YAGT: 3 girls, 3 questions

brandonb

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#1 Cliffs
-Ex girlfriend, have no interest in ever dating her again at this point. Probably never win.
-Still friends, calls me once every 3 weeks to tell me all the new drama in her life.
-I find myself not really caring much, but I feel for her.
-Thought about cutting her off, but seems like bad karma, and she hasn't really done anything wrong.
-Do I?

#2 Cliffs
-While I was breaking up with Girl #1, Girl #2 entered life. I sorta blew her off until I knew Girl #1 has finally gone so I didn't have to introduce drama into Girl #2's life.
-A month later, I pursued Girl #2 as I was certain Girl #1 moved on. Girl #2 blew me off. Last communication March 1st.
-Today (2 months later) she emails me wanting to talk and meet up and get to know each other better.
-Do I bother?

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#3 Cliffs
-A week ago I met another gal. During the last week we talked abit. She is super shy, and is hard to open up and crack the shell.
-She made a comment to me Thursday about how she was thinking about me alot. Is that weird? I joked around and made a light hearted comment. Then she said "I don't want to freak you out!"
-Since then it seems she has lost some interest. Either because of my response, or she is afraid of freaking me out.
-Yesterday she tells me she was going to a singles party that night (but not for me to worry.) But she didn't know if she was gonna stay long. I told her to call me if she left early and we can chit chat.
-I sent her an email today telling her I thought about her quite a bit too as a way to let her know I did not blow off her comment.
-She hasn't IMed me, emailed me, or called me at all. Which is strange she normally talks to me all the time. As a matter of fact, as I type this she logged into instant messenger but logged out right away.
-Is this doomed? I can't tell with shy girls they are sorta more subtle in their feelings and indications.

Pic removed, no need to have it on internet forever

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I like 3 the most so far. But I don't necessarily want 2 to fall through the cracks either until I know what is up with 3... I have a feeling 3 won't let me talk to 1 if we were to ever to date.

PS. I like nerdy girls if you can't figure that out. Lol.
 
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You know what I Think about with this topic?

3 girls, 3 questions.

1) Whom would you push off a cliff
2) Whom would you have a one night stand with?
3) Whom would you marry but NEVER touch?
 

postmortemIA

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ewwwwwwwww chick^H^H^H^H^H^H grandma with two kids on the pic #3! everybody DO NOT CLICK
 

brandonb

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Originally posted by: postmortemIA
ewwwwwwwww chick^H^H^H^H^H^H grandma with two kids on the pic #3! everybody DO NOT CLICK

I love ATOT. It's always so entertaining. (I love the responses btw)

29 years old = Grandma? Lol. I'm 31 btw.
 

Rogodin2

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Most moms with two kids look worse-she's cute in a strange sort of way.

Though I wouldn't even include her as an option.

Rogo
 

brandonb

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Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3

ATOT LAW #237: All pics posted should be of magazine quality.


And ATOT Law #238: All pics of chicks need to be hot and show underboobs. No nappy headed ho's allowed.
 
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#1 She's an ex for a reason. If there's no hope for casual sex I'd move on.

#2 Umm... Sounds like your best bet.

#3 Oy... women with kids. No. (That's a personal rule - You may have other rules)

#4 Find a #4.
 

pcnerd37

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Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
#1 She's an ex for a reason. If there's no hope for casual sex I'd move on.

#2 Umm... Sounds like your best bet.

#3 Oy... women with kids. No. (That's a personal rule - You may have other rules)

#4 Find a #4.

I completely agree with that rule. If I find out a girl has kids, I run the other way!
 

IEC

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#2

Run away from #3

Alternatively, find #4 and win.
 

postmortemIA

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Originally posted by: brandonb
Originally posted by: postmortemIA
ewwwwwwwww chick^H^H^H^H^H^H grandma with two kids on the pic #3! everybody DO NOT CLICK

I love ATOT. It's always so entertaining. (I love the responses btw)

29 years old = Grandma? Lol. I'm 31 btw.

Why you want to deal with two kids that are not yours??
 

JEDI

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Originally posted by: Sinsear
Originally posted by: MartyMcFly3
Wow I can ALMOST see what these girls look like.

At least he put up pics...

then he took down the pics

cut off #1.. no need to here he whine if you're not getting any

#2 sounds flakey.. use her for as long as she'll put up w/it.

#3 seems like the obiedient submissive type. this is yopur future wife and mother of yopur shildren!
 

doze

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Girl #1 ... I still talk to my ex once or twice a month, and I don't really give a crap either but I was in love with her back in the day and we dated for a long time. We don't live in the same state any more but occasionally when I go home to visit friends I get some

Girl #2 ... sounds like something better came and went so now she's back to you, don't put forth much effort

Girl #3 ... 2 kids seriously?
 

brandonb

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Well. I got girl #3 to talk to me a bit more. So this is my update 2 days later. Talked in IM tonight and I got a shocking message. I don't think it was intended for me, but she let something slip.

Brandon says:
what the heck is wrong with your car.? lol
Trinity says:
ask me later about how Joe tried to make me feel bad... he said I was being "distant"
Trinity says:
I wish I knew what was wrong... it would help me out immensely!

So apparently she let something slip into my IM window.

Brandon says:
Who is Joe? /boggle
Trinity says:
oh, sorry... my former husband
Brandon says:
Was that message to me? Seemed kinda out of place there.
Trinity says:
Yes, LOL... Joe is my former husband and he tried to make me feel bad by saying I was being "distant" on the phone with him
Trinity says:
and I wish I knew what was wrong with my car.... LOL
Brandon says:
I think I opened Pandora's box or something...
Trinity says:
lol... why?
Brandon says:
I dunno.... Just curious, what difference does it make if Joe thinks you were being distant anyhow?
Trinity says:
he tries to make me feel bad... and it used to work... but not anymore... I told him I am moving on with my life...
Brandon says:
Didn't you do that when you got divorced in 2005?
Trinity says:
he didn't really like that... he actually started to pout... and then he said "FINE", which made me laugh and say, "bye"
Brandon says:
Your courage is admirable.
Trinity says:
no, I was still really emotionally involved with him... it has taken a lot of work on my part...
Brandon says:
Its hard to give up on someone you love. We've all had to deal with things like that at one point or another.
Trinity says:
yes, it is tough...
Brandon says:
So do you think you are really over him at this point?
Trinity says:
YES!!!
Brandon says:
So did I piss you off asking that?
Trinity says:
no, talking to my former sister in law on the phone...
Trinity says:
I should be off in a while

It's 11:22pm and talking to former sister in law, probably about the ex husband, which even though its been 2 years since their divorce is way more important than talking to me. I feel she is going to be nothing but drama and baggage. I guess those ATOT'ers who said "avoid her" had a hunch that I didn't see. Now I am going to wait for her to get back to me before I tell her I'm not into the entire baggage/drama thing...
 

Fineghal

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Nice usage of poll btw...

OP, this is my only comment: Keep #1 around. Why you may ask?
You never know when you'll need something.

Seriously, it takes what, 15 minutes, half an hour every 3 weeks to maintain this. That isn't a lot.
Cynical? Yes, but true.

After-thought: After reading that IM bit. Run from the 3rd. Honestly? You kind of sound like a rebound.

But hey, best of luck.

You could casually date 2/3 and then decide. My 2 bits.
 

zerocool84

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Don't talk to EX any more since it will just bring up drama you don't need anymore. Remeber she is your ex for a reason. If you keep on talking to her you will never forget about her to be able to move on or at least not talk to her for a couple months so you can forget about her. Just tell her you want to move on. #2 girl; you can go out with her once to see if you hit it off, doesn't hurt to try once but make sure it's only once. #3 girl probably got weired out. Don't bug her anymore than you already say you have because you don't want to seem desperate. She will contact you if she really wants to.
 

toolboxolio

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OP dates ugly women...


for that, I cannot give you any wisdom.


but I can say............................................................................
. TTIWWOP!!!!!!!!!!!!

But I understand why..... (fat skanks).













For serious, man.... wtf. 3 girls and not even a pic?
 
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