Would you be freaked out if you had a stalker?

[JEDI]

"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

2) If YOU had a stalker, would you be freaked out? WHY?

2a) What if she was beautiful?

 

[newParadigm]

Originally posted by: JEDI
"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

2) If YOU had a stalker, would you be freaked out? WHY?

2a) What if she was beautiful?

1) Cause they want privacy

2) Yes unless....

3) Than it'd be a no

 

[lyssword]

If she was beautiful I'd say "I'm your #1 fan too "

 

[Baked]

Let's fvck.

 

[kindest]

if i had a stalker same sex, i would be freaked..
opposite sex i woudnt be freaked but I wouldn't like it..
if she was beautiful i wouldn't like it but i might make her dreams come true a couple times before i faked my own death.

 

[fire400]

depends. even attractive indivituals have a mind of their own, don't forget that, same sex or opposite, you can't always predict someone's actions, especially if they plan to do some pretty random things to you on the bad side of it all.

so I suppose people can fall prey all too easy if they don't understand that images alone can be just as decieving.

I wouldn't trust a stalker, even if he or she was high maintenance and wore Amber Crombie 'n Finch outfits and just got done with doing their nails at a local salon.

There was this CSI show where a women who was fairly pretty - killed her dates and used their credit cards to help pay for her living expenses and unfathered supported child. Hot chick, speed up or slow down, you better be ready to give her your number, or get beat up by her boy friend to fork up your wallet~

 

[Suspicious-Teach8788]

IF she's fat and ugly, I wouldn't freak out. I would just be like dude wtf get away from me. You know, it's just like those girls that come after you but you don't want them, so you push them away.

If she was hot.. then sure let's fvck.

 

[YOyoYOhowsDAjello]

She's a member here.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

I've had a couple of women stalk me to some extent (one actually moved from Oklahoma to Washington to follow me). It's not a good thing. I do my best to stay away from obviously wacky chicks, but sometimes one slips under the radar and you don't realize you have a problem until it's too late.

 

[Wheezer]

Originally posted by: JEDI
"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

Really? Tell that to Rebecca Schaeffer

Unlike domestic stalkers -- usually ex spouses or lovers who stalk a former partner -- Martin says celebrity stalkers ?see a relationship [with the celebrity] that doesn?t exist.? And sometimes they hear things only they can hear. While wandering in the desert in Arizona in 1980, Ralph Nau claimed a sorceress named Maria told him to go to Los Angeles and pursue Olivia Newton John. He sent her threatening, bizarre letters, including one containing dog teeth that the singer/actress took to Gavin De Becker, Inc. The firm monitored Nau?s actions for three years.

taken from here

 

[JEDI]

Originally posted by: DonVito
I've had a couple of women stalk me to some extent (one actually moved from Oklahoma to Washington to follow me). It's not a good thing. I do my best to stay away from obviously wacky chicks, but sometimes one slips under the radar and you don't realize you have a problem until it's too late.

Why wasnt it not a good thing for you? Can you elaborate?

 

[ScottyB]

2a) I've had them before, just ignore them.
2b) I'd DHUTB.

 

[her209]

What if you were 12 and your stalker was Michael Jackson?

 

[George P Burdell]

If I had a stalker, I'd be scared. If she was beautiful, I would be scared x 3.

 

[Don Vito Corleone]

Originally posted by: JEDI

Originally posted by: DonVito
I've had a couple of women stalk me to some extent (one actually moved from Oklahoma to Washington to follow me). It's not a good thing. I do my best to stay away from obviously wacky chicks, but sometimes one slips under the radar and you don't realize you have a problem until it's too late.

Why wasnt it not a good thing for you? Can you elaborate?

I would think that would be obvious. Actually I have a girl now who I briefly dated who shows up at my house unannounced from time to time. She also calls at inappropriate times (she called me at 11, then 11:30 on Friday, ostensibly to meet up (which I wouldn't have done), but in reality to check up on me and hopefully come over (yeah, right . . .).

I have taken to locking the door to my screen porch, because she's been known to come in and sit down, to either lie in wait for me or to call me from her cell phone and ask to be let in. It's disconcerting and irritating at best, and vaguely menacing at worst. She seems unstable and it makes me nervous. I am not interested in her, yet I can't be free from her. I don't want to get the police involved, and I can't imagine they'd do anything anyway, since she has never used or threatened violence, or outright refused to leave. I try to treat her with polite disinterest - hopefully she will just leave me alone eventually.

 

[PHiuR]

Originally posted by: George P Burdell
If she was beautiful, I would be scared x 3.

 

[T9D]

I get some semi stalker types.

I just had some girls call me from a blocked number. They said they know what I drink and told me about some things I did when I was out at a club one night. They wouldn't tell me who they were. Started asking if I'd have sex with them... and saying the didnt see my car in the parking lot....said a lot of wierd things. And kind of freaky things lol.

Every now and then I get phone calls from a blocked number and they will just hang up. Or they wont say anything for a bit and then hang up.

A while ago I got some random girl on aim trying to cyber with me. Another just sent me a message and then wouldn't talk to me. I think I may have found out who one of them is. Dont know who the other one is.

Maybe I'm being a bit paranoid on this one.... but I used to get a few hotties that would walk through my yard. I'd hear something and look out and see one on my property every now and then. Once one didn't see me and then I got up from pulling weeds and she was just standing on the edge of my property.... then she says hi and kind of trys to talk to me... then walks forward and walks towards me and through my yard. It's just.... odd. I dont know what to think about that. Looking back now I'm almost thinking one of them may have been one that eventually became my Girlfriend. I did meet her on the internet and gave her my address before I ever met her. Long after we broke up the blondes face kind of came back to me and you know it's very possible it could have been my now ex. Who knows. A few other wierd things too. I dont take it to serious unless someone starts breaking into my house or something. Guess thats what happens when I talk to women on the internet.

 

[Majician]

Cute girls can be just as F'd up in the head as ugly ones......If you've never met a person who's your number 1 fan how do you know that she would go to INCREDIBLE LENGTHS to keep that honor? (Killing people?) What would you do if your number one fan mailed you a package? Would you open it? How are you sure its not a Ted Kazynski special?

 

[Skunkwourk]

1) Sometimes people need alone to relax or collect their thoughts...
2) Yes, I equate stalking with unhealthy obsession
3) Even if she was hot, I'd be a little scared at the "potential" for trouble...

Originally posted by: Majician
Cute girls can be just as F'd up in the head as ugly ones......If you've never met a person who's your number 1 fan how do you know that she would go to INCREDIBLE LENGTHS to keep that honor? (Killing people?) What would you do if your number one fan mailed you a package? Would you open it? How are you sure its not a Ted Kazynski special?

Im getting flashbacks of "Misery"

 

[WildHorse]

Clint Eastwood did a movie about that

Play Misty for Me (1971)

You can make it if you try !!!

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: JEDI
"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

2) If YOU had a stalker, would you be freaked out? WHY?

2a) What if she was beautiful?

Jeffrey Dahmer was nice looking.

 

[Alex]

Originally posted by: newParadigm

Originally posted by: JEDI
"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

2) If YOU had a stalker, would you be freaked out? WHY?

2a) What if she was beautiful?

1) Cause they want privacy

2) Yes unless....

3) Than it'd be a no

true true and true! :beer:

 

[CptObvious]

I'm not charismatic or good looking enough to be stalked. Actually, the closest I've had to a stalker was in college, after one of my friends got divorced from another one of my friends. She called me like twice a day for several weeks, asking me to come over and such, but I didn't want to get involved in a rebound fling. After that she came to her senses.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: JEDI
"I'm your #1 fan."

1) Why do stars get freaked out when people stalk them? They're not meaning any harm. They just admire them.

2) If YOU had a stalker, would you be freaked out? WHY?

2a) What if she was beautiful?

Hot stalker!? kewl where do I sign up...

 

[acemcmac]

If I had a nickel for every time a chick showed up outside my old apartment at bedroom window, completley unannounced...

I didn't mind getting stalked too much... I do have to block everyone who isn't on my buddy list though....