Another problem - this guy I dont think even knows we are in a relationship......
I feel like a twerp - I do everything for this girl...everything. I'm not a bad guy, but I can come off mean, when I'm... "scared" - I use to never have this problem with any other woman, ever. However I was engaged, and my ex fiancee did cheat on me (a drunken night, not an excuse) and I'm starting to think - maybe there is a common demoinator - why women are cheating in my relationships....and that common deominator is me... I must be doing something wrong. I know money isn't everything - but I have thrown tons of money on this girl (she doesn't have a lot, and...I'm a trust fund baby...sorry not trying to have an e-penis fight here, but the way I was raised is you take care of a woman, any way you can) and I do.
All in all, I really love the girl - maybe her communication with this ex is innocent, but I think he wants to be with her. Even though she says, he hates her now.....
I love this girl with all my heart - and would do anything for her. But I can't get hurt again.
So what do I do? I do not want to give an ultimatum.....I just want advice...