YAGT: I have no... idea...

[otispunkmeyer]

12 in 2 years is alot but its not too bad.

my gf, while shes only had one other sexual relationship, did manage to let slip she'd done it in a field. yeah it made me look at her differently, in a good way, that to me said she was not affraid of trying stuff. we've been together for over a year now, nearly 1.5yrs, yeah we've done it the woods, fields, in my car. its so much better than in the bed room coz theres the added excitement of getting caught! ahahah!

 

[dug777]

She could have slept with people on ATOT

 

[mobobuff]

Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
12 in 2 years is alot but its not too bad.

my gf, while shes only had one other sexual relationship, did manage to let slip she'd done it in a field. yeah it made me look at her differently, in a good way, that to me said she was not affraid of trying stuff. we've been together for over a year now, nearly 1.5yrs, yeah we've done it the woods, fields, in my car. its so much better than in the bed room coz theres the added excitement of getting caught! ahahah!

"Hey! Look at me! I'm outstanding in my field!"

 

[zerocool84]

Originally posted by: mobobuff

Originally posted by: otispunkmeyer
12 in 2 years is alot but its not too bad.

my gf, while shes only had one other sexual relationship, did manage to let slip she'd done it in a field. yeah it made me look at her differently, in a good way, that to me said she was not affraid of trying stuff. we've been together for over a year now, nearly 1.5yrs, yeah we've done it the woods, fields, in my car. its so much better than in the bed room coz theres the added excitement of getting caught! ahahah!

"Hey! Look at me! I'm outstanding in my field!"

LOL FTW :thumbsup:

 

[Lazy8s]

Meh seems like alot to me. One every other month signals immaturity or ome sort of comitment problem IMO. I would ask her why so many and I would definately want to go get tested togeather. Honestly if it feels too slutty to you then it probably is. Stuff like this changes by person imo. I've dated some girls that never had sex because they never found a guy they were comfortable with. I dated a girl with your girl's similar history. I was very cautious and I'm glad, turns out she was an ex-stripper that had sex for money and she had some rather serious STDs.

What concerns me isn't so much the number as much as the fact that she waited till she was blitzed to tell you. If she feels she has to break the news when you're toasted that means there's a reason she feels badly about it and THAT would be my concern. Also, are you going to be afraid she won't tell you anything till she gets wasted then drop a bomb every time? I think the number is cause for discussion but not telling you till she was toasted is cause for concern.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: spidey07
Here's a news flash for ATOT, women like sex....ALOT.

QFT. The sad thing is that most guys don't learn this little fact until their 30s.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Alprazolam
heres what i was told about females from my father:
find them
fvck them
forget them

The three F's have worked . Over 30 girls and only 23.

I can only wonder about the world where someone thinks that putting their penis in a lot of different holes is some sort of accomplishment.

 

[Wreckem]

Thats one guy every two months.

I honestly dont see the problem.

 

[yowolabi]

Originally posted by: Wreckem
Thats one guy every two months.

I honestly dont see the problem.

What if it was 60 guys in 10 years. Would it be a problem then?

 

[erub]

Originally posted by: yowolabi

Originally posted by: Alprazolam
heres what i was told about females from my father:
find them
fvck them
forget them

The three F's have worked . Over 30 girls and only 23.

I can only wonder about the world where someone thinks that putting their penis in a lot of different holes is some sort of accomplishment.

QFT. I don't see the appeal of "pick up artists" or that fool Leykis. I'd much rather find one attractive, smart, girl that I get along with whom I can have sex with consistently, and all the time without having to be an asshole/be someone who I'm not.

 

[Icanoutsmokeany1]

You can't apply math to situations like this.

You have to use logic. Would you do her on a second date?

 

[Cattlegod]

it isn't a biggy, but you have to dump her. you are already thinking about it and it will just eat away at you until you waste 6-10 months on her and break up.

 

[James Bond]

I'm not gonna read all the posts, but anyone who is talking about how their morals are too good to be with someone who has had sex with 12 people is retarded.

 

[James Bond]

Originally posted by: yowolabi

Originally posted by: Wreckem
Thats one guy every two months.

I honestly dont see the problem.

What if it was 60 guys in 10 years. Would it be a problem then?

10 years of going "guy to guy" shows definite commitment issues.

Testing the waters for a couple years in her prime is completely different.

 

[xtknight]

Honestly, I don't really care about her past. Her choice, her mistake. All that matters is the way she acts towards me right now, and if it sounds like the relationship is about sex 100%, you will definitely want to steer clear of proposing to her down the road. If that's the case, you're just getting yourself into a can of worms that has little respect for the male gender in any serious way. If you don't have any long term plans with her then what the hell does it matter anyway...go with the three "F"s. My advice given your OP: move on. Seriously, dude, your heart has already been ripped out, do you also want your nuts taken hostage?

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: homercles337

Originally posted by: Hyperblaze

Originally posted by: HaxorNubcake

Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21

Originally posted by: zerocool84

Originally posted by: 2Xtreme21
So last night I was out with the girl I've been seeing for about 2-3 weeks and she was rather.. open with me about her prior sexual partners (she was pretty blitzed). She came out and told me that she's been with 12 guys in 2 years. I was pretty nonchalant about it given my state of mind but today it kinda hit me and I'm appalled. She's kind of avoiding me it seems too... Thing is, I really like this girl and I've hit it off better with her than with anyone in my life.

I don't know what to do... my heart feels like it's been ripped out. I doubt I could find someone with a better personality but at the same time, I don't know if I can even look at her the same way anymore.

WTF how can you feel that your heart has been ripped out after only going out with her for a couple weeks??? So she has sex with people, you should too. You're the one that should be bragging about your sexual conquests and making the girl feel bad not the other way around. I swear, all these YAGT's really reinforce all those stereotypes of geeks and women.

Yeah, God forbid you actually have morals.

morals are just excuses

So basically, your imposing YOUR lifestyle on him?

I guess respecting other people's morals is not too high on some people's scales.

Hes not "forcing" anything. He is just pointing out the obvious. Is he trying to pass legislation forcing people to have casual sex? Nope. Unlike your ilk trying to the opposite. If anyone is "forcing morals" its your camp/religious wrong.

Gee...and now YOUR generalizing?

grow up. seriously.

 

[zerocool84]

Originally posted by: erub

Originally posted by: yowolabi

Originally posted by: Alprazolam
heres what i was told about females from my father:
find them
fvck them
forget them

The three F's have worked . Over 30 girls and only 23.

I can only wonder about the world where someone thinks that putting their penis in a lot of different holes is some sort of accomplishment.

QFT. I don't see the appeal of "pick up artists" or that fool Leykis. I'd much rather find one attractive, smart, girl that I get along with whom I can have sex with consistently, and all the time without having to be an asshole/be someone who I'm not.

You can do that without having a girlfriend or spending a ton of money on a girl.