YAGT: confused about a girl

[SubZeroX]

So this girl I know always ignores me or hardly talks to me when I see her, but when I call her, we always have a ton to stuff to talk about and and always last for a long time. I wonder what the hell the problem is when I see her.

 

[gigapet]

i've experienced this with a lot of girls....well more from the point of view that online they are extremely talkative...and outgoing then when face to face they are reserve dand shy...not sure what the phenomenom is about but it usually changes after you bang them.

 

[TheAudit]

1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

 

[HardcoreRobot]

girls can talk on the phone for unlimited amounts of time to anyone about anything. you arent that special.

 

[Blindman]

Originally posted by: HardcoreRobot
girls can talk on the phone for unlimited amounts of time to anyone about anything. you arent that special.

That is so true. I have to agree.

 

[SubZeroX]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

well, she used to talk to me a lot when I see her. then 1 day it all changed and I noticed she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me anymore. So when I called her later she still seemed very nice and talked for a long time.

Should I really just ask her what the problem is? she'll probably just deny there are any problems.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

well, she used to talk to me a lot when I see her. then 1 day it all changed and I noticed she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me anymore. So when I called her later she still seemed very nice and talked for a long time.

Should I really just ask her what the problem is? she'll probably just deny there are any problems. Oh well.

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

 

[spidey07]

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

perfect!

 

[Blindman]

Could be anything. How long has this relationship been going?

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: spidey07

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

perfect!

bottomline.....eitherway....make a move next time you see her.

 

[Blindman]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: spidey07

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

perfect!

bottomline.....eitherway....make a move next time you see her.

Might be to late if your in the friend zone.
The again if she is agressive or weird she may hit on you instead. Who knows. . .LOL

 

[Tiamat]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

well, she used to talk to me a lot when I see her. then 1 day it all changed and I noticed she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me anymore. So when I called her later she still seemed very nice and talked for a long time.

Should I really just ask her what the problem is? she'll probably just deny there are any problems.

Maybe she has a violent boyfriend. Im just talking shit, but sometimes scary scenarios like this occur.

 

[SP33Demon]

Drop Trou and show her your balls, and then talk about them.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Drop Trou and show her your balls, and then talk about them.

is this a field tested method of yours or just a jackass answer?

 

[HardcoreRobot]

its either all in your head, or you are completely oblivious to something

are you phone conversations flirty? or just friendly? i dont see why this shouldnt translate to real life, but phone/internet interaction is a lot easier than real life.

and again, just becuase you talk for hours on the phone doesnt mean there is any interest off of the friends ladder. girls like attention, and talking on the phone, but it doesnt necessarily mean they want anything more. there really isnt enough info to make a good analysis, but if i were you i would not push the issue too hard. if she is already brushing you off, confronting her will likely just push her more away. just keep talking with her on the phone, and try to spin that off into real life (dates?). It seems there is some disconnect btw the virtual world and the real world. If you pay enough attention to what she says and her behavior you can figure out where she stands.

 

[Blindman]

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

well, she used to talk to me a lot when I see her. then 1 day it all changed and I noticed she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me anymore. So when I called her later she still seemed very nice and talked for a long time.

Should I really just ask her what the problem is? she'll probably just deny there are any problems.

Maybe she has a violent boyfriend. Im just talking shit, but sometimes scary scenarios like this occur.

Maybe her bf is not paying enought attention. Here is your chance in getting some action.


Just wanted to say everyone here is bringing thier own exprince to the table. I think its proabbly best just to talk about it with her. If she avoids it then let it be. Sometime it clicks and sometime it dosent that just the way it is.

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Drop Trou and show her your balls, and then talk about them.

is this a field tested method of yours or just a jackass answer?

I tried it once, and it made for good conversation (pieces). I think we really hit it off, but I felt we shouldn't mix business with pleasure (she was a
















dr). Also the mystery was now gone about my big ones, so I felt the relationship would have moved too quickly.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: Blindman

Originally posted by: Tiamat

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: TheAudit
1) She is embarrassed to be seen with you in public
2) She doesn?t like your face/smell/the way you dress/ the way you carry yourself
3) You are mistakenly speaking to her mother instead of the girl

4) Ask her what her problem is

before jumping to conclusions....maybe we should ask if she is talkative and outgoing with other ppl/boys etc...

well, she used to talk to me a lot when I see her. then 1 day it all changed and I noticed she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me anymore. So when I called her later she still seemed very nice and talked for a long time.

Should I really just ask her what the problem is? she'll probably just deny there are any problems.

Maybe she has a violent boyfriend. Im just talking shit, but sometimes scary scenarios like this occur.

Maybe her bf is not paying enought attention. Here is your chance in getting some action.


Just wanted to say everyone here is bringing thier own exprince to the table. I think its proabbly best just to talk about it with her. If she avoids it then let it be. Sometime it clicks and sometime it dosent that just the way it is.

just talking to her about it has a too much of A NEEDY WUSSY feel to it.....if you choose to bring it up at all do it in a funny ball bustting way.

this i just pulled off the top of my head, it doesnt come off as you trying to sshare your feelings with the group in a wuss factor way...


'thats so cute that your so shy in front of me, my sister is like that too she doesnt talk much in person but on the fone SHE WONT SHUT UP, sometimes when we are on the fone I want to tell you to shut up and save it for the next time we meet!'<insert girl giggle laugh> <insert follow up funny statement> rinse repeat hookup.

 

[SubZeroX]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: spidey07

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

perfect!

bottomline.....eitherway....make a move next time you see her.

shit, she is sitting 1 seat away from me now in lecture! Damn it, I know I should've told her I liked her a long time ago, but I was too unsure and there were other "issues." I really don't have the confidence to do it right now considering the way she's been acting to me lately. Sigh...yes, I suck. ughhh.

 

[woowoo]

Alcohol can solve this.....
Get her drunk, she will babble like a trout.

 

[SP33Demon]

We need to know what Klixxer thinks about this whole situation. Somebody PM the man.

 

[gigapet]

Originally posted by: woowoo
Alcohol can solve this.....
Get her drunk, she will babble like a trout.

:beer::thumbsup: truer werds have never been said.

 

[Blindman]

without the details I dont think anyone can really help you here.


BTW kind of weird no one has asked for pics yet . .. .

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: SubZeroX

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: spidey07

hmmm could be A) she really likes you and gets nervous now B) she's somewhat offended that you have not made a move onn her yet and is migrating you over to the friend zone.

perfect!

bottomline.....eitherway....make a move next time you see her.

shit, she is sitting 1 seat away from me now in lecture! Damn it, I know I should've told her I liked her a long time ago, but I was too unsure and there were other "issues." I really don't have the confidence to do it right now considering the way she's been acting to me lately. Sigh...yes, I suck. ughhh.

U r on AT while in class? Lucky biatch, we never had WIFI in my college days... :|