- Jan 15, 2000
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Me and girl are friends in college freshman year. She studies abroad for 2 years and we meet up again a few months ago. We get along great, and there is definitely a mutual attraction. I make it clear my intentions are to be more than friends (i.e. FWB). She tells me that even though she is attracted to me she can't go through with it because she doesn't want to ruin our friendship.
I've decided to simply cut off contact with her because I think sticking around any longer would put me in a position that I just don't want to be in. I mean I don't want to just be her friend, and I think that the best thing to do is to remove myself from the situation.
Am I being an asshole here and being too selfish?
I've decided to simply cut off contact with her because I think sticking around any longer would put me in a position that I just don't want to be in. I mean I don't want to just be her friend, and I think that the best thing to do is to remove myself from the situation.
Am I being an asshole here and being too selfish?