YAGT: I like a married woman. Anyone have experience with this?

[sirspotti]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
between 23-26, 90% of the girls whom I know that are / were married or in a committed relationship cheated. It's just that time ...

She's going to cheat on the guy either ways & someone's gonn aget some - might as well be you.

If you dont hit now, u'll regret it when u're 40+

so if everybody else is cheating then it's ok?

 

[bennylong]

go tell her to get a divorce then

 

[linkgoron]

Originally posted by: Vonkhan
between 23-26, 90% of the girls whom I know that are / were married or in a committed relationship cheated. It's just that time ...

She's going to cheat on the guy either ways & someone's gonn aget some - might as well be you.

If you dont hit now, u'll regret it when u're 40+

Worst excuse I've ever heard.

 

[CollectiveUnconscious]

I can't even begin to believe what I've read in this thread so far. Some of you are completely worthless human beings.

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: BoomerD
So, call her husband, and tell him you want his wife...Ask him to do the "right thing", and let her go...Be sure to tell him you have been dating for X months, and are madly in love...

Originally posted by: Blazin Trav
i think you could pull even more attractive girls than her...

other than the fact that i like her and from what i know/can tell she likes me, we haven't done anything wrong. we have not been dating and we have not doine anything outside of friendship. Sure the phone calls late at night and coffee at 11pm are 2 things her husband would either not like or become suspicious over yet would be considered fine if i was another girl.

Blazin.. it has nothing to do with physical appearance as long as the attraction is there regardless. ii appreciate the compliment though? LOL

 

[StinkyPinky]

I'm 27 and married, and I can tell you that if anyone tried to move in on my wife I would use his skull as a toilet. Don't be that guy.

I bet all the people that are telling you to "do it" are 40 year old virgins or young kids. Back off bro!!

 

[m1ldslide1]

Personally I don't like her much - I think it's important to do what is right no matter what your family threatens you with. If they say get married or you can't see your little sisters anymore, then that's about that. That's something that can be worked on over time, but being allowing yourself to be coerced into anything like marriage is wrong, wrong, wrong. So she got married to someone she didn't love to make her family happy, and now she's having this secret fantasy with you. I think that sucks. Not that I'm unsympathetic, because I am, but she's got issues. Should you take advantage of that? I have no idea. You could make a pretty convincing argument either way. I say life is short, she is gorgeous, and she needs to figure out her own problems. So go for it. If you do, then you potentially are going to get pistol-whipped by her husband. If you don't, then you potentially might regret it when you're 40. Which seems more likely and more regrettable to you?

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

LOL @ the poll responses...

60 Yes votes
70 "How did it work out" answers.

:laugh:

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
LOL @ the poll responses...

60 Yes votes
70 "How did it work out" answers.

:laugh:

lol yes someone pointed out yesterday the poor options for answers on my thread with which i agree but since i am not sure what to change them to and been busy with xmas stuff i just left it

 

[hookinitup]

there is a strange similarity between you and ur avatar

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Originally posted by: BillyBatson

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
LOL @ the poll responses...

60 Yes votes
70 "How did it work out" answers.

:laugh:

lol yes someone pointed out yesterday the poor options for answers on my thread with which i agree but since i am not sure what to change them to and been busy with xmas stuff i just left it

I wasn't making fun of your poll... just the answers. My LOL for the night.

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: hookinitup
there is a strange similarity between you and ur avatar

I KNOW! that's why i use it lol. for the first 6 months of this year i was different and things were going great, i almost change my avatar yet alas here it still is... several years now actually, about 3 years ago i used the other light blue crying one or whatever

 

[bobdelt]

youre too ugly for her and you posted her pics on atot....


i can see this working out well for you.

 

[Fenixgoon]

Originally posted by: bobdelt
youre too ugly for her and you posted her pics on atot....


i can see this working out well for you.

what, are you another jlgatsby or something?

OP, you are a pretty good looking guy:thumbsup:

good luck on whatever you decide to do

 

[LongCoolMother]

dont be a homewrecker.

 

[Tikerz]

She kind of looks like Rachel Weis.

 

[PaperclipGod]

Originally posted by: archcommus
Don't be a home wrecker, leave her the fvck alone.

I agree. But then again, maybe it's better for the guy married to her to find out about her trashy inclinations now than after another 5 years of marriage.

 

[intogamer]

atleast you all have nice teeth

 

[whistleclient]

i don't think you should do anything. having a physical relationship with her is "forbidden" so of course it seems more exciting, but then you'll always wonder if it was just because it was forbidden fruit.

if her marriage is truly over then let her decide that and end it with him with honor and respect. only then should you have a relationship.

if you do something now, then you get together and marry her later you'll always wonder if she'll cheat on you someday...

 

[SagaLore]

Don't you dare make any moves on her while she is married. If she decides to leave her husband on her own, then FINE - then after that you can date. People need to stop pissing around with other people's commitments.

 

[Koing]

Originally posted by: SagaLore
Don't you dare make any moves on her while she is married. If she decides to leave her husband on her own, then FINE - then after that you can date. People need to stop pissing around with other people's commitments.

 

[Dudewithoutapet]

Dude, honestly, marriage is overrated in my opinion. This is a chance for something that could be better for the both of you. True love FTW. Thats what I believe in. GL in your decision and whatever choice you make.

 

[lupi]

I'd hit it :beer:

 

[BillyBatson]

Originally posted by: intogamer
atleast you all have nice teeth

this is the strangest advice/comment yet lol, thanks :beer:

 

[cherrytwist]

Yes
70 votes 28.46 (%)
They Left Their Other SO For Me
8 votes 9.76 (%)

Happily married for going on 5 years. The first 5 years were great too.

Each individual situation is different. Just follow your instincts.