YAGT: Mom dumped me

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: ThaGrandCow

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: Descartes

Originally posted by: Pippy

Originally posted by: michaels
Dude she is about to go to college, she is interested in screwing guys at frat parties.

I know for a fact she's not like that at all. She'll probably be inside books 24/7. She's very competative and feels inferior unless she does her best in school. She was like that in H.S. I thank her for it as it rubbed on me senior year. My senior year was by far my best H.S. year. I just told my mom and how her mother would dis-own her if she doesn't do as her mother says. My mom didn't believe me but then I told her her asian culture actually does this... My mom's pretty ticked and threated to go talk to her mom. I told her just to back off and let her deal with it. It's a choice she has to make that will affect the rest of her life. As Brazillians we just don't understand this at all. We believe if you love someone then there's nothing that can get in the way, even parent.s

That's what every guy says until they're surprised to learn they're the exact opposite.

Bitter much? You might be surprised to learn, but girls are human beings with the ability to make independent choices. Not all women will cheat.

It's not cheating if you're already broken up. Not that it's women only, I know about an even split between the sexes of people that broke up with their SO just so they could play the field at college.

Point. I used the word cheat as a shortcut. I mean the "gone wild" at the first freedom of college idea.

 

[Fenixgoon]

Originally posted by: Ricemarine

Originally posted by: michaels
Of course not all guys are like that, but lets be honest here. 18+strict, controlling parents+no freedom of college = 40 year old virgin.

Ahahaha...
ATOT's future... :laugh:

fixed

 

[ballmode]

time to off her

 

[SolMiester]

Piipy, your 19 and will probably fall in love another 5 times before marriage. You have WAY too many other important things to weoory about right now other than the love of your life. Your GF need to release herself from her mothers controlling ways before you you settle down with her anyways. If she does and comes back to you, all the best, if not, count yourself lucky not to be tangled up in it.....

All the best mate

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: HotChic

Originally posted by: michaels
Of course not all girls are like that, but lets be honest here. 18+strict, controlling parents+freedom of college=Girls Gone Wild

Didn't happen for me, and I fit that mold. People control their choices, regardless of the circumstances. It's easy to use circumstances as an excuse, but ultimately it comes down to what the person chooses to do.

Yes, but you're also a religious fanatic...

A more correct formula would be "18+strict, controlling parents+freedom of college+alcohol=Girls Gone Wild"

 

[SSP]

The thread title made me throw up a bit.

Anyway, sorry to hear about the situation.

 

[buzzsaw13]

Originally posted by: Fenixgoon

Originally posted by: Ricemarine

Originally posted by: michaels
Of course not all guys are like that, but lets be honest here. 18+strict, controlling parents+no freedom of college = 40 year old virgin.

Ahahaha...
ATOT's future... :laugh:

fixed

Pffft, most of ATOT will have the freedom of college and still have that future.

 

[Orsorum]

She wasn't mature enough to stand up for what she really wanted. It hurts, but you're going to have to suck it up and move on. She's going to have to grow up someday, and when she does, here's hoping there's enough of a bond there to reunite you two. In the meantime, do something else with your life and energy.

 

[compnovice]

Oh Noooooooooo..... now they are outsourcing grooms to vietnam.....

 

[Horus]

you got pwned, I'm sorry. She's an idiot, and so is her father and especially your mother. Has she not heard of the nigerian scammers? This is just a version where instead of being out money, she's out money, AND her daugher's been banged.

 

[newParadigm]

sucks man. Her parents attitude seems rediculous about this whole plan. Is the guy some sort of friend/relative of the family? Or is it just for the money? Hopefully it'll all work out. J/c, would it be advisable to talk to her father? maybe he could work it out...

 

[PanzerIV]

Sorry to hear but if it's going to work it will only happen when and if she no longer feels threatened by her mother. If you are genuinely able to stand on the sidelines and only be friends as you mentioned there is a possibility she might come around but I wouldn't count on it.

I think you're better off dating others while in college and letting her go. It happens all the time and eventually you will miss her less and less every week.

 

[bennylong]

go kill yourself. life ain't worth living, I tells ya

 

[compuwiz1]

I'm confused. Were you doing the Mom, the girlfriend, or both?

 

[AkumaX]

Originally posted by: compuwiz1
I'm confused. Were you doing the Mom, the girlfriend, or both?

i like where this is headed!

 

[Stuxnet]

Girls/women who are under that much influence by their families are ALWAYS more trouble than they're worth. MAJOR pains in the asses.

 

[DurocShark]

For 15 years my mother-in-law has been giving my wife sh!t about marrying me. Such is life.

 

[gsellis]

As a dad, if you ever say this to me or about mine, I will throw you out of the house (and have for similar carp)

I'll honestly be the best this girl will probably get

If this is the way you think about your relationships, I know why the mom has issues.

Sorry for your pain, but maybe the problem is you and not the mom?

 

[allisolm]

Let her go. She deserves someone who thinks she's the best thing that ever happened to him, not someone who thinks "I'll honestly be the best this girl will probably get... "

sorry - gsellis beat me to it. Note to self: learn to refresh before hitting the post button.

 

[letdown427]

You explained that your mood was apathetic. And nobody has called you emo yet.

Something is going on here. Something big.

 

[Philippine Mango]

Originally posted by: Stumps
time to go banned by thread crapping
please moderator, please ban me!

Now thats the spirit!

 

[captains]

Originally posted by: Pippy
Well, that's it. My gf just broke up with me. I asked her if she still loved me, to which she said "yes I am" and that she's "very sorry". She won't say it her self but I'm 100% sure it's her mother that doesn't want to see me. Her dad's ok with me and so's her older brother. BTW I'm 19 and she's 18 going off to college.

I know it's not because she sees me as some evil dead beat, I'll honestly be the best this girl will probably get... But ever since we've been together, her mother wanted her to marry this guy in vietnam. The whole, I'll pay you 40k to get me to the U.S. kind of thing. Her mom thought it we were just a "fling" and it wouldn't interfere with the "deal". Of course after she came back from vietnam without the guy, I think issues developed. After I told her how bad of an idea and dangerious it is to do something like this. Especially after ICE posted news about focusing on vietnamese marriage frauds...

And she has't been able to deal with it. I told her, "if you don't break away from your mom now, you'll end up marrying the man she wants instead of the man you love". She said "I know, I regret what I'm doing". She was sobbing during the hole 54 min conversation.

Meh, sad thing is there's nothing I can do except hope that her love for me is strong enough to over come this. If not then... I have to give her up. I'm past depressed now, I'm just apathetic. And I don't care to grammer check/ cliffs and I'll just psuedo paragraph.

Just... numb...

lol u timed it?

 

[J Heartless Slick]

Originally posted by: Pippy
Well, that's it. My gf just broke up with me. I asked her if she still loved me, to which she said "yes I am" and that she's "very sorry". She won't say it her self but I'm 100% sure it's her mother that doesn't want to see me. Her dad's ok with me and so's her older brother. BTW I'm 19 and she's 18 going off to college.

I know it's not because she sees me as some evil dead beat, I'll honestly be the best this girl will probably get... But ever since we've been together, her mother wanted her to marry this guy in vietnam. The whole, I'll pay you 40k to get me to the U.S. kind of thing. Her mom thought it we were just a "fling" and it wouldn't interfere with the "deal". Of course after she came back from vietnam without the guy, I think issues developed. After I told her how bad of an idea and dangerious it is to do something like this. Especially after ICE posted news about focusing on vietnamese marriage frauds...

And she has't been able to deal with it. I told her, "if you don't break away from your mom now, you'll end up marrying the man she wants instead of the man you love". She said "I know, I regret what I'm doing". She was sobbing during the hole 54 min conversation.

Meh, sad thing is there's nothing I can do except hope that her love for me is strong enough to over come this. If not then... I have to give her up. I'm past depressed now, I'm just apathetic. And I don't care to grammer check/ cliffs and I'll just psuedo paragraph.

Just... numb...

She dumped you not her mother.

I would stop all contact with her and move on.

 

[rh71]

College has changed many people you'd think can't be changed. You can stick it out if you want, but don't be surprised if she's not the 24/7 bookworm you know her to be now. MOST of the time, HS means nothing.

 

[IceBergSLiM]

your gonna laugh at how juvenille this whole situation is in 5 years

in the mean time.....here are some razor blades (make sure you cut north to south not east to west)