Do you seriously believe that the family of the victim or the victim can never be happy unless they forgive the criminal, and that forgiving him will prevent such things from happening ever again? So if everyone forgives child rapists they will never do it again, rather than abusing their freedom and doing it over and over again until someone is smart enough to put a bullet between their eyes?
If you would have read the text properly, you would have understood that i would give the man to undo what he has done and help other victims as well. It does not mean he does not get punished. And if he refuses, then he would die by starvation in a cell and a family member will take his place to undo what has been done. However, the family member will not die on refusal but will publicly announce that he refuses to help the victim out of his reasons.
This sentence is for this case only as i have written in my post.
IMHO :Child rapists, forfeit all rights on freedom and will be subjects of investigation about why someone turns into a molester. For that a cure or at least a detection method can be found to rid the world of this evil.
I may sound evil because i wish to use perpetrators of serious crimes to be subjects of research why they do this. The fact is that nobody is born evil or good. Some people may just have a genetic disease which causes them to do harm. To understand is to be one day able to prevent, to heal.
And you might be surprised that some long life prisoners do not want to be turned free because they fear they will go wrong. They would accept a cure if it would exist. But they have come to the understanding and the acceptance that they do not wish to cause harm upon others. Thus they do not want to be turned free, some would even rather die.
This may seem as a radical insight but it is not.
In some countries this is sort of already happening. Just not at the scale i wish it to be.
Killing a perpetrator is always an option. But it should always be the last option to resort to. A man or womans obligation is to create, not to destroy.
You know this phrase ?
"
I keep my friends close.
But i keep my enemies closer.
"
In essence it is a variety on a simple strategy : Know your enemy.
Addendum :
But who or what is your enemy ?
In the old days it was a fallen angel.
Since science and modern medicine (the possibility that tiny creatures exist that cannot be seen by the naked eye actually was thought of during the Islamic golden age before fundamental religious freaks and oversexed Caliphs took over.)