I'm pretty sure we've found your problem. Most SDRAM is not "registered". The most common is known as "unbuffered". I'm pretty sure your original DDR Chip is of the "unbuffered" type, and your new one is of the "registered" type. Problem is, you can't mix them together. Here's a blurb from Corsair Memory's site about this:
"Registered versus Unbuffered
Most systems that use SDRAM modules use standard Unbuffered SDRAM DIMMs. However, on some newer systems, the memory modules can be either Unbuffered or Registered SDRAM modules, and you CANNOT mix the two types of memory in the same system.
Registered memory modules are similar to Buffered memory modules. They have extra chips mounted onto the module which control the way the module memory bank is accessed. With unbuffered memory modules, the entire memory is accessed at the same time."
So, return that stick of registered DDR to Kingston and get an "unbuffered" non-ecc type.
Do this: pull out the new, Registered DDR module. Put in the original.
Download Aida32.exe. It's a free system information tool that gives you all kinds of great details about your system, including the memory. Install the program, of course. Run it, and click on the Memory icon and see what it says about your original RAM's specifications. It will even give you the serial number of the RAM. Post the results back here and we can help you, or go back to Kingston and try to find the same model number.
Here's Aida32.exe:
Aida32 Freeware System Information tool