It's embarrassing, but I don't blame you completely. You said you spent 13 years in NYC, so you've had plenty of psychological conditioning.
Is that why people feel safer walking the streets in gun-free NYC or Chicago, versus places that allow open carry without a permit? Of course not. Again, you've been conditioned to be afraid of firearms, and by association, firearms owners. This is unfortunate, and leads to situations like that where The Journal News supplied home addresses of law-abiding gun owners after Sandy Hook as if they were people to be feared.