So, unless you get a smaller die size or increase your volumes(sales) you dont have lower cost. You can also lengthen your node transitions in order to achieve more volume over time.
They are getting smaller, though. Broadwell's already proof of this, at least with the U and Y series. They're about 66% of the size of Haswell-U/Y. Sandy Bridge and Ivy Bridge were about 73% of the size of their predecessors. So the die sizes are a bit more aggressive from a cost standpoint, and we'll probably see this more as time goes on. Perhaps they've also done some additional areal efficiency optimizations.
Ignoring eDRAM, Broadwell-K (4+3) would actually still be smaller, and probably not insignificantly so, than Haswell 4+2. With the eDRAM, it could still end up being below 200mm2 of die. Probably very unlikely, because scaling is never perfect, but it shouldn't be too far above the 200mm2 mark, especially if they've managed to shrink the die size of their second gen eDRAM.
You can reduce the die size of the CPUs but not of the GPUs. And here comes the problem for AMD and Intel with the APUs. You can reduce the size of the four CPU Cores, but you have to increase the iGPU size at the same time. So you are loosing what ever advantage you got from the higher density.
Same problem AMD and NVIDIA faces with higher cost in the dGPUs with each new node. They cannot decrease the die size because they will lost performance, they cannot increase volumes so the only thing they can do is increase the product price and lengthen the time from one node to the other.
I think the IGP war is going to start leveling off, personally. AMD's gone too far, and they need to start focusing on cost. The bandwidth wall isn't helping matters. Perhaps an increased focus on efficiency (a la Maxwell), combined with next year's affordable DDR4 will buy them some time, if they continue their strategy, but they should focus on cost, IMO. Intel's having to keep costs down too, as they enter an increasingly competitive market.
Nvidia and AMD's 20nm GPU dies are probably going to be rather small compared to historic norms. For this reason, it's not a huge deal for Intel to not continue focusing on IGPs as much as they have for their mainstream products. However, given the existence of a GT4e Skylake part, they may make a serious attempt to take further market share from dGPUs in the AIO and notebook market. GT3e Skylake and Broadwell would also both cost a lot less than GT3e Haswell, so they may see some success with that configuration.
And this is why Intel trying so hard to get in to the mobile market, because they have high volumes and that will keep them in a position to continue with new nodes. But i believe that even Intel will start to lengthen its node transition as it seams from 22nm onwards.
Edit: This is another reason why Intel wants to go for the 450mm wafers, to reduce the cost of the die.
I don't see Intel being shy to spend extra money to keep their transition times down; it's one of the greatest advantages they have. They've already already been spending that money, for one. They're spending it on new nodes, and they're spending it on Atom.
As people have observed, Intel's been spending money at an unsustainable rate, relative to the returns they are getting on those investments. Obviously they wouldn't be doing it if they didn't expect to eventually recoup those losses. They need to be aggressive to capture market share in the tablet/phone space, and they also need to be aggressive to keep competitors out of their territory.