YAGT: Is there something wrong with me?

[hypn0tik]

Send her a picture of your wang. She may be interested.

 

[shortylickens]

If she comes up with excuses to NOT call, then she doesnt consider you a BF.
If she thought of you as such, she'd call up all the time just to be cute.

 

[Shaftatplanetquake]

Originally posted by: Stew
Well, she definitely does like me. I have no doubt about that. The question is about me.

She could definitely have some thought processes in her brain that you know nothing about. Women are evil, she might have a fantasy about ripping your entrails out and dancing on them, and only keeping you around so that she can harbor this sick fantasy from up close and personal. Then again, maybe she just thinks that you suck and is using you to have somebody to talk to. But whatever person you think she is, I bet you are wrong. You are too much the n00b.

 

[Xyclone]

Act like your busy once in a while, play hard to get.

 

[neovan]

If you guys dated for awhile...what happened? mutual breakup? If you guys aren't together, they why don't you tell her how you feel about her? (she say's she knows, but sometimes they want to hear it from the horse's mouth).
In any case, good luck!

 

[imported_Stew]

Originally posted by: neovan
If you guys dated for awhile...what happened? mutual breakup? If you guys aren't together, they why don't you tell her how you feel about her? (she say's she knows, but sometimes they want to hear it from the horse's mouth).
In any case, good luck!

Her dad broke us up actually.

I was 16, she was 14. He wanted her to wait until she was older to date. So I'm waiting till she turns 16.

 

[speg]

Haha you threw your phone? Awesome. She's poisoned you and she has you under her spell. This is why women are evil. I think the best thing to do is be up front about everything, what do you want? Do you want more? Then make sure she knows... don't just hang by her side waiting for it.

P.S. - Still highschool? Yick, just forget it then. Study hard! There's no point in dealing with them now really.

P.P.S. - Too bad, she's hot.

 

[Crusty]

Originally posted by: Stew

Originally posted by: neovan
If you guys dated for awhile...what happened? mutual breakup? If you guys aren't together, they why don't you tell her how you feel about her? (she say's she knows, but sometimes they want to hear it from the horse's mouth).
In any case, good luck!

Her dad broke us up actually.

I was 16, she was 14. He wanted her to wait until she was older to date. So I'm waiting till she turns 16.

Uhh... in that case.. don't give me her phone #!

BTW.. she looks a older then 16....

 

[RCN]

You're a Canadian stalker with anger issues.

Yes.

 

[CTrain]

Originally posted by: Stew
I've got a really great friend, named Emily and we've known each other about a year.

We dated for a while, and now we're best friends, but still have feelings for each other. (That's part of the problem... but not the one I want to ask about.)

We go to different schools, and talk on the phone almost every night in excess of an hour, sometimes two hours. We get along just great, and love talking to each other.

The problem though... I'm always the one that calls. Unless I specifically ask her to call me on a certain day, I'm always the one that phones her. I don't really have a problem with this, but subconsciously I think I'm feeling rejected. More importantly, 99% of the time, she is the first one to go. It's not that she doesn't like talking to me, but she has stuff to do and she's not allowed to talk too long on the phone, due to the fact that we're both in high school and her parents don't want her hogging the phone.

Anyway, the thing is: I always get upset when she says she has to go, and when she hangs up. I usually stall her, and when she goes I often wait to hear the dial tone and just listen. Recently, I actually threw my cordless phone across the room in anger/sadness.

Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?
Pic of me and her

To sum it all up....the answer is YES !!

 

[Steve]

Originally posted by: Stew

Originally posted by: neovan
If you guys dated for awhile...what happened? mutual breakup? If you guys aren't together, they why don't you tell her how you feel about her? (she say's she knows, but sometimes they want to hear it from the horse's mouth).
In any case, good luck!

Her dad broke us up actually.

I was 16, she was 14. He wanted her to wait until she was older to date. So I'm waiting till she turns 16.

Wait. At 14 she's not ready for you to put it all on the table, it will scare her away. Wait.

 

[Trikat]

She is really a man. Sex changes happen you know. :evil:
Bail before it is too late!

 

[ElFenix]

high school drama sucks.


anyway, stop calling her. if she isn't calling you she probably isn't that into you. and yes, if you're listening to the dial tone after she hangs up, you have a problem.

 

[tjaisv]

you need to pump some iron and get a tattoo

 

[TallBill]

First of all, talking to someone for an hour or two nearly every day is NOT healthy! WTF?

 

[Steve]

I don't believe that. If they have stuff to talk about for that long, so much the better. Sounds like they appreciate each other and their time.

 

[NutBucket]

Originally posted by: Slacker
......in the immortal words of .38 special "Hold on loosely"

:music:but don't let go:music:

 

[shamrock1313]

She's a cutie.

 

[Dragoon42]

Originally posted by: Crusty
You are in the friend zone dude. Sorry to say.

fsck this...you think you're in the friend zone but they know otherwise. Anyways, don't call her and she what she does. Your problem is that you're always available.

 

[Atheus]

Originally posted by: hypn0tik
Send her a picture of your wang. She may be interested.

:thumbsup:

 

[KarenMarie]

First of all, you are very, very cute. No worries there.

But it seems that you like her more than you are admitting to. And it seems that you are looking for self validation in this friendship. You should not do that.

If she has to go, she has to go... if she tells you that her parents do not want her on the phone, that is exactly what it means. Dont take "I have to go", to mean, "you are not worth my time". If she is your friend, you need to trust on face value. If you want to be more than friends, ask her out. chances are you will get rejected. but you are living in a false sense of rejection all the time right now and it doesnt seem to be working out for you.

if she is not the one you want... date someone else.

You posted: "She says that she doesn't call because she figures that if I don't call, I must be doing something important, and she would feel bad." Well, I can tell you that at 42yrs old, i feel pretty much the same with guys. Have done for most of my life. I know a lot of females who are the same. We are not playing hard to get, we just dont do the dialing.

just trust in yourself.

 

[UncleWai]

I think you are way too demanding if you get mad like that. You guys are in different high schools. How can you expect her to keep on in this so called relationship that's only relying on phone contacts.

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Dragoon42

Originally posted by: Crusty
You are in the friend zone dude. Sorry to say.

fsck this...you think you're in the friend zone but they know otherwise. Anyways, don't call her and she what she does. Your problem is that you're always available.

Don't think of it as ignoring her, think of it as inviting a commitment. My Dad always said never call someone more than three times but always call them three times before giving up.

 

[Doboji]

Dont call her anymore.... nuff said.... see how long before she calls you?

-Max

 

[Safeway]

I say that it is a little odd - but something a large portion of high school males go through. When I was still in high school, I had a situation similar to this ... and I took the initiative. I brought the topic up and it went as smoothly as such a conversation can.

If you continue to hold your emotions inside, it will ruin you. Love for something you could have if you grew balls will turn into lust for something you can't have because you fvcked up.

 

[Safeway]

Originally posted by: Doboji
Dont call her anymore.... nuff said.... see how long before she calls you?

-Max

You pwn your fiancee.