Best of luck to you, but I don't think there's any easy way to make a relationship last through college. Maybe you'll invent a new trick. I had a girlfriend from home for awhile, I wasted a semester going home every other weekend for a relationship that wasn't so great in retrospect. Its a lot better to be single at college then have a girlfriend back home. In fact, its awesome to be single at college as freshman, that's the best time to go out, meet women, and aquaint yourself with a newfound sexual freedom that only exists at college.
Its time to be realistic with yourself. You're young and so is she. Long distance relationships almost always crumble at college. I am a sophmore, and very few of my friends who had boy/girlfriends from home last year (as freshman) are still dating the same people. I can only think of one, it would be two but I'm not gonna count the girl who always cheats on her boyfriend.
As for dependance, I feel like it is definately bad thing. You should be your own man with your own friends. Once you become dependant your social life outside of your significant other will take a dive and there's really no easy way to recover from that. Friends have to come before your girlfriend every now and then, you should be able to go out and have a good time without worrying about her.
Its time to be realistic with yourself. You're young and so is she. Long distance relationships almost always crumble at college. I am a sophmore, and very few of my friends who had boy/girlfriends from home last year (as freshman) are still dating the same people. I can only think of one, it would be two but I'm not gonna count the girl who always cheats on her boyfriend.
As for dependance, I feel like it is definately bad thing. You should be your own man with your own friends. Once you become dependant your social life outside of your significant other will take a dive and there's really no easy way to recover from that. Friends have to come before your girlfriend every now and then, you should be able to go out and have a good time without worrying about her.