When we were younger, my cousins and I were very close. My bro and I would sleep over and we would have some
great times together just chilling @ home playing games and watching movies. Fast forward to 2001 & now the new year,
and we hardly talk. Their family (my cousin's) broke up, parents separated, one boy and two girls left to live with their mom
in Atlanta, and the other three stayed in Philly to live with their pops. I never thought it would come down to this, and I always
thought we would always have a solid connection as we mature and grew older. However, things are starting to crumble, and
in a way I'm sad, but also don't feel like I owe much to them for the path they took.
I rceived a phone call from my cousin who was calling from the hospital. i thought of the worst case scenerio, but it was close enough.
A few weeks earlier, I heard my cousin got pregnant by sleeping with some married guy. Now she's 7 months pregnant, and the docs
made her stay overnight cuz her cervix was expanding or something. I could tell she needed my help cuz I was always there for her
5-6 years ago. In a way I wanna help as much as I could, but at the same time her and her brothers chose a different path from my
brother and I. We're in school now, and living a great life while they're suffering trying to make ends meet. It's sad to see anyone let
alone your own relatives, but I dont know. Why should I bother when I busted my a$$ off in school and work full time while they can
live off the system? I know it may sound mean and I'm coldhearted and all, but what got me was that my aunt doesnt want to deal
with them. She's moved on with her own family, and she doesnt care as much as she did. I have to admit that my cousins are on the bad
side, but the divorce really hurt their family.
Am I right for feeling this way? If it was my immediate family, would I feel different? Probably yes. I have my own problems to deal with,
and I don't want to stick myself into a position where I may get sucked into doing other things for them.
great times together just chilling @ home playing games and watching movies. Fast forward to 2001 & now the new year,
and we hardly talk. Their family (my cousin's) broke up, parents separated, one boy and two girls left to live with their mom
in Atlanta, and the other three stayed in Philly to live with their pops. I never thought it would come down to this, and I always
thought we would always have a solid connection as we mature and grew older. However, things are starting to crumble, and
in a way I'm sad, but also don't feel like I owe much to them for the path they took.
I rceived a phone call from my cousin who was calling from the hospital. i thought of the worst case scenerio, but it was close enough.
A few weeks earlier, I heard my cousin got pregnant by sleeping with some married guy. Now she's 7 months pregnant, and the docs
made her stay overnight cuz her cervix was expanding or something. I could tell she needed my help cuz I was always there for her
5-6 years ago. In a way I wanna help as much as I could, but at the same time her and her brothers chose a different path from my
brother and I. We're in school now, and living a great life while they're suffering trying to make ends meet. It's sad to see anyone let
alone your own relatives, but I dont know. Why should I bother when I busted my a$$ off in school and work full time while they can
live off the system? I know it may sound mean and I'm coldhearted and all, but what got me was that my aunt doesnt want to deal
with them. She's moved on with her own family, and she doesnt care as much as she did. I have to admit that my cousins are on the bad
side, but the divorce really hurt their family.
Am I right for feeling this way? If it was my immediate family, would I feel different? Probably yes. I have my own problems to deal with,
and I don't want to stick myself into a position where I may get sucked into doing other things for them.