YAGT: Bored UPDATED!!!

[Stiganator]

So, I've been seeing this fine young lass for about 3 months. Things are great. She's smart, funny, cute-the whole shibang. She isn't clingy or anything. Our relations are kinky and copious, so no problems there.

Yet, I find myself bored. When I think about it, there is nothing wrong. I don't know what to do. Thoughts?

Cliffs:
1. Hot, smart, funny gf
2. Everything I can think of is there, but just isn't exciting anymore...

EDIT:
Brought her home this weekend, all seemed well. I think either the 'honeymoon is over or maybe we're just too alike. She does sleep over 5+ nights per week. I don't think I mind, but maybe its a subconscious thing? Should I ask for a break or what would be your best advice?

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
So, I've been seeing this fine young lass for about 3 months. Things are great. She's smart, funny, cute-the whole shibang. She isn't clingy or anything. Our relations are kinky and copious, so no problems there.

Yet, I find myself bored. When I think about it, there is nothing wrong. I don't know what to do. Thoughts?

Cliffs:
1. Hot, smart, funny gf
2. Everything I can think of is there, but just isn't exciting anymore...

Sometimes things are too easy.

It's one of humanity's great contradictions, we hate the struggle but we can't live without it.

If things are drifting apart.. well.. it's just not interesting enough for you.

 

[blamb425]

I can't be too specific, and forgive me for being absurdly general, but it's really the only way to do something without pushing you in a direction. Try new things with her...sorry if you can't make sense of that, but that's my advice.

 

[redgtxdi]

TTIWWP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




Xinfinity

 

[drinkmorejava]

Beat yourself into coming up with ideas. It's the only way, and I'm still trying to figure it out. I have a number of things right now that I'd like to do, but they all use copious amounts of $$$ too.

 

[Stiganator]

I'm beginning to think that maybe its a medical thing. Is it possible that my yellow fever came out of remission?

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
I'm beginning to think that maybe its a medical thing. Is it possible that my yellow fever came out of remission?

Yellow fever.. asian fever? What?

And I think if you have to force yourself into thinking new things, then you're in essence forcing the relationship.

Thats not a good thing.

 

[dmcowen674]

Originally posted by: Stiganator
So, I've been seeing this fine young lass for about 3 months. Things are great. She's smart, funny, cute-the whole shibang. She isn't clingy or anything. Our relations are kinky and copious, so no problems there.

Yet, I find myself bored. When I think about it, there is nothing wrong. I don't know what to do.
Thoughts?

Another girl or a couple

 

[y2kc]

What to do?

Remember the lean times and appreciate what you have?

Read the pathetic YAGTs on here and appreciate what you have?

Go out and talk to a few married guys (not newlywed) and appreciate what you have?

sound feasable?

 

[MainFramed]

dude, drama, mess something/ it uppp

like that one episode of scrubs

 

[bleeb]

Increase the kinkiness.

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: y2kc
What to do?

Remember the lean times and appreciate what you have?

Read the pathetic YAGTs on here and appreciate what you have?

Go out and talk to a few married guys (not newlywed) and appreciate what you have?

sound feasable?

A perfect relationship is almost as bad as a totally dysfunctional one.

 

[Stiganator]

I'll see if I can ride it out. Once I graduate, I'll have more time and $$$ to hike and camp and junk. Maybe its the just the cold weather making me feel bored.

 

[FallenHero]

It usually happens when the mad dash at the start wears off. If you can push through it and make her a best friend as well as a lover, you got it made.

 

[Nutdotnet]

Do you LIKE her?

Really think about that...

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: y2kc
What to do?

Remember the lean times and appreciate what you have?

Read the pathetic YAGTs on here and appreciate what you have?

Go out and talk to a few married guys (not newlywed) and appreciate what you have?

sound feasable?

A perfect relationship is almost as bad as a totally dysfunctional one.

"perfection" implies that there's no boredom (an imperfection) so that does not apply here.

lol, you guys don't know what you want.

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: y2kc

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: y2kc
What to do?

Remember the lean times and appreciate what you have?

Read the pathetic YAGTs on here and appreciate what you have?

Go out and talk to a few married guys (not newlywed) and appreciate what you have?

sound feasable?

A perfect relationship is almost as bad as a totally dysfunctional one.

"perfection" implies that there's no boredom (an imperfection) so that does not apply here.

lol, you guys don't know what you want.

Quite the contrary, if he didn't know what he wanted he wouldn't be posting this thread at all.

Clearly you're an idiot.

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: y2kc

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: y2kc
What to do?

Remember the lean times and appreciate what you have?

Read the pathetic YAGTs on here and appreciate what you have?

Go out and talk to a few married guys (not newlywed) and appreciate what you have?

sound feasable?

A perfect relationship is almost as bad as a totally dysfunctional one.

"perfection" implies that there's no boredom (an imperfection) so that does not apply here.

lol, you guys don't know what you want.

Quite the contrary, if he didn't know what he wanted he wouldn't be posting this thread at all.

Clearly you're an idiot.

wow dude, didn't mean to ruffle your feathers but hey.

anyway in regards to the OP my original statement stands... and if it's that bad, dump her and find someone that lacks in areas you need and enjoy the struggle....

 

[pcnerd37]

Pics or BAN!

 

[Stiganator]

update

 

[Stiganator]

update

 

[bigrash]

If you're bored in your relationship, that only means that you're not having enough threesomes.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

she isnt clingy but spends 5 nights a week at your house?

 

[AkumaX]

TTIWWP

 

[Stiganator]

Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
she isnt clingy but spends 5 nights a week at your house?

I don't see that as clingy. She doesn't expect to go with me places unless I ask her, so if she's over and the guys call up and want to go to the bar, I go to the bar. Its more or less that we just sleep together. If I have hw or what have you, I do it. She draws or reads or what have you.