Wifes Ex boyfriend Harrassing Us.

[Hammer]

Originally posted by: datalink7
You have no idea how hard it was to get "I pwn joo all" down one side and "skroob" down the other

i do. I invented that.

 

[dethman]

duck pussy. huh. new one.

 

PPO from your local police department.

 

[boyRacer]

damn and i thought there was more drama...

 

[XCLAN]

Originally posted by: datalink7
Jeeze you guys, I love how you all make assumptions. Just because "XCLAN" posted this doesn't make it true. I am the guy who wrote that email.
Of cource that is hard to believe, but it is in fact the truth. He has skewed the message so it isn't even what I origionally wrote. It is sad that he
knew he could play off all your sympathies and so altered the letter.

In my origional email, I merely stated a few things about how I fondly remembered our previous friendship (NOTHING over the top!), and if she
needed a friend to help her with her current relationship problems I would be willing to be there for her. XCLAN has completely fabricated this email.
Great is his lie. I did in fact call once, AT HER REQUEST. He is the one who needs to be commited to the hospital for clinical jelousy.

nice try...you dont even live in the same state.

He carried on with more emails insulting and bragging about how much $ he has etc. and he always gets what he wants.

I guess he didnt get what he wanted when his wife left him, He said she didnt have his heart...well why on earth was it that she left him and he didnt want her too. I did the only thing i thought reasonable. I told her to get rid of him or........................$#^%%^@%^.

She told him never to email or call again. He called at 2am to see if it was me or her that kept saying she doesnt want to talk to him. It was her she kept replying telling him she wants nothing to do with him and leave her alone. first she tried to be polite then she got really nasty with him.

A lot of the posts in the thread totally were wrong opinion wise. but its not yer faults....you guyz dont have all the facts. I would tell how she broke my trust but i dont think i have enough vacation time and sick leave this year to explain it. besides for some reason I know after i tell you guyz what all she done you guyz would shoot me for not leaving her. Every person i know that knows the millions of lies she told ... said i should leave her. And i warned her she is on her last straw, i will be honest life was much much easier without her.




He is a lil preppy boy who was raised with a silver spoon in his mouth, mommy and daddy paid his way through college and he thinks hes really accomplished a lot in life. but i can assure you he doesnt always get what he wants like he said he does. and I think he is a pathetic loser. how stupid do you have to be to beg like this, especially when she kept tellin him to stop...to a point that she is pissed with him and never wants to hear from him again.

his best bet would have been to play it cool and be the best friend without tryin to squeeze in. cuzz me and her are literally to a point that we discuss divorce weekly. he coulda just been there when she needed him and he woulda had a chance....but now, even if i left her...i seriously doubt she would have anything to do with him.

 

[DivideBYZero]

(Duck Pussy)

WTF is up with that?

 

[Miramonti]

Do you have kids?

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: XCLAN

Originally posted by: datalink7
Jeeze you guys, I love how you all make assumptions. Just because "XCLAN" posted this doesn't make it true. I am the guy who wrote that email.
Of cource that is hard to believe, but it is in fact the truth. He has skewed the message so it isn't even what I origionally wrote. It is sad that he
knew he could play off all your sympathies and so altered the letter.

In my origional email, I merely stated a few things about how I fondly remembered our previous friendship (NOTHING over the top!), and if she
needed a friend to help her with her current relationship problems I would be willing to be there for her. XCLAN has completely fabricated this email.
Great is his lie. I did in fact call once, AT HER REQUEST. He is the one who needs to be commited to the hospital for clinical jelousy.

nice try...you dont even live in the same state.

He carried on with more emails insulting and bragging about how much $ he has etc. and he always gets what he wants.

I guess he didnt get what he wanted when his wife left him, He said she didnt have his heart...well why on earth was it that she left him and he didnt want her too. I did the only thing i thought reasonable. I told her to get rid of him or........................$#^%%^@%^.

She told him never to email or call again. He called at 2am to see if it was me or her that kept saying she doesnt want to talk to him. It was her she kept replying telling him she wants nothing to do with him and leave her alone. first she tried to be polite then she got really nasty with him.

A lot of the posts in the thread totally were wrong opinion wise. but its not yer faults....you guyz dont have all the facts. I would tell how she broke my trust but i dont think i have enough vacation time and sick leave this year to explain it. besides for some reason I know after i tell you guyz what all she done you guyz would shoot me for not leaving her. Every person i know that knows the millions of lies she told ... said i should leave her. And i warned her she is on her last straw, i will be honest life was much much easier without her.




He is a lil preppy boy who was raised with a silver spoon in his mouth, mommy and daddy paid his way through college and he thinks hes really accomplished a lot in life. but i can assure you he doesnt always get what he wants like he said he does. and I think he is a pathetic loser. how stupid do you have to be to beg like this, especially when she kept tellin him to stop...to a point that she is pissed with him and never wants to hear from him again.

his best bet would have been to play it cool and be the best friend without tryin to squeeze in. cuzz me and her are literally to a point that we discuss divorce weekly. he coulda just been there when she needed him and he woulda had a chance....but now, even if i left her...i seriously doubt she would have anything to do with him.

well you are somewhat pathetic if you stayed with her. you claim how she broke your trust in so many ways yet you still stick around
thats like the pot calling the kettle black (if i have the saying right )

 

[Nemesis77]

Somehow this remided me with the situation between my GF and her ex-BF. HE kept on mailing her (and he was pretty vicious in some of them). My GF told him to leave her alone. As time progressed, he even stalked her in the middle of the night (as in 3am). I talked with my cousin (who is a police) and he gave me some advice. My GF talked with a lawyer, and he gave similar advice. Basically he was committing what in Finland is known as "Kotirauhan häirintä" ("disturbance of domestic peace" in english (more or less). Basically, if she tells her never to mail her and he still does it, she can go to the police. Same thing with phone-calls (which he did make quite alot). And she could get an restraining-order. She was unwilling to do so, so we tried to find alternative means.

And we did find 'em. By accident. She studies about 800 kilometer from me (and the ex studies (well, not anymore) in the same university). I went to visit her, and she convinced me to go to a nightclub with her. As it happens, we ran in to the Mr. Moron there. Of course, he immediately went to my GF and tried to say something (even though he had repeatedly been told to leave her alone). I stepped in between them and gave the asshole a piece of my mind. Basically I told him some "facts of life" for about 15 minutes. The core of my message was something lime this:

"Leave her alone. She wants to live her life without you. She hates you. No, she doesn't hate you, she despises you. You will NEVER again speak to her, you will not stalk her (he denied doing it, but he was seen), you wont even look at her! I have talked to police and she has talked to a lawyer. If you ever again try to talk to her, if you ever again try to do ANYTHING, we will go to the police and we will press charges against you. Feel free to think how a criminal-record will affect your possibilities to get a job (he a law-student and he's trying to become a judge)! And believe me when I say this, but the law is on our side, and we have more than enough evidence to kick your ass!"

After that, there has been no incidents. I guess my comments were extra powerful considering that the little shrimp is about 1.5 meters tall, whereas I'm about 1.95 meters tall .

 

[xclansgirrl]

I'm the wife and I have put an end to it. I love my husband very much and done nothing shady with my ex. As for the previous lies, I have not much to say for it except that i don't like what I did, i wish I hadn't and wish desperately that I could change it. They were malicious, however they were unintentional ( i know that doesn't matter much ) I had alot of issues, Anyways none of this is any of anyone on this forum's bussiness. To the people who said my husband should leave me........you are a bunch of tools, and you don't know anything about me or our relationship. I love him more than life and I try daily to make up for the wrongs I did, and we do have our share of good times still. Oh and yes there are children involved, we have a 4 month old son. Anyways, people make mistakes, I'm paying dearly for mine as I deserve to be and I'm trying to make up for it. What can I do beyond that?

 

[gotsmack]

need explination of where the term "duck pussy" came from

 

Now I'm so confused. I never got to read the alleged ex's letter, but I got the gist of the story from reading other posts.

First off, Xclansgrrl's post and profile made me think that Xclan is some guy I know from another forum. By the way, Xclansgrrl must be a female geek with the heatware profile. *Smile!* Hehehe! Now, here's where I'm left puzzled: Xclan said the following in another thread: "I have 3 kids and an unemployed wife." On the other hand, Xclansgrrl said: "Oh and yes there are children involved, we have a 4 month old son."

Now, why does Xclansgrrl mention only one kid? Why the inconsistency in numbers? Are two kids from a previous relationship? If so, why did Xclansgrrl feel the need to exclude them when account for "children involved"? Is this whole relationship so one sided with the "me", "me", "me" thing possessing one or both parties?

Don't feel compelled to respond. That's just what I'm left asking 'cuz I'm confused.

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: luvly
Now I'm so confused. I never got to read the alleged ex's letter, but I got the gist of the story from reading other posts. First off, Xclansgrrl's post and profile made me think that Xclan is some guy I know from another forum. By the way, Xclansgrrl must be a female geek with the heatware profile. *Smile!* Hehehe! Now, here's where I'm left puzzled: Xclan said the following in another thread: "I have 3 kids and an unemployed wife." On the other hand, Xclansgrrl said: "Oh and yes there are children involved, we have a 4 month old son." Now, why does Xclansgrrl mention only one kid? Why the inconsistency in numbers? Are two kids from a previous relationship? If so, why did Xclansgrrl feel the need to exclude them when account for "children involved"? Is this whole relationship so one sided with the "me", "me", "me" thing possessing one or both parties? Don't feel compelled to respond. That's just what I'm left asking 'cuz I'm confused.

I think xclan is going to soon announce that the wife died in a car accident.

 

[xclansgirrl]

Originally posted by: luvly
Now I'm so confused. I never got to read the alleged ex's letter, but I got the gist of the story from reading other posts.

First off, Xclansgrrl's post and profile made me think that Xclan is some guy I know from another forum. By the way, Xclansgrrl must be a female geek with the heatware profile. *Smile!* Hehehe! Now, here's where I'm left puzzled: Xclan said the following in another thread: "I have 3 kids and an unemployed wife." On the other hand, Xclansgrrl said: "Oh and yes there are children involved, we have a 4 month old son."

Now, why does Xclansgrrl mention only one kid? Why the inconsistency in numbers? Are two kids from a previous relationship? If so, why did Xclansgrrl feel the need to exclude them when account for "children involved"? Is this whole relationship so one sided with the "me", "me", "me" thing possessing one or both parties?

Don't feel compelled to respond. That's just what I'm left asking 'cuz I'm confused.

1. I'm not a female geek, i do have heat, but only because I am trying to be productive from home!
2. I have a child and he has a child.
3. Stop reading between the lines, i was talking just of my husband and I and the child that would be most directly affected if we were to split up is the one we have together.
4. It is not one sided, my husband and I do love each or we wouldn't be together still, and we both do for one another and care about each other's feelings.

Do you people have anything better to do than to pick apart my relationship????

 

[yllus]

Don't you two have something better to do than post the gory details of your relationship for us to read?

After all these years, online stupidity still astounds me. Yelling at *us*. Cripes.

 

[MazerRackham]

I would kill to be able to go back and not have lost you, but things being the way they are, I hope that I can at least be in your life as a friend. I'd rather be in your life as a friend than not be in it at all. In my wildest dreams, I would love to be able to be with you for just one day...to be near you, to see you, and to smell you.

:Q Whoa dude, yeah get the police involved... get this on record in case sh!t goes down in the future! I'm never going to marry a divorcee!

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: xclansgirrl
Do you people have anything better to do than to pick apart my relationship????

Sorry we intruded on your forum. Its all a mistake. We're leaving now.

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: xclansgirrl
Anyways none of this is any of anyone on this forum's bussiness.

Instead of telling us that, why don't you go to the source and inform your husband?

 

[codeyf]

Originally posted by: gotsmack
need explination of where the term "duck pussy" came from

 

[Mandrill]

Originally posted by: codeyf

Originally posted by: gotsmack
need explination of where the term "duck pussy" came from

Maybe it quacks

 

[XCLAN]

I shouldnt have let her see the thread maybe? lol

 

[XCLAN]

errrrrrrrr what a bunch of crap.....
I was getting pissed at this dude and wanted to find out where he lived...cuzz his harassing emails....I found out that the guyz name is not Justin...its Jonathan. The only way i found out his First name was from her Mom. I am paying to have her see a psychiatrist....but I can only take so much...I am litterally at a boiling point here.

Now this is pissin me off....she always Lies...Its lawyer time.

BTW I also found a 140$ phone bill on my cell phone from her callin a friend in texas...she kept claiming it was her Brother......Until I called and tlaked to the guy myself...he immediately hung up......then she admits its a guy that I got pissed about over a year ago.
Pisses me off that she stays at home all day and I work 70+ hours regularly and she does this BS behind my back...not to mention I am becomming deep into debt from her........and I have 200$ cell phone bills? wtf
btw 140$ was the calls to him alone.

I am sure she will read this tommorrow...but she really needs to see this while I am not around and really think about this from my point of view...and how its gunna turn out.


Oh and btw the Guy from Texas and the other guy are supposedly 2 seperate people. but with her i can never tell.

 

[Xionide]

Originally posted by: amdskip
restraining order

this guy is a psycho

restraining orders are just another way of saying i love you-t-shirthell.com

 

[Crimzon]

Dude. She seems to be emotionaly draining. Staying with her will not work out, ever. People can forgive, but not forget, and that will constantly be a cause of aggrevation in your relationship. I'm sorry you have a kid together, otherwise it would be much much easier. You talk to anyone, and they'll say Trust is a fundamental part of a serious relationship, it baffles me how you can be willing to stay in one without it.

 

[Xionide]

Originally posted by: pulse8
My thought is that it sounds like he's a desperate, lonely man who longs for a time when he was happy.

I don't know what kind of guy he is, but I would try to help him rather than alienating him.

When I broke up with my last girlfriend, I had just moved to Los Angeles where I didn't know anyone. It was a very bad time for me and even though we had broken up, she put up with some sh!t as a result of my just being lonely. It goes away eventually, but it only makes it harder on him and it only makes it last longer if you treat him like a stalker. (Which from what I've read, it doesn't sound like he's done anything really wrong.)

Again, I don't know what happened with your wife and him that they broke up and I don't know what their relationship has been like in the past (before the breakup), but I would suggest that your wife try to be more supportive and help him out a little.

all i heard was "waaawaaawaa im a stalker too waaawaawaa"