YAGT: pr0n and relationships

[Isla]

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Tarrant64

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: digiram

Originally posted by: Eghck
According to Chris Rock, women want to be responsible/in control of ALL your happiness. Masturbating pisses them off because you're making yourself happy.

rofl and qft

qft what? it's not true. it doesn't piss me off at all if a guy wants to masturbate.

Me neither. /shrug

Good grief, as I've gotten older, I'm like, could you PLEASE leave this old lady alone and go look at some porn or something????

I get it the other way around. I try to go to bed, and I get woken up.

SHENTASTIC!!!

LOL!!!

I think it would be the same here except for one thing... the timing. I want it every day at about 3PM. It's the weirdest thing. But he wants it at 11PM... when the only thing I want to do is get some sleep!!!!


On weekends, I'll even say to him, "It's 3 0'clock!!!!"

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: digiram

Originally posted by: Eghck
According to Chris Rock, women want to be responsible/in control of ALL your happiness. Masturbating pisses them off because you're making yourself happy.

rofl and qft

qft what? it's not true. it doesn't piss me off at all if a guy wants to masturbate.

Me neither. /shrug

What if they were thinking about...a girl other then you while they did it?

 

[Tarrant64]

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Tarrant64

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: digiram

Originally posted by: Eghck
According to Chris Rock, women want to be responsible/in control of ALL your happiness. Masturbating pisses them off because you're making yourself happy.

rofl and qft

qft what? it's not true. it doesn't piss me off at all if a guy wants to masturbate.

Me neither. /shrug

Good grief, as I've gotten older, I'm like, could you PLEASE leave this old lady alone and go look at some porn or something????

I get it the other way around. I try to go to bed, and I get woken up.

SHENTASTIC!!!

LOL!!!

I think it would be the same here except for one thing... the timing. I want it every day at about 3PM. It's the weirdest thing. But he wants it at 11PM... when the only thing I want to do is get some sleep!!!!


On weekends, I'll even say to him, "It's 3 0'clock!!!!"

I'm at work around 6:30 int he morning, so I get up anytime before 5. She goes to bed at umm....1-2am most of the time. I don't think she cares if I'm even awake.

zinfamous, find a real woman.

 

[erickj92]

well im not of age too loook at it but one of my relitives get in fights with her husband about looking at it....

 

[Icepick]

Originally posted by: NightDarker

Originally posted by: Gdepp519

Originally posted by: NightDarker
pshhtt.. i'm jealous of you guys at least getting it a lot from your girlfriends/wives. i don't get much if any at all?

Dude I feel your pain im dating this Spanish girl... and she just does not have the sexual appetite that I have.. its quite annoying... I just told her whenever shes ready then come to me.. cause otherwise I won't initiate anything..

yep, i pretty much do the same thing. whenever i want to do it she never wants to. so i gave up trying.

You guys need to get new girlfriends.

 

[oldman420]

when a guy watches porn he becomes ever more desensitized to the real thing thus has a harder time achieving orgasm when the time comes.
this is not always a bad thing as it gets rid of the 2-3 minute wonder that woman so hates.
on the other hand many guys watch porn on their computers so they can switch from clip to clip when they get bored, this can cause a sexual attention Deficit disorder that can really harm the real deal when it happens as when you get bored with the girl you are with you can't just click next.
also rosy has a much better grip than your typical v**ina which can lead to a need for more er grip than a typical woman has down there.

 

[inveterate]

Originally posted by: engineereeyore

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
You're trying to parallel masturbators with child molestors and rapists. I don't think there's a rolleyes.gif big enough in the world for that one.

Yes I would. Very easily. Both are examples of an inability to control sexual desires. So where do you draw the distinction upon which are 'right' and which are 'wrong'. When they hurt someone? Well guess what, that's already happened on both sides.

I'm not saying that masturbation is the cause of these types of actions. As I said before, the attitude that sexual desires should be embraced and not criticized is the problem. Telling someone that if they have a sexual desire, they should fulfill it, is going to give them the idea that such is always the case. How do you justify saying one is okay and the other is not? Again, you can't use "as long as it doesn't hurt someone else", because like I said, this thread wouldn't exist if that was the case.

So which one of those is responsible for the thought process that lead to the above?

- M4H

Actually, I'd say the current condition of the entire country. Possibly a father who couldn't control his sexual desires. Friends whose marriage has fallen apart because of pornography. You're welcome to take your pick. I wouldn't blame Louisiana, or my religion, as I don't feel either is responsible for the above three items.

The amount of crimes involving rapists and such, aren't that high. Rapist are Extreme cases of inability to control sex,. There is absolutely nothing to say that masturbation/pornography combo will encourage such behavior. so your comparison isn't completely founded. It is however a common conception in any social microcosm .

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: oldman420
when a guy watches porn he becomes ever more desensitized to the real thing thus has a harder time achieving orgasm when the time comes.
this is not always a bad thing as it gets rid of the 2-3 minute wonder that woman so hates.
on the other hand many guys watch porn on their computers so they can switch from clip to clip when they get bored, this can cause a sexual attention Deficit disorder that can really harm the real deal when it happens as when you get bored with the girl you are with you can't just click next.
also rosy has a much better grip than your typical v**ina which can lead to a need for more er grip than a typical woman has down there.

I disagree with everything but the rosy palms bit. Although you may be right about "SDD" and getting "bored" with the real thing. I know I get bored with Missionary... so then we go Cowgirl... but then I get bored with that too so then maybe go with a Reverse Cowgirl into Doggy Style. It's a shame I can't commit to one position.

Seriously... porn is only damaging if you're watching it for hours every day. A little spank session every now and then isn't going to damage your sexual prowess OR your relationship... unless your girl is of the crazy variety who thinks porn is cheating and that god hates masturbation. But if that's the case, you should find a new girl anyway. One who will watch porn with you.

 

[Pugchucker]

I have had relationships with girls who loved pron and my current wife who considers it cheating in the highest degree. I found my sex life to be much more satisfying with the relationships where my female partner enjoyed porn and even watched it with me and by themselves. The ability to masturbate for a woman demonstrates a healthy attitude about sex and one's body and a realistic attitude about sexual relationships in general. My wife does have self-esteem issues and major trust issues caried over from previous relationships and that no doubt plays a major role in this dislike. I think this is true for women who despise pron in general. It really affects our sex life but I love her in almost every other respect so I am willing to forego the pron for her.

For the record, though, the most satisfying sexual relationship I have ever had was with a pron freak who would watch it on her own and rape me when I walked in the door.

Also for the record, I do tend to invest more thought (conscious or not) into having sex with other women I contact in my work-life since I have forsaken porn.

 

[orion23]

Because everyone's wives can do each and every trick in the book?

How about the many wives that stop doing certain things after marriage?

Some women take sex as a boring routine. Others don't enjoy sex that often. And other's have way too many rules when it comes to it.

Some people think about it too much. To me, it's all about getting off. It has nothing to do with her, or someone else. But if it's late, or she has a "headache", is it wrong?

Now, if porn is way too present in your life, that might be a different story!

 

[cHeeZeFacTory]

well i like variety...do it with the same chick for years and years gets boring sometimes.

 

[orion23]

Originally posted by: cHeeZeFacTory
well i like variety...do it with the same chick for years and years gets boring sometimes.

Sometimes?

Sex is the 1st thing to go in a long term relationship. It's not very exciting after a while. The reason couples stay together has nothing to do with sex. Actually, people get divorced or separated because of sex or lack of sex.

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: Tarrant64

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Tarrant64

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: digiram

Originally posted by: Eghck
According to Chris Rock, women want to be responsible/in control of ALL your happiness. Masturbating pisses them off because you're making yourself happy.

rofl and qft

qft what? it's not true. it doesn't piss me off at all if a guy wants to masturbate.

Me neither. /shrug

Good grief, as I've gotten older, I'm like, could you PLEASE leave this old lady alone and go look at some porn or something????

I get it the other way around. I try to go to bed, and I get woken up.

SHENTASTIC!!!

LOL!!!

I think it would be the same here except for one thing... the timing. I want it every day at about 3PM. It's the weirdest thing. But he wants it at 11PM... when the only thing I want to do is get some sleep!!!!


On weekends, I'll even say to him, "It's 3 0'clock!!!!"

I'm at work around 6:30 int he morning, so I get up anytime before 5. She goes to bed at umm....1-2am most of the time. I don't think she cares if I'm even awake.

zinfamous, find a real woman.

she is a real woman. last I checked.....

 

[child of wonder]

Originally posted by: nweaver

You have no freaking clue what you are talking about....LMAO. We are not one of the fastest growing religions IN THE WORLD because we only teach young kids...

I have every freaking clue what I'm talking about. I even have ex-Mormons I can ask questions to in person about your despicable cult.

Upon reading my post in more depth, I fail to see anywhere that I stated the Mormon church's growth is only through teaching their children.

Originally posted by: nweaver

That means nothing, it's not an LDS church owned/operated site, but appears to be an anti mormon site....lol

Argumentum ad hominem (attacking the source).

Originally posted by: nweaver

lol, you guys sit here and try and bash what you know nothing about...it really is kinda funny.


Oh, ans for your "kinderhook" stuff

Global Warming Is A Lie

because the intarweb told me so....

Again, I know a great deal about the Mormon church through independent study and speaking personally with current and former members. I would be willing to wager that my understanding rivals or exceeds yours.

Your pathetic attempts at Red Herrings and ad hominem attacks are laughable at best, as is your grasp of the English language.

 

[opticalmace]

Originally posted by: engineereeyore

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: engineereeyore
Or they could learn to control themselves and remember what life without a SO is like.

Haven't been single in almost seven years, but I'm guessing that would be "whacking off to porn" amirite?

- M4H

I never 'whacked off to porn' or 'whacked off' period, so I wouldn't know. I was referring more to just not getting anything at all, but I realize my lifestyle is not the same as everyone else's, so I guess that's a possibility.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

 

[nweaver]

Originally posted by: child of wonder

Originally posted by: nweaver

You have no freaking clue what you are talking about....LMAO. We are not one of the fastest growing religions IN THE WORLD because we only teach young kids...

I have every freaking clue what I'm talking about. I even have ex-Mormons I can ask questions to in person about your despicable cult.

Upon reading my post in more depth, I fail to see anywhere that I stated the Mormon church's growth is only through teaching their children.

Originally posted by: nweaver

That means nothing, it's not an LDS church owned/operated site, but appears to be an anti mormon site....lol

Argumentum ad hominem (attacking the source).

Originally posted by: nweaver

lol, you guys sit here and try and bash what you know nothing about...it really is kinda funny.


Oh, ans for your "kinderhook" stuff

Global Warming Is A Lie

because the intarweb told me so....

Again, I know a great deal about the Mormon church through independent study and speaking personally with current and former members. I would be willing to wager that my understanding rivals or exceeds yours.

Your pathetic attempts at Red Herrings and ad hominem attacks are laughable at best, as is your grasp of the English language.

Quoting an anti mormon web about what we do and don't believe is just dumb. Go to the source, back that stuff up from lds.org, not som anti site. Find those things and link them to here. I will admit that many mormons actually have no clue about a lot, but you will find that my faith has been tried and tested, and survived, so I'm not your average mormon living in Utah. Want to find some of the best members of our church? Go to Vegas.

 

[nweaver]

Argumentum ad hominem (attacking the source).

Of course. If your source is not a valid source, your point is not a valid point. It's like what I linked about global warming. I can find every view on every subject somewhere on the internet. I can even find alternator sized beef!

 

[scootermaster]

What's really funny is that porno spelled backward is onrop.

 

[child of wonder]

Originally posted by: nweaver

Argumentum ad hominem (attacking the source).

Of course. If your source is not a valid source, your point is not a valid point. It's like what I linked about global warming. I can find every view on every subject somewhere on the internet. I can even find alternator sized beef!

You don't seem to understand my point.

No matter where the information comes from, its source does not automatically invalidate it.

If Fox News reported a tornado in Kansas, I would not immediately dismiss it.

Besides, the website shows a letter written by the First Presidency, not a criticism or opinion about the Mormon church.

You can turn a blind eye to reason and fact, but that doesn't change the reality that the Mormon church is a sham perpetuated by greedy men with materialistic agendas all the way back to the charlatan Joseph Smith who based your silly religion on imagination and Freemasonry.

History proves this via the Kinderhook plates, Mountain Meadows Massacre, the church's change of stance on polygamy to become a state, 10% tithing being required for entry to the Temple and, thus, the Celestial Kingdom, "secret" rites that are near photocopies of Freemason rituals, special underwear, the church's history of racism (black people look that way as punishment because they are descendants of Cain), the total lack of anthropological or historical evidence (in fact, the evidence speaks to the contrary) to support the claims in the Book of Mormon, the church's refusal to disclose its material wealth and income even to members, .......... the list goes on and on and on.

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Tarrant64

Originally posted by: Isla

Originally posted by: sixone

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: digiram

Originally posted by: Eghck
According to Chris Rock, women want to be responsible/in control of ALL your happiness. Masturbating pisses them off because you're making yourself happy.

rofl and qft

qft what? it's not true. it doesn't piss me off at all if a guy wants to masturbate.

Me neither. /shrug

Good grief, as I've gotten older, I'm like, could you PLEASE leave this old lady alone and go look at some porn or something????

I get it the other way around. I try to go to bed, and I get woken up.

SHENTASTIC!!!

LOL!!!

I think it would be the same here except for one thing... the timing. I want it every day at about 3PM. It's the weirdest thing. But he wants it at 11PM... when the only thing I want to do is get some sleep!!!!


On weekends, I'll even say to him, "It's 3 0'clock!!!!"

And he says "gunsmoke is on!"

I think it would be a little awkward for he to give it up at 3 as that is the time we have staff meetings

Would def. make the afternoon better for me