Originally posted by: MikeSci457DC
You have to make her break up with you. If she breaks up with you, she's probably not gonna stalk you, and when you take it very well (because you engineered the entire thing) both people can get over it quickly and move on with their lives.
don't ever make a person break up with you unless you are weak.
Be realistic and don't make it anything like 'this is just me', 'this is you'.
It's just [provided you have not STRUNG them along] 'hey, we need to talk ... we aren't a good match, I enjoyed ... and it was fun ... but I just don't feel the sparks and I don't think you do either ..., I don't have anyone lined up, but I have/have not been dating ... ' You can then open it up if you want to keep them as a friend/friend with benefits. It usually sucks for someone, but in the long run they don't deal with monsters in their past about how they were so caring and thought and bragged how great you were, yet you screwed their best friend.
When I was younger I think I left some harm on some of my exes just being not honest with myself and them. As I grew up I found some made much better friends, much better exes, and much better back ups. Some have helped me meet others, and I have helped others meet my circle.
I will say this time and time again, having sex with someone <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
<< relationship.