YAGT: Is there something wrong with me?

[imported_Stew]

I've got a really great friend, named Emily and we've known each other about a year.

We dated for a while, and now we're best friends, but still have feelings for each other. (That's part of the problem... but not the one I want to ask about.)

We go to different schools, and talk on the phone almost every night in excess of an hour, sometimes two hours. We get along just great, and love talking to each other.

The problem though... I'm always the one that calls. Unless I specifically ask her to call me on a certain day, I'm always the one that phones her. I don't really have a problem with this, but subconsciously I think I'm feeling rejected. More importantly, 99% of the time, she is the first one to go. It's not that she doesn't like talking to me, but she has stuff to do and she's not allowed to talk too long on the phone, due to the fact that we're both in high school and her parents don't want her hogging the phone.

Anyway, the thing is: I always get upset when she says she has to go, and when she hangs up. I usually stall her, and when she goes I often wait to hear the dial tone and just listen. Recently, I actually threw my cordless phone across the room in anger/sadness.

Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?
Pic of me and her

 

[Atheus]

Originally posted by: Stew
Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?

Maybe... don't call her sometime, say you had something important, see if she calls you.

 

[Crusty]

You are in the friend zone dude. Sorry to say.

 

[imported_Stew]

Originally posted by: Atheus

Originally posted by: Stew
Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?

Maybe... don't call her sometime, say you had something important, see if she calls you.

She says that she doesn't call because she figures that if I don't call, I must be doing something important, and she would feel bad.

 

[Rastus]

If the dilemma you are in ever gets solved, ATOT would cease to exist.

 

[maziwanka]

you need to be honest and upfront with her (as tough as that may be).

if it doesn't work the way you want, you can take the appropriate measures (i.e. spend time separated from her (no phone calls), etc.).

 

[iluvtruenos]

She doesn't like you. If she doesn't have the balls to call you, then why should you?

 

[iluvtruenos]

She doesn't like you. If she doesn't have the balls to call you, then why should you?

 

[deepred98]

pics?

had to

 

[Slacker]

Originally posted by: Stew
I've got a really great friend, named Emily and we've known each other about a year.

We dated for a while, and now we're best friends, but still have feelings for each other. (That's part of the problem... but not the one I want to ask about.)

We go to different schools, and talk on the phone almost every night in excess of an hour, sometimes two hours. We get along just great, and love talking to each other.

The problem though... I'm always the one that calls. Unless I specifically ask her to call me on a certain day, I'm always the one that phones her. I don't really have a problem with this, but subconsciously I think I'm feeling rejected. More importantly, 99% of the time, she is the first one to go. It's not that she doesn't like talking to me, but she has stuff to do and she's not allowed to talk too long on the phone, due to the fact that we're both in high school and her parents don't want her hogging the phone.

Anyway, the thing is: I always get upset when she says she has to go, and when she hangs up. I usually stall her, and when she goes I often wait to hear the dial tone and just listen. Recently, I actually threw my cordless phone across the room in anger/sadness.

Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?

Hmm, its been a while, but that sounds about right, there is nothing wrong with you.

However, you are putting some strain on the goodbye and she feels it too, in the immortal words of .38 special "Hold on loosely"

 

[imported_Stew]

Originally posted by: deepred98
pics?

had to

lol. she would kill me... but what the heck. I know she's shown her friends pics of me.

will edit OP in a minute.

 

[BrokenVisage]

Originally posted by: Crusty
You are in the friend zone dude. Sorry to say.

FTL

 

[TylerP]

Originally posted by: StewI'm always the one that calls. Unless I specifically ask her to call me on a certain day, I'm always the one that phones her. I don't really have a problem with this, but subconsciously I think I'm feeling rejected. More importantly, 99% of the time, she is the first one to go. It's not that she doesn't like talking to me, but she has stuff to do and she's not allowed to talk too long on the phone, due to the fact that we're both in high school and her parents don't want her hogging the phone.

Anyway, the thing is: I always get upset when she says she has to go, and when she hangs up. I usually stall her, and when she goes I often wait to hear the dial tone and just listen. Recently, I actually threw my cordless phone across the room in anger/sadness.

Is there something wrong with me?
Am I obsessed?

Quoted for use as evidence in her upcoming criminal staker complaint against you.

 

[acemcmac]

Originally posted by: Crusty
You are in the friend zone dude. Sorry to say.

yeah dude. Sorry

 

[imported_Stew]

Pic added

 

[dirtboy]

She's not interested in you. She doesn't call because she doesn't want to talk to you that often. Try not calling her. I'll bet you can't go 7 days... because she won't call you.

 

[iamtrout]

She's in high school. You're in high school.

You lose.

 

[Crusty]

Phone #? I promise i'll fix things.. i swear.....

 

[Steve]

'Sup Nova Scotia dude... former resident. What schools you two going to?

 

[imported_Stew]

Well, she definitely does like me. I have no doubt about that. The question is about me.

 

[imported_Stew]

Originally posted by: sm8000
'Sup Nova Scotia dude... former resident. What schools you two going to?

Park View Education Centre, Bridgewater High School.

South Shore FTW.

 

[nakedfrog]

I think what's wrong with you is that you're still in high school... and so is she.

 

[TylerP]

So you know she definatly likes you...... how? You said yourself that you have to her, and she wants to hang up first.

What evidence is there that you are not sharing?

So far it sounds like you are a step away from fapping outside her window at night. (not speaking from expeirence by the way)

 

[markgm]

You guys look cute together...good luck!

 

[GeneValgene]

you like her still, but i don't think she likes you that way anymore

you're in the friend zone...but you see her as more than a friend