YAGT: College guys: Would you go out w/ a high school chick?

[hypn0tik]

My gf is 1.5 years older then me but we're both in University. I wouldn't recommend dating someone in HS though if you are in College.

 

[Sentinel]

fvck no, no highschool.

 

[miketheidiot]

Originally posted by: loki8481

Originally posted by: zendari

Originally posted by: Mo0o
Is she going to the same college as you? Or will you guys be in close proximity?

She is to be a senior in high school. Hasn't chosen a college yet.

Obviously this can be nothing long term, I don't look at it that way. The question is whether immaturity will be a problem in the short term.

there's really only one way to find out.

:thumbsup:

what do you have to lose? :evil:

 

[imported_Kensai]

Originally posted by: ELP
If there's grass on the field...

play ball.

 

[quakefiend420]

i say do it, just don't expect anything really serious and have fun

 

[Tiamat]

NO, unless you want massive drama.

 

[Isla]

Zendari

As the mother of a daughter who will be a senior in highschool this year...

With all your talk about abortion, you need to realize that MANY unwanted pregnancies arise from the relationships of teenage girls and their older boyfriends. No matter how strong you think you are, you are getting into very dangerous territory here.

Children in our modern society are very slow to mature (many 30 year olds are still babies, IMHO!) and no matter how wise and mature the two of you think you are, when hormones take over, all bets are off.

In the END, you will be the one to make sure nothing happens. Can you handle that?

 

[Mik3y]

seal the deal, dude.

 

[jEnus]

I did it for 2 years. Tap that thing for the summer and go back to college. Don't leave on bad terms incase you want some more for next summer.

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: jEnus
I did it for 2 years. Tap that thing for the summer and go back to college. Don't leave on bad terms incase you want some more for next some.

Zendari

If you are strongly pro life, please tell me this isn't the way you think!!!!

 

[Isla]

Originally posted by: crumpet19
I'm 22. My GF is 18. She'll be starting her first year this fall. Workin good so far.

My daughter will be 18 late this year, her boyfriend will be 21. They've known each other since they were kids on the playground. It works out well, but they are very serious about life in general.

They will probably start getting more intimate soon, and I'm fine with that. It's meaningful and not just 'getting some'.

 

[radioouman]

Do it!

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: thomsbrain
if she's 18, then yeah, it's "ok." but here's the thing. you've probably (hopefully!) done a lot of growing up since leaving for college... she is still in a different world. expect drama for ridiculous reasons, jealousy about the girls at your school, endless conversations about inconsequential high-school-style gossip, etc. basically, if you're capable of having a fulfilling relationship with her, it's probably because you're immature! BUT, fulfilling is fulfilling, no matter why, so if you like her and she likes you and it's good, then go for it.

you know this actually makes sense. fulfilling is fulfilling.

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: crumpet19
I'm 22. My GF is 18. She'll be starting her first year this fall. Workin good so far.

My daughter will be 18 late this year, her boyfriend will be 21. They've known each other since they were kids on the playground. It works out well, but they are very serious about life in general.

They will probably start getting more intimate soon, and I'm fine with that. It's meaningful and not just 'getting some'.

sounds like my situation in three years...

 

[pclstyle]

definitely call her at least, maybe you guys can become friends with benefits or whatever. once she goes to college, she's sure to meet some cute friends as well. it'd just be stupid to avoid her completely.

for the love of god, don't expect a serious relationship to develop out of it though.

 

[SouthPaW1227]

I started dating my current g/f when I was a Junior in HS and she a soph. There's about 2 actual years difference in our age.

My freshman year in college she was a senior in HS, the most mature girl I've ever met at that age.

As you can see in my sig., after nearly 4 years together things couldn't be better, at least until Friday

Make sure she's mature, and go for it!

 

[zebano]

 

[RedRooster]

Your age - your age + 13. Sounds within the limits to me. Giggety giggety goo.

 

[zebano]

You really have nothing to lose. If she is too immature, cut it off quick, otherwise you may have a memorable summer. Just don't expect a long term relationship.

btw I can't answer this w/o pics.

 

[Saint Nick]

Originally posted by: zebano

that makes perfect sense... how could i have not thought of that before/!?1/1ONE

 

[zebano]

Originally posted by: RedRooster
Your age - your age + 13. Sounds within the limits to me. Giggety giggety goo.

I think you meant
Your age - her age + 13

otherwise you always get 13!! whoohoo everybodies fair game

 

[pclstyle]

Originally posted by: RedRooster
Your age - your age + 13. Sounds within the limits to me. Giggety giggety goo.

20 y/o and 13 y/o by that logic.

 

[PingSpike]

Highschool girls...really only good for sleeping with. Women don't even start to get unretarded until their early 20s.

 

[imported_Kensai]

:camera:s?

 

[imported_Kensai]

Originally posted by: PingSpike
Highschool girls...really only good for sleeping with. Women don't even start to get unretarded until their early 20s.

:laugh:

 

[AdamSnow]

I did...