Originally posted by: marcello
Chinese: :thumbsup:, Japanese: :thumbsup. The rest, I don't know. I definetly am more attracted to the Asian girls that like to go out and party, so that has some influence on their exploratativeness. Anyways, yeah, they are the Americanized ones
There is a lot of reason so many people think 'asian' women are so fragile and prudelike...however what I have found more true is:
1) the newly 'imported' ones are usually more innocent because you have to be serious just to change countries to begin with. Outside of soldiers and those that are wealthy most american's abroad that are in the 15-say mid 20's are nerd-like too because they don't want to screw up their futures.
2) overseas the local mores and customs play a big part in the outside the bedroom act, but many still want to go there...they just don't want the world to know about it
3) many of the failures with asian women are more to do with either the guy being clueless and thus blaming it on 'her' or the girl is definitely not that 'type' and probably why it was so easy to meet in the first place, she is thinking friends or the handing holding stuff not riding domo gaijin. You date a nerd, no matter how good she looks, she is going to be a nerd still.
I have dated quite a few asian women many fresh in america...some have been passive and most do not want to kiss or what not in public, but alone they have been anything but passive...not saying they were tearing off clothes and the like, but they definitely would ask for things and direct things a certain way.
Same deal with white women and spanish women....I have not dated any one considered black, but it wasn't an intentional exclusion.
Those that say a married guy only knows 1 women are equally clueless. I have been married a second time about 2 years now...prior to that I easily had 1 woman per month on average outside of other serious relationships that developed.
I would say the trick to that is first you have to have a personality and be confident and willing to talk...you try looking at your shoes while mumbling 'can I get your number?' without even getting her name or chatting a bit first you are usually either lucky or going away with nothing.
I learned way early it's best to get to know her at least a dance or 5-10 mins before agreeing to exchange numbers. The hotter chicks are also banking on you asking right off the bat, when you put getting the number off, and perhaps even talk to her while including another chick in the immediate area...you are now making yourself a challenge. You could be far from the best looking / hottest guy at the place, but if he is pawing over every chick and asking 'can I get you number?' to each girl right down the bar, he is quickly eliminated by all but the leftovers.
I have found my success didn't matter in what shape I was in at the time also...being in shape made it easier to get the girls that come up to you first, but even when I was a little chubby I would often break down even the hottest chick if it was worth persueing. Some nights you go home empty handed if you aren't willing to just pick anything up.
Anyway...time for me to do something else for a bit