Originally posted by: Greenman
This thread will be solid gold if her hubby reads Anandtech.
Originally posted by: kmrivers
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: essasin
Karma is a bitch.
QFT. Leave her alone, she's already taken bro. Don't be that guy.
Karma doesn't exist.
"Don't be that guy?" What guy? Speaking from experience are we?
Some of you are big wussies. If she wants to leave her husband for the OP, so be it.
If she wants to cheat, so be it. If the OP is that detached that he just wants to lay a married woman. Ok. THey have to deal with the ramifications for their actions.
It is up to the OP to decide what he should do. He doesn't have to leave her alone, should he sleep with her? That is something he should decide. So what if she is taken, would that stop you from pursuing someone you loved? It wouldnt stop me. But my judgements wouldnt let me sleep with her while she was taken.
I am not saying cheat, but telling him to back off is quite silly. No he shouldnt cheat, he should attempt to make sure she is doing what she wants while not intentionally hurting her husband.
Originally posted by: kmrivers
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: essasin
Karma is a bitch.
QFT. Leave her alone, she's already taken bro. Don't be that guy.
Karma doesn't exist.
"Don't be that guy?" What guy? Speaking from experience are we?
Some of you are big wussies. If she wants to leave her husband for the OP, so be it.
If she wants to cheat, so be it. If the OP is that detached that he just wants to lay a married woman. Ok. THey have to deal with the ramifications for their actions.
It is up to the OP to decide what he should do. He doesn't have to leave her alone, should he sleep with her? That is something he should decide. So what if she is taken, would that stop you from pursuing someone you loved? It wouldnt stop me. But my judgements wouldnt let me sleep with her while she was taken.
I am not saying cheat, but telling him to back off is quite silly. No he shouldnt cheat, he should attempt to make sure she is doing what she wants while not intentionally hurting her husband.
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: kmrivers
Originally posted by: MazerRackham
Originally posted by: essasin
Karma is a bitch.
QFT. Leave her alone, she's already taken bro. Don't be that guy.
Karma doesn't exist.
"Don't be that guy?" What guy? Speaking from experience are we?
Some of you are big wussies. If she wants to leave her husband for the OP, so be it.
If she wants to cheat, so be it. If the OP is that detached that he just wants to lay a married woman. Ok. THey have to deal with the ramifications for their actions.
It is up to the OP to decide what he should do. He doesn't have to leave her alone, should he sleep with her? That is something he should decide. So what if she is taken, would that stop you from pursuing someone you loved? It wouldnt stop me. But my judgements wouldnt let me sleep with her while she was taken.
I am not saying cheat, but telling him to back off is quite silly. No he shouldnt cheat, he should attempt to make sure she is doing what she wants while not intentionally hurting her husband.
Really? Well, I have experienced this first hand. I did what the OP proposed to do, though not as severe. I enticed a girl who had been dating a guy for nearly 5 years to cheat on him. She broke up with him not soon after, and then we dated for a year or so. The whole time we both felt guilty about what we had done, and it eventually ruined our tenuous relationship.
That might be something that you would enjoy, but I'll never do it again. There are PLENTY of women who aren't in serious relationships/married, and it's not that hard to find good ones at that.
Things like this start off as exciting because of all the "creepin" around, but after a while all you're left with is a mess. No thanks.
To each his own, but I know I'll never attempt something like that again.
Originally posted by: Balt
If you really care for her maybe you shouldn't mess up her life.
Originally posted by: flexy
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that i def have a chance at gettnig her into bed if nothing else.
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whow...you are my hero.
NOT.
and one of her closest friends told me that i def have a chance at gettnig her into bed if nothing else.
Originally posted by: flexy
"forced to marrY" "husband is an a$$" etc..etc..blah blah blah
Not that anyone would expect YOU to write praises about her HUSBAND....OF COURSE you would rant and rave about him because you want her.
Although..the irnoy....why the **** is she togeteher with him such a long time ? So..there must be something to their relationshipp..whether you like it or not. if she is SO UNHAPPY and "forced" and blahblah as you say....she is an adult eprson and has very well the freedom to leave/divorce whatsoever.
SInce she obviously does NOT..and NOT TELLS YOU "oh...ok, i lave my husband. He is an a$$, i hate him. I was only forced to marry him" <--- does this statement come from HER or from YOU ???? If it doesnt come from HER....then why not ? Ever thought about it ? It would speak NOTHING against her saying i leave me husband and be with you..but she doesnt.
Originally posted by: LS20
jim and pam?
married = tampered. 3000000000 females in the world, why bother with one who's already taken, regardless of circumstances?
Originally posted by: Safeway
I would do it. She is very, very attractive. If you are as good of a match as you think you are, it will work out just fine.
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
I pity her husband.. from what you write
- he works 10+ hours a day
- comes back home and ooks and cleans the house
Man... just by looking at the pics, I would say "hit it", but thinking about her husband, I would say "dont do it... he really loves her."
I would hate to be in her husbands shoes right now man.
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
I pity her husband.. from what you write
- he works 10+ hours a day
- comes back home and ooks and cleans the house
Man... just by looking at the pics, I would say "hit it", but thinking about her husband, I would say "dont do it... he really loves her."
I would hate to be in her husbands shoes right now man.
yeah... i am not sure if he really loved her since i do not know hte guy, everyone use to say the opposite that he would just show her off like arm candy, not let her talk or be herself, was controlling etc but he is showing a very different side of him now that they are married. He is pretty much being the perfect husband, any time he is not at work he is spending time with her or doing something for the both of them. There is that saying though "too little too late" he treated her different for the first 5 years and is only now changing so maybe that is why she doens't care about the changes? or it wouldn't matter how he is she just doesn't see him liek that? There is a girl i have been in love with for 7 years, she is my best friend now! We tried dating 3 different times and it just never works we are perfect together but there is something that i lack that she is looking for in a SO and i have always treated her perfect everyone always asks why we aren't together but if there is something missing it will just never be. I am not tryign to make assumptions about their relationship just possible reasons why things are the way they are.
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Originally posted by: LS20
jim and pam?
married = tampered. 3000000000 females in the world, why bother with one who's already taken, regardless of circumstances?
who is Jim and Pam?
i tried not to. She came back into my life and i honestly care for the girl. I have not tried anything at the moment i have just entertained the idea of it. Like it has been said here before, you can't help who you care for or love. It would def be another story if she was happy with who she was with or only saw me as a friend, it wouldn't be the first time someone i wanted or wnated to get to know wasn't interested in me big deal i would move on. But i really care and if we were together i could see it working out and from what she has told me, the way she is with me, and what our friends tell me, she is interested aswell. Circumstances aren't ideal for it though so nothing has happened and i have no intention of donig anything anytime soon other than be her friend. I did want other peoples opinions based ont heir past experiences though since it has been getting closer to a point where she might actually say something and i would like to make a rash move or give her more than a "i will get back to you on that" lol
Originally posted by: y2kc
Originally posted by: BillyBatson
Originally posted by: LS20
jim and pam?
married = tampered. 3000000000 females in the world, why bother with one who's already taken, regardless of circumstances?
who is Jim and Pam?
i tried not to. She came back into my life and i honestly care for the girl. I have not tried anything at the moment i have just entertained the idea of it. Like it has been said here before, you can't help who you care for or love. It would def be another story if she was happy with who she was with or only saw me as a friend, it wouldn't be the first time someone i wanted or wnated to get to know wasn't interested in me big deal i would move on. But i really care and if we were together i could see it working out and from what she has told me, the way she is with me, and what our friends tell me, she is interested aswell. Circumstances aren't ideal for it though so nothing has happened and i have no intention of donig anything anytime soon other than be her friend. I did want other peoples opinions based ont heir past experiences though since it has been getting closer to a point where she might actually say something and i would like to make a rash move or give her more than a "i will get back to you on that" lol
Based on my past experience there are more things that can go wrong than can go right. As long as she's married you should strongly consider backing off and respecting her vows (even though she may not want you too).
If she's truly unhappy with her mate she should leave and divorce him. If you two are meant to be you will, but first things first.
Finally, know this to be the absolute truth, She's doing it to her husband, She'll do it to you too buddy.
Be her friend, but the innapropriate acts should stop.