So, I believe I am in one now.
Lemme give everyone a run down for everyone on what happened this weekend. One of my best friends from high school got in contact with me around Thanksgiving of last year and we've been just talking a lot since then. His new girlfriend of two years is great, they are really serious, live together and she is awesome. We just connected right away, so we talk all of the time.
So anyways, we all took a trip to her parent's house in North Carolina this weekend. My friend's gf got two of her best friends to come, and she has been trying to get me to meet one of them. I started talking to this girl last week and we just had the same personalities and she was basically what I was looking for so I knew this was gonna go somewhere.
We meet last Friday, drive up to NC and start having a great time. My friend's gf told me before that her friend is super, super shy and really hasn't been with anyone. Well, it was like totally opposite. It was like it was unreal, we have the exact same personalities, same maturity level, basically what I'm looking for. So we decided to try it out (be a couple) and see how it goes.
Here's the problem.
She lives in Tallahassee. I live in Orlando. That is a 3 and a half to 4 hour drive EACH way. It's about 50 dollars round trip with gas and tolls. It figures I find someone I really connected with and want to be with and she is in the panhandle of this sh!t state.
Second, she has never dated anyone before. First relationship for her, she is 20, almost 21 and I'm 19 almost 20. Last guy she kissed was when she was 15, she is sheltered but really sweet. So, this is her first relationship, and I'm not sure how this is going to go. I've been in a couple, one really serious relationship, so I know what to expect.
I'm going back up there this weekend to hang out and meet her parents, she wanted me to meet her parents so that would ease their mind so she could come down and visit me in the future. I'm really stuck here, I'm not sure if I should really pursue with this and follow my heart or just ignore it. The money is not the issue, I have that taken care of. I just feel that we are so far away and I'm spending so much time on this what if it fails? What did I miss her in my own hometown at my own college? My gut instinct is telling me to really continue with this because it looks like a good future, and it's usually always right. But again, I'm getting mixed vibes from all of my friends. Some of them are telling me to go for it, and some aren't.
So I come to Anandtech asking for advice, again.
BTW, there may be a future with this, she needs to go to a state college and she could go to UCF (where I go) to finish up her Bachelor's degree since she's done with her AA after this term. I've never really hit it off this fast with a girl, and we really like each other. So I'm stuck.
Lemme give everyone a run down for everyone on what happened this weekend. One of my best friends from high school got in contact with me around Thanksgiving of last year and we've been just talking a lot since then. His new girlfriend of two years is great, they are really serious, live together and she is awesome. We just connected right away, so we talk all of the time.
So anyways, we all took a trip to her parent's house in North Carolina this weekend. My friend's gf got two of her best friends to come, and she has been trying to get me to meet one of them. I started talking to this girl last week and we just had the same personalities and she was basically what I was looking for so I knew this was gonna go somewhere.
We meet last Friday, drive up to NC and start having a great time. My friend's gf told me before that her friend is super, super shy and really hasn't been with anyone. Well, it was like totally opposite. It was like it was unreal, we have the exact same personalities, same maturity level, basically what I'm looking for. So we decided to try it out (be a couple) and see how it goes.
Here's the problem.
She lives in Tallahassee. I live in Orlando. That is a 3 and a half to 4 hour drive EACH way. It's about 50 dollars round trip with gas and tolls. It figures I find someone I really connected with and want to be with and she is in the panhandle of this sh!t state.
Second, she has never dated anyone before. First relationship for her, she is 20, almost 21 and I'm 19 almost 20. Last guy she kissed was when she was 15, she is sheltered but really sweet. So, this is her first relationship, and I'm not sure how this is going to go. I've been in a couple, one really serious relationship, so I know what to expect.
I'm going back up there this weekend to hang out and meet her parents, she wanted me to meet her parents so that would ease their mind so she could come down and visit me in the future. I'm really stuck here, I'm not sure if I should really pursue with this and follow my heart or just ignore it. The money is not the issue, I have that taken care of. I just feel that we are so far away and I'm spending so much time on this what if it fails? What did I miss her in my own hometown at my own college? My gut instinct is telling me to really continue with this because it looks like a good future, and it's usually always right. But again, I'm getting mixed vibes from all of my friends. Some of them are telling me to go for it, and some aren't.
So I come to Anandtech asking for advice, again.
BTW, there may be a future with this, she needs to go to a state college and she could go to UCF (where I go) to finish up her Bachelor's degree since she's done with her AA after this term. I've never really hit it off this fast with a girl, and we really like each other. So I'm stuck.