YAG(uy)T

[BoomerD]

Nah, he's NO GOOD for you...me on theother hand...
oh, sorry, the pic of your new haircut got my blood pumping....

Give it time. it sounds like it's too early to make any real judgment yet, especially since you both are somewhat shy...if it works out so you can have a couple more dates, then just enjoy that, and maybe be glad he's not being aggressive and only has ONE thing on his mind... (like the rest of us...)

 

[lupi]

Umm, let him hit it and see how he acts?












/pulls up asbestos threaded blankie

 

[AUMM]

i bet you somewhere on antoher forum he's posting the same message wondering whether you like him or not...

 

[OmahaTaz]

It soundz like you've been moved to the "Friends tree". Just kiddin!

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

 

[SearchMaster]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

Sadly, it sounds like he's the type of guy a lot of girls SAY they want, but really don't. I hope things work out for you two though.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: SearchMaster

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

Sadly, it sounds like he's the type of guy a lot of girls SAY they want, but really don't. I hope things work out for you two though.

He's the kind of guy (that I've seen so far anyway) I really do want. He may end up being different than I thought and that would change my mind, but for now. . .that's honestly what I want.

 

[bamacre]

Originally posted by: sixone
This is exactly why I try to avoid shy guys like the plague. You never know where you are with them, and even if you do make a move, you never know whether they're really into it, or secretly afraid to tell you to back off.

Just go with your gut, and good luck!!

/me is not shy

 

[Aikouka]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lots of info...

Yeah, it sounds like a lot of the comments here are correct, he seems like that shy, nice guy who never usually gets a chance, because girls prefer guys who try to jump down their pants . Kind of like what SearchMaster mentioned.

Good luck with everything :thumbsup:!

 

[Chrono]

Wow. You look good. Much different than from what I recall from pictures of the past.

On a side note... why not ask his roommates if he has talked about you? Hmm.... or maybe check his crouch area to see if he has a bulge... most likely he likes you.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

That explains a lot!

He seems like a stand up guy from how you describe him.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

Wow, he sounds like a keeper!!

 

[bamacre]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl

Originally posted by: SearchMaster

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

Sadly, it sounds like he's the type of guy a lot of girls SAY they want, but really don't. I hope things work out for you two though.

He's the kind of guy (that I've seen so far anyway) I really do want. He may end up being different than I thought and that would change my mind, but for now. . .that's honestly what I want.

Again, I know you said you are shy in these kinds of situations, but just try your best at communicating with him. It's an aquired behavior, and I know for a fact that the more you try, the better you'll get at it, and the easier it will come for you. Communication is key, just remember that. I used to fear rejection like everyone else, but the more I got rejected, the less it effected me. Just give it a shot, and trust me, no matter how it turns out, you're going to be a better and happier person for it.

 

[Stojakapimp]

Is this a serious thread? Since when does kissing on a girl on the cheek during a movie not qualify for liking said girl? Seems completely obvious to me that he likes you

 

[KK]

Originally posted by: Stojakapimp
Is this a serious thread? Since when does kissing on a girl on the cheek during a movie not qualify for liking said girl? Seems completely obvious to me that he likes you

no sh1t, that's pretty obvious he likes her. now the next move would be a quick hand job in the movies, jk.

 

[paulxcook]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
Lol @ most of the replies!

I have a feeling like most of you, that he's shy. (I'm hoping...haha) He was engaged a long while ago. He got burned. I don't know when his last relationship was, but I'll find out.

I'm trying to remember some of the questions:

He pays for everything. I've offered, but he refuses. I invited him to go to my grandmother's 80th birthday party with me on the 24th of the month and told him that I'd pay! haha He's seems like the kind of guy that most girls would like. If we're all in his living room watching tv and I get my sweater out and cover up with it, he jumps up and grabs a blanket. We'd gone out to eat right before the movie last night, so we didn't need anything to eat IN the movie, but I was still thirsty. The girl and I used the restroom before the movie and before I went in, I'd told her that I wanted to get a water before we saw the movie. When we got out, he already bought a water for both of us. I don't know, that might seem like no big deal to most, but thoughtfulness goes a LOOOONG way in my book.

I'll try to leave a little more hints or take his arm while walking or something like that. I honestly don't want it to move too too fast because I don't to screw it up.

No pics of him. I hate posting pictures of people online without their permission unless I already know that they don't mind. So you're all just stuck with pics of me, once again.

And yes....I, ironically, have hazel eyes! Go figure!! heehee

Based on this alone I would bet $200 that he likes you. Any takers?

J/K. Seriously, though, I'm sure he does. Good luck, I hope you make each other happy.

 

[Leros]

If he's anything like me, he likes you but he's too afraid to make a move until he completely convinces himself that you like him back. Yes, I'm a coward. Make a move first and everything should flow from there.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Stojakapimp
Is this a serious thread? Since when does kissing on a girl on the cheek during a movie not qualify for liking said girl? Seems completely obvious to me that he likes you

No kidding. Girls overthink stuff way too much. This guy likes her but is too shy.

 

[amicold]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
I've a question. I met a guy that loooves going to the movies. (Met him online and started talking because we have that in common) We've been going to the movies a lot. I can't tell if he likes me likes me or just likes me as a friend to go to the movies with. Last night was the first night that he sort of leaned in against me in the show and then gave me a kiss on the cheek. Then tonight we went out with one of his roommates (the girlfriend of one of his others). He didn't act the same as last night. (Like kiss on the cheek, etc...) He's always totally chivalrous, opening doors and all that sh!t and is totally sweet. We have tons in common and I'm the first friend that he's brought back home since he's lived there. (11 months) His roommates seem to like me and the girl really does. She is gonna call me tomorrow to come over. I was going to go to the movies with him and his parents today, but they couldn't make it, so we're all going to go see "Amazing Grace" next weekend, I believe.

Would he have me meet his roomies/parents if I'm just a friend? I haven't dated in a looong time (broke up with my fiance in August and we haven't even really called these "dates", it's always been just that we're going to the movies or whatever) like this, so don't know what to think. I just don't know if he's interested because I just can't read him yet.

Opinions???



EDIT:

Update

Okay, here are the pics.

Pics: Geez. haha I got my hair cut today.
Gotta have a typical typical intarweb pic, right?
Satisfied?

he sounds hard to read at this point. (and they say females are complicated )

if you are fine with going on these movie dates then continue. things should progress either way with your relationship in time, don't you think?

i really like your haircut.

Theres nothing hard to read here, he's waiting for an opportunity to whip it out. Trust me, he's interested and just shy, he didn't get a big reaction from his kiss so he's second guessing himself.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: Stojakapimp
Is this a serious thread? Since when does kissing on a girl on the cheek during a movie not qualify for liking said girl? Seems completely obvious to me that he likes you

Aye aye aye! Keep reading down the thread. It wasn't DURING the movie!!! haha It was at my car when I was leaving to go home. Goodness. If it was during the movie, I would have turned my head and he would have gotten more than my cheek. Because it was such a quick kiss on the cheek when I was hugging him bye at my car, I didn't really have a chance to react and I was surprised.

I'm still waiting for his roommate to give me a call. She thought she was getting out of school early today, but no call yet. Hopefully she's still free today. She's really cool too, which is a bonus. New friends (even if HE stays as a friend) are always a nice thing to have!!

 

[lupi]

You could always give him a box in a box.

 

[KarmaPolice]

What happened to your chair?

 

[scootermaster]

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl

Originally posted by: scootermaster

Originally posted by: hzl eyed grl
I've a question. I met a guy that loooves going to the movies. (Met him online and started talking because we have that in common) We've been going to the movies a lot. I can't tell if he likes me likes me or just likes me as a friend to go to the movies with. Last night was the first night that he sort of leaned in against me in the show and then gave me a kiss on the cheek. Then tonight we went out with one of his roommates (the girlfriend of one of his others). He didn't act the same as last night. (Like kiss on the cheek, etc...) He's always totally chivalrous, opening doors and all that sh!t and is totally sweet. We have tons in common and I'm the first friend that he's brought back home since he's lived there. (11 months) His roommates seem to like me and the girl really does. She is gonna call me tomorrow to come over. I was going to go to the movies with him and his parents today, but they couldn't make it, so we're all going to go see "Amazing Grace" next weekend, I believe.

Would he have me meet his roomies/parents if I'm just a friend? I haven't dated in a looong time (broke up with my fiance in August and we haven't even really called these "dates", it's always been just that we're going to the movies or whatever) like this, so don't know what to think. I just don't know if he's interested because I just can't read him yet.

Opinions???

I thought you were married or something.

Hmmm Read the part that's in bold in the above paragraph.

bamacre - He's not homosexual! haha I'm definitely hoping he wants to date.

freedomsbeat212 - Totally want to date him. :thumbsup:

Pics: Geez. haha I got my hair cut today.
Gotta have a typical typical intarweb pic, right?
Satisfied?

Bummer. I'm tall, attractive, good in bed, smart, funny. Generally all around perfect guy.

Wanna hump?

 

[JulesMaximus]

Could just be shy? What kind of signals are you sending him?

BTW-You look great! :thumbsup:

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Stojakapimp
Is this a serious thread? Since when does kissing on a girl on the cheek during a movie not qualify for liking said girl? Seems completely obvious to me that he likes you

Maybe he's a cannibal and he was just tasting her to see if he'd like to eat her?