YAGT: Bored UPDATED!!!

[Stiganator]

But maybe, subconsciously, I do have a problem with it! No pics, they are not relevant to the situation.

 

[iroast]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
Our relations are kinky and copious, so no problems there.

That seems to be the problem. You have it too easy. No challenge.

You might want to slow down in that department and see what happens.

Try new restaurants, new attractions (theme parks, arboretum, museums, hikes, trips, etc)

Above all, don't live together until you're married.

 

[Stiganator]

In your experiences, have 'breaks' been sucessful or have they led to permanent breakups?

 

[bigrash]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
But maybe, subconsciously, I do have a problem with it! No pics, they are not relevant to the situation.

SHENS! Pics are always relevant to a YAGT thread.

 

[iroast]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
In your experiences, have 'breaks' been sucessful or have they led to permanent breakups?

From what I've seen, breaks is nice talk for break-up.

Don't quit so easily. Try to make it work and then you can call it quits. I see alot of divorces in your future if you don't try harder now.

 

[mrrman]

take up a hobby

 

[zephyrprime]

I've never seen a situation where it was the guy that wanted drama until now.

Was your mom an emotionally distant or crazy psycho woman by chance?

 

[MisterJackson]

Just means you're not into women, you're likely into dudes.....

Seriously though, I've gotten that way before, but never with the perfect woman (haven't found her yet....standards for that are too high and unrealistic anyway!).

I tend to have an issue where if I have the girl I don't really care, I won't do much to show my appreciation for her. The only time I'll really show her attention is when she grows tired of my apathy and wants to leave. Then I'll give her just enough attention to get her back and repeat the process all over again in a month or two.

It's a really bad pattern, and I don't know why I do it. I've only become aware of the full extnt of this problem lately and I a trying to change it.

 

[Stiganator]

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
I've never seen a situation where it was the guy that wanted drama until now.

Was your mom an emotionally distant or crazy psycho woman by chance?

Don't want drama. Just want it to be like when we met again. You know its a little more exciting and such.

 

[ScottFern]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: Stiganator
So, I've been seeing this fine young lass for about 3 months. Things are great. She's smart, funny, cute-the whole shibang. She isn't clingy or anything. Our relations are kinky and copious, so no problems there.

Yet, I find myself bored. When I think about it, there is nothing wrong. I don't know what to do. Thoughts?

Cliffs:
1. Hot, smart, funny gf
2. Everything I can think of is there, but just isn't exciting anymore...

Sometimes things are too easy.

It's one of humanity's great contradictions, we hate the struggle but we can't live without it.

If things are drifting apart.. well.. it's just not interesting enough for you.

So very true.

 

[nakedfrog]

Sex in public?

 

[Mr Incognito]

Originally posted by: zephyrprime
I've never seen a situation where it was the guy that wanted drama until now.

Was your mom an emotionally distant or crazy psycho woman by chance?

Yah, what the hell? I mean, this is a situation I can only dream of. Just go to new places, ask her if she wants to try a new restaurant or go to a new park or something. God damn, fix this now or you will be kicking yourself in a month.

 

[joecool]

dude, if the sex is good, stick with it! you don't know how lucky you are. believe me when i say, you may think sex isn't all that important right now, but wait til your only getting it 1/month at best. a little boredom would be well worth a great time in the sack!

 

[GuitarDaddy]

You never appreciate what you have until its gone

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: FallenHero
It usually happens when the mad dash at the start wears off. If you can push through it and make her a best friend as well as a lover, you got it made.

:thumbsup:

 

[zinfamous]

Do you guys go out together, go on trips, explore, whatever? If the only common interests you have are hanging at your place and sex, then what's the point? See if you can have fun together on a road trip, or something outside of your common routine. You'll learn a lot with that...