"I just want to be alone. I'm doing so much more being alone. I need to figure out who I am."
-I'm cheating on you with someone else, but I don't want to feel guilty and have that cheating label so I'm going to end it with you and experience this other guy. Then when we get back together you can never accuse me of cheating because we weren't really "together".
"I love you and I just want you to know that"
-I'm keeping you as a back-up and I know you're stupid enough to wait for me. If I keep telling you that I love you you'll actually believe it. You love me and you're a sure thing, but maybe other better guys can love me too.
2 months later
"I miss you. Can we have lunch"
-Things didn't work out the way I planned with this other guy and I want to be with you again because I'm all alone.
Repeat process 5 more times every 1-3 months.
-I'm cheating on you with someone else, but I don't want to feel guilty and have that cheating label so I'm going to end it with you and experience this other guy. Then when we get back together you can never accuse me of cheating because we weren't really "together".
"I love you and I just want you to know that"
-I'm keeping you as a back-up and I know you're stupid enough to wait for me. If I keep telling you that I love you you'll actually believe it. You love me and you're a sure thing, but maybe other better guys can love me too.
2 months later
"I miss you. Can we have lunch"
-Things didn't work out the way I planned with this other guy and I want to be with you again because I'm all alone.
Repeat process 5 more times every 1-3 months.