Originally posted by: sao123
Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
Originally posted by: shimsham
it always cracks me up to see guys saying things like this. "i care for her, but if i dont get my way, im cutting off contact." wtf is that? all that will do is confirm that her reservations for not wanting to go further were grounded in fact (ie she dodged an asshole).
if you care for her, then why ditch her just because she doesnt want the same things you want? i mean, if shes so great and you like hanging out with her, then why throw that away? just because you dont get your way? youre 100% to not get what you want if you act like that.
btw, dont want to ruin the friendship is womanese for she doesnt want you in that way.
edit: and you can still be friends without getting fvcked over or left out to dry. just move on to other women to date and bang on.
yea trust me I know your right, but why stick around a situation that you know will only get worse.
Why does it feel like I am the only one who agrees with shimsham?
OP reminds me of morons who date girls. Then if guy cant get in girls pants within a week, he breaks up with her... no matter how much fun they have together. Whiney little baby who throws a temper tantrum because he cant have his own way.
I want to know why Op thinks the situatio will only get worse?
My advice... is to stay friends, and she'll eventually come around. girls almost always marry their best friend, because who else can they stand to spend the rest of their life with. She is probably just not ready for a long term committment (your both only freshman and young yet, time to browse around), and is afraid of a breakup. Wait it out and she'll come around, maybe closer to graduation.