


Oh and btw the Guy from Texas and the other guy are supposedly 2 seperate people. but with her i can never tell.

I think it's time you got rid of this slut, I know that's kind of harsh......but i cant think of another word to describe a woman who's talking to other men behind her husband's back.

If she really does read this, i would love to see her explanation for talking to someone else behind your back and blatantly lying to you about it.

I cant see how she can possibly explain herself though.

I hope you dont have kids and that she's left with nothing after the divorce for being a lying, cheating slut.

 

[y2kc]

Sad tale. Personally, I don't believe a word of it. And for the sake of the "children", I hope I'm right.

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: Ciber

Originally posted by: XCLAN
errrrrrrrr what a bunch of crap.....
I was getting pissed at this dude and wanted to find out where he lived...cuzz his harassing emails....I found out that the guyz name is not Justin...its Jonathan. The only way i found out his First name was from her Mom. I am paying to have her see a psychiatrist....but I can only take so much...I am litterally at a boiling point here.

Now this is pissin me off....she always Lies...Its lawyer time.

BTW I also found a 140$ phone bill on my cell phone from her callin a friend in texas...she kept claiming it was her Brother......Until I called and tlaked to the guy myself...he immediately hung up......then she admits its a guy that I got pissed about over a year ago.
Pisses me off that she stays at home all day and I work 70+ hours regularly and she does this BS behind my back...not to mention I am becomming deep into debt from her........and I have 200$ cell phone bills? wtf
btw 140$ was the calls to him alone.

I am sure she will read this tommorrow...but she really needs to see this while I am not around and really think about this from my point of view...and how its gunna turn out.


Oh and btw the Guy from Texas and the other guy are supposedly 2 seperate people. but with her i can never tell.

I think it's time you got rid of this slut, I know that's kind of harsh......but i cant think of another word to describe a woman who's talking to other men behind her husband's back.

If she really does read this, i would love to see her explanation for talking to someone else behind your back and blatantly lying to you about it.

I cant see how she can possibly explain herself though.

I hope you dont have kids and that she's left with nothing after the divorce for being a lying, cheating slut.

has she posted on here?? i didn't read the whole thread, kinda lazy that way. but just curious.

also, doesn't this almost strike you as a dennilfloss type thing? does anyone know this Xclan guy well??

Why would anyone want to post this kind of info on an internet board?

 

[Ciber]

Yes.

Not really. No idea.

People post this stuff ALL the time.

 

[tantos]

That's what you get for having a wife that doesn't work.. No wife of mine is staying home while I work my ass off.

 

[MadRat]

The only pathetic one here is this gal's husband for posting this dribble in a public forum.

I don't think there is any excuse whatsoever for posting your personal business in such a public forum. If you think that anyone here really has any ounce of sympathy for you in your current situation then you're kidding yourself. This was a matter that should have sent red flags off to you, true, but its something you should work out with her. This is a fight for her between you and her, not you and him. It looks like you missed the whole idea of her motivations.

Your wife has issues, especially the need to show you whom she's in love with! You might not want to hear this, but its likely she is feeling some guilt and therefore has a need to show you the note. Guilt is a powerful emotion that unfortunately only comes after something bad has been done. If you don't think she's still in love with him then why the need to show you the note?? She'd of never put that business in front of you unless she has a deep emotional attachment to him. She's shopping for control here, pure manipulation on her part. Don't be a sucker and either leave her be or ream her up and down for flirting with her old flame, but don't necessarily aim for a divorce. If she loves you at all then she will drop the need to explore her old emotions with him. She'll either be back on her own free will or you'll just drive her into the arms of another man and it may just not be him. C'mon, haven't you ever read a romance novel?

No amount of outside help is going to do one bit of good for you so drop the publicity. The thrill is in the emotion, not in the deed, so if you can't forgive the gal for anything she does while she's away then you might as well get the paperwork ready now.

 

[Ciber]

Nevermind

 

[MadRat]

The thread is a couple weeks old, true, but its still fun to rant. When I read that awhile back it was alot shorter thread. Could have sworn I put that post in weeks ago. Started reading through and didn't see it so I still just had to post it!

 

[Ciber]

Originally posted by: MadRat
The thread is a couple weeks old, true, but its still fun to rant. When I read that awhile back it was alot shorter thread. Could have sworn I put that post in weeks ago. Started reading through and didn't see it so I still just had to post it!

It's a good one

 

[Murphyrulez]

2 things I have to say.


Duck Pussy?


and


Skroob? I would have been all over the joke, but the skroob part threw me off.

 

[Iwentsouth]

I think duck pussy is when she makes a quack when the a man is screwing her? You know sex sound lol.

 

[GoingUp]

Show her the door. No man deserves what you are going through right now.

 

[MadRat]

Instead of blaming her maybe he should drop the computer games and pay her some attention for a change.

 

[SherEPunjab]

wow this is like a movie. keep us updated. very interesting stuff.

He has good taste. the Joshua Tree owns all albumz ever.

He does sound psycho though. I'd probably send him a nasty virus. I'd use my wifes email and attach some 'recent pics of her' and send that POS a good virus.

I'd also get his calls blocked.

now is not a good time for ex lovers to come back into the picture.

 

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: XCLAN
errrrrrrrr what a bunch of crap.....
I was getting pissed at this dude and wanted to find out where he lived...cuzz his harassing emails....I found out that the guyz name is not Justin...its Jonathan. The only way i found out his First name was from her Mom. I am paying to have her see a psychiatrist....but I can only take so much...I am litterally at a boiling point here.

Now this is pissin me off....she always Lies...Its lawyer time.

BTW I also found a 140$ phone bill on my cell phone from her callin a friend in texas...she kept claiming it was her Brother......Until I called and tlaked to the guy myself...he immediately hung up......then she admits its a guy that I got pissed about over a year ago.
Pisses me off that she stays at home all day and I work 70+ hours regularly and she does this BS behind my back...not to mention I am becomming deep into debt from her........and I have 200$ cell phone bills? wtf
btw 140$ was the calls to him alone.

I am sure she will read this tommorrow...but she really needs to see this while I am not around and really think about this from my point of view...and how its gunna turn out.


Oh and btw the Guy from Texas and the other guy are supposedly 2 seperate people. but with her i can never tell.

dude i only hung up right away cause you started cursing and stuff. if you want to talk about it, you'll have calm down and call back. you have my number.

 

Well, to be honest: Having noticed her bahviour here, I am almost certain that she's that way in real life, for that attitude certainly doesn't start overnight.

So as much as I would like to say "jilt her", the fact is there's at least one kid that is a product of the relationship and more likely than not he knew what he was getting into. So, I say suck it up. If you could stand her character enough to make at least one kid, then hang on.

Of course that's my view. You have the freedom to live your life as you please. I sure as hell know that most people know the characters of their significant others before they get married or make babies with them. For some reason they expect magic later on when they start to get tired of that character. (Perhaps that's why I always want to know how someone treated his previous significant other before I ever think of getting involved.)

Best of luck.

 

[Zebo]

Originally posted by: Carbonyl
How old are you guys? Do you have children?

She's playin' you. This marriage is the problem not her X, he's just doing what guys do when they think they have an "in". Who gave him the idea? HMMM look no further than the woman sleeping beside you tonight. And lying in a relationship is totally unacceptable IMO. Good luck and if your young w/o kids I'd seriously consider going separte ways from the limited post.

I stand by what i said the first day you posted...But I'd like to say sorry I was right


Best of luck and plenty of fishesses in the sea to choose from.

 

[Dufman]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Hmmm.. if your wife leaves you for this guy you haven't lost much, the paragraph appears to be a foreign concept to him.

 

[Xionide]

Originally posted by: MadRat
The only pathetic one here is this gal's husband for posting this dribble in a public forum.

I don't think there is any excuse whatsoever for posting your personal business in such a public forum. If you think that anyone here really has any ounce of sympathy for you in your current situation then you're kidding yourself. This was a matter that should have sent red flags off to you, true, but its something you should work out with her. This is a fight for her between you and her, not you and him. It looks like you missed the whole idea of her motivations.

Your wife has issues, especially the need to show you whom she's in love with! You might not want to hear this, but its likely she is feeling some guilt and therefore has a need to show you the note. Guilt is a powerful emotion that unfortunately only comes after something bad has been done. If you don't think she's still in love with him then why the need to show you the note?? She'd of never put that business in front of you unless she has a deep emotional attachment to him. She's shopping for control here, pure manipulation on her part. Don't be a sucker and either leave her be or ream her up and down for flirting with her old flame, but don't necessarily aim for a divorce. If she loves you at all then she will drop the need to explore her old emotions with him. She'll either be back on her own free will or you'll just drive her into the arms of another man and it may just not be him. C'mon, haven't you ever read a romance novel?

No amount of outside help is going to do one bit of good for you so drop the publicity. The thrill is in the emotion, not in the deed, so if you can't forgive the gal for anything she does while she's away then you might as well get the paperwork ready now.

The only thing pathetic is you being a hipocrit for posting your "wisdom" in here publicly when you could have just PM'd him.