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rudder

Lifer
Nov 9, 2000
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Originally posted by: bradruth
Looking for a dance partner? Ballroom etiquette? What are you, gay?

ballroom dancing, doesn't want to shag this girl..... hmmmm
 

TheShiz

Diamond Member
Oct 9, 1999
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if you didn't want her to go you should not have extended the offer. man, you are coming across as a huge ass, just suck it up, be a man.
 

Bumrush99

Diamond Member
Jun 14, 2004
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Originally posted by: TheShiz
if you didn't want her to go you should not have extended the offer. man, you are coming across as a huge ass, just suck it up, be a man.

Screw being a gentleman. Be a prick and do what most men in this situation would do. Ignore her. Don't answer the phone and sell her out. If she is clingy after one night of ballroom dancing she will turn in to a major pain in the ass after your second DATE.

Pull the dissapearing act on her and hope you never see her again.
 

HomerJS

Lifer
Feb 6, 2002
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So you still haven't answered why you won't date her, even if it is not serious. I'm sure if she was Adriana Lima there wouldn't be any issues.

Four possibilities..

She's ugly
She's fat
She's built like a man
Don't want to possibly insult with the fourth. (Not that there's anything wrong with that)
 

pclstyle

Platinum Member
Apr 14, 2004
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There's two possibilities. If your only fear is that she might push too hard too fast, then simply don't ever give her the idea that you have romantic feelings for her. if the issue is that you would feel awkward in front of your boss with a complete stranger, then that's something entirely different.
 

Doboji

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May 18, 2001
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Eh stop your bitching.. go to the party with her, have a good time. If nothing else having a woman on your arm clearly interested whilst you remain aloof(any woman) will increase your chances with all other females at the party.

And even if that doesnt work, how hard is it to simply explain that you are not dating her.

Whats the friggin big deal?

-Max
 

jjones

Lifer
Oct 9, 2001
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I don't condone any of your actions. Ballroom dancing, wine tasting parties, friends with a girl... these are very strange concepts to me. What happened to football, beer, and sport-fvcking?

I will give you one thing though. Your gut feeling of clingy is probably correct, so go with that to dictate your actions. But don't be a dick, you invited her so follow through with it.
 

HomerJS

Lifer
Feb 6, 2002
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Originally posted by: HomerJS
So you still haven't answered why you won't date her, even if it is not serious. I'm sure if she was Adriana Lima there wouldn't be any issues.

Four possibilities..

She's ugly
She's fat
She's built like a man
Don't want to possibly insult with the fourth. (Not that there's anything wrong with that)
#5. She has a penis
 

kogase

Diamond Member
Sep 8, 2004
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Originally posted by: Colt45
pick her up before the wine thing.

whip it out.

if she runs out of the car, problem solved. if she lays you, that ain't bad neither.

Missing third scenario: she charges you with sexual harrassment, you walk around to your neigbors and tell them you're a sex offender.
 

DainBramaged

Lifer
Jun 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: jjones
I don't condone any of your actions. Ballroom dancing, wine tasting parties, friends with a girl... these are very strange concepts to me. What happened to football, beer, and sport-fvcking?

I will give you one thing though. Your gut feeling of clingy is probably correct, so go with that to dictate your actions. But don't be a dick, you invited her so follow through with it.

LMAO @ 1st Paragraph
Agreed with 2nd Paragraph
 

Slvrtg277

Golden Member
Sep 9, 2004
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Just because you felt a lump against your leg when she was dancing close to you doesn't mean you can't take her to the party.

Bring a beer bong and fill it with dude's best wine. That'd be cool.

 

kreactor

Senior member
Jan 3, 2005
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Don't take life too seriously. You'll never get out alive.
--Bugs Bunny

it's not like u're marrying her, besides it shows u're spontaneous
(or volatile)
 

Liviathan

Platinum Member
Feb 21, 2001
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Who cares..just go and have fun.

Why are you so concern people thinking you are dating her?
 

iroast

Golden Member
May 5, 2005
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i don't see a problem. just introduce her as your dance partner if anyone asks. if you do so in her presence, she'll get the idea, or so you hope heh.
 

tommigsr

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May 8, 2001
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i don't see a problem with this either...like iroast said, introduce to your former boss the girl you're with is your dance partner
 
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