SagaLore
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Originally posted by: eits
no, it's not just the lying... it's the fact that it wasn't you. it's the subconscious punch in the gut that says, "you're not good enough, so i got it from someone else".
That is the type of thinking you need to get away from. She might have cheated on a guy that is complete scum and has a 3 inch erection and chronic flatulence. Don't compare yourself to the "other guy". Sometimes people just aren't compatible, sometimes we go into a relationship and don't realize its not what we want until later. But both people need to be honest about it, and communicate.
There is nothing wrong with you.