Originally posted by: skywalker66
another message fo martymcfly3,
okay, so when u say meet friends to meet girls. u mean like meet friends that I can get tight with and hang out with, right?
Do you think that this can happen at bowling alleys, the Union, etc? or do you think this needs to happen at clubs?
When you say clubs, what types of clubs are you referring to?
Considering all your YAGTs....I think that would've quite a challenge for you anyway.so I can forget about having any time to go out and meet girls.
los·er n.
One that fails to win: the losers of the game.
One who takes loss in a specified way: a graceful loser; a poor loser.
One that fails consistently, especially a person with bad luck or poor skills: ?losers at home seeking wealth and glory in undeveloped countries? (Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr.).
One that is bad in quality: That book is a real loser.
the people at my school wont let me or my social interaction skills grow at all, because they treat me like I am a loser, and act like they would prefer not being around me.
I carry some vibe within me, which cannot be destroyed, some vibe that screams "loser" No matter how well I am dressed, no matter what I look like, no matter how smart I am, how many hobbies I have, etc. etc. something about me says "loser" and ppl dont want to give me the time of day.
of course I have. quite a few times actually, I'm not a total loser.ever been inside a girl's dorm?
I'm just worried that I'll gain the reputation of being the loser on campus, if a bunch of chicks turn me down.
from now on, those people who tell me just to stop focusing about girls.. forget those people! I am going to do my own thing. I am going to focus on girls and be a desperate loser, even if it means I get rejected 100 times before I find a girl that says yes.
I wouldnt call myself a loser for being obsessed about girls, I'd call myself human, and I wouldnt think less of a woman who thought the way I did either.
Let's face it, my attitude sucks, I'm an introvert, I make women out to be objects, I'm desperate, I'm a loser, and I should feel lucky if I get any woman at all, at any point in my lifetime, no matter how ugly she is.
Okay, here's the problem with human interaction...
I'll mess up so badly that, pretty soon girls will learn how much of a loser I am, and tell their friends, and I will have NO chance with women!!
frick,
i cant be myself, because being myself would mean being a shy kid that never has a life or talks to anyone, so then when I try to not be myself, sure i end up talking to people but make myself look like a loser instead.
so it's either shy person - who never talks, or loser - who never has anything good to say.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
another message fo martymcfly3,
Social life - Get out. Go to bowling alleys, go to the Union, Drink some beer, watch some movies. Join some clubs that share your interest. Through these clubs you should make some FRIENDS down there. Eventually through making friends you can meet...
okay, so when u say meet friends to meet girls. u mean like meet friends that I can get tight with and hang out with, right?
Do you think that this can happen at bowling alleys, the Union, etc? or do you think this needs to happen at clubs?
When you say clubs, what types of clubs are you referring to?
Originally posted by: spacelord
I partied my ass off, met alot of people, and walked out with a 3.3 GPA and an engineering degree.
school was a blast. work sucks.
Dude, not AT clubs as in Raves and sh!t like that, i mean Clubs as in Campus Organizations (Computer club for example)... Something extra-curricular that you can pad your resume with. You meet people here and can make friends.
Yes when I say friends I mean people you can "get tight" with... That is what friends are. You can make friends anywhere if you want. Hell I made a few just from having a class together. The key is TALK to people. Introduce yourself to the guy your stuck next to for the semester in class.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, I get what you are saying. I would have to agree, your suggestion about joining clubs is a good one. usually relationships are more meaningful if you meet someone in a club, than if u just met some random person off the street.
As far as friends and females go, I agree that it is handy to have friends if you want to meet some more females, but i dont believe that its a necessity. I mean, if I dont have a group of friends yet, I'm not going to let that hold me back from going around and trying to meet women. Having a girlfriend and having friends are both a good thing to have and I dont think there's any particular order in which you should get first.
just wanted to say that.
Originally posted by: Wahsapa
wtf do you know about relationships?
friends before women, family before friends.
Originally posted by: Dopefiend
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, I get what you are saying. I would have to agree, your suggestion about joining clubs is a good one. usually relationships are more meaningful if you meet someone in a club, than if u just met some random person off the street.
As far as friends and females go, I agree that it is handy to have friends if you want to meet some more females, but i dont believe that its a necessity. I mean, if I dont have a group of friends yet, I'm not going to let that hold me back from going around and trying to meet women. Having a girlfriend and having friends are both a good thing to have and I dont think there's any particular order in which you should get first.
just wanted to say that.
No- friends always, always come first. They'll be there when girlfriends leave you. Not the other way around.
Originally posted by: alm4rr
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Well...
I suck at time management.
Apparently you suck at more than that. Get your priorities straight and things will fall into place.
Originally posted by: Xionide
Originally posted by: Isshinryu
There's only one solution. Drop out and become a hobo.
They go hand in hand :roll:
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Dopefiend
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Okay, I get what you are saying. I would have to agree, your suggestion about joining clubs is a good one. usually relationships are more meaningful if you meet someone in a club, than if u just met some random person off the street.
As far as friends and females go, I agree that it is handy to have friends if you want to meet some more females, but i dont believe that its a necessity. I mean, if I dont have a group of friends yet, I'm not going to let that hold me back from going around and trying to meet women. Having a girlfriend and having friends are both a good thing to have and I dont think there's any particular order in which you should get first.
just wanted to say that.
No- friends always, always come first. They'll be there when girlfriends leave you. Not the other way around.
are you saying that I should turn down a hot girl who approaches, just because I dont have any friends right now?
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Dopefiend
No- friends always, always come first. They'll be there when girlfriends leave you. Not the other way around.
are you saying that I should turn down a hot girl who approaches, just because I dont have any friends right now?
Originally posted by: brigden
JESUS H. CHRIST, SON. THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU. SEEK PROFESSIONAL PSYCHIATRIC HELP. THEY WILL GIVE YOU DRUGS. YOU WILL FEEL BETTER.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Well...
I just got my ass kicked for putting off my homework for too long.
I suck at time management.