Why is she in the hospital would determine. Is she in for something horrible? That might tip the scales despite my better judgement. I don't see a problem with the PS3 as collateral.
....or run the battery down. Show up at the hospital with the laptop and when they try to start it up, tell them you forgot the AC cable. That way it looks like you made the effort.tell him the harddrive died or become unavailable for the next few days, or if you have a P4 power hog lying about...
Just say you aren't comfortable w/ lending it to her. It does not make you any less of a friend and if he is your friend, he should understand.
Asked for a security deposit, equal to the cost of the laptop, for loaning a laptop to my friend's girl to use while she's in the hospital? (Frankly, I'm more worried about it getting stolen than dropped or damaged.)
I still don't know why he asked me to provide a laptop, rather than just use her phone for Facebook. (At least, he has a smartphone, I don't know about her.)
Back in the day, I loaned him a few video games that I never got back. He once claimed that his ferret scratched one of them up. I suspected he took it and traded it in for a new game without telling me or paying me back for it. I never actually saw the disc again.
I have a personal policy that I don't lend anything valuable to anyone unless they're an immediate family member or I can supervise them. Even with family I supervise them, as my dad has broken quite a few of my things over the years. Does your friend not have a laptop he can loan her? Just tell him you need the laptop for something.
I'm also not comfortable asking to borrow expensive items. People that do that tend to be irresponsible from my experience (there's a reason they don't own nice things).
Yes. You're either comfortable loaning it or youre not.
Pretty much this. But honestly this 'friend' does not sound like much of a friend at all? You could just say no.If she's having a baby, you should be nice - buy her a $100 Android tablet as a GIFT, and give it directly to her. No loser boyfriend involved.
She can spend all the time she wants on Facebook, taking pictures of the afterbirth, whatever the hell it is that new moms do, I have no idea.
Even if she has a smartphone, Facebooking on those stinks. When you're used to 4", 7" makes all the difference in the world. (heheheh.)