YAGT: (seriously) Megan is not pregnant. Our engagement is over.

[Mermaidman]

Uh--I don't know if anyone's mentioned this yet, but what's with the "Mexicans?"

 

[OutHouse]

Originally posted by: lnguyen

Originally posted by: Citrix
people make mistakes. give her a second chance.

Out of curiousity, have you ever been in a situation when someone cheated on another? I'm not trying to say anything, but a lot of ppl say this but have never experienced it. the essence of trust is completely lost. At least for me, this is something that is extremely difficult to get back. Probably just because of how i've grown up.

Yes i have, and yesterday was our 16th wedding anniversary.

 

[JJWalker]

I wonder if Pecho looked down at your name tattooed across her lower back, while he was banging the beejesus out of her, and thought, "I've got your taco right here, Jason."

 

[arod]

You bought her a 6k ring when you knew she couldnt be trusted? man people are stupid these days.....

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: JJWalker
I wonder if Pecho looked down at your name tattooed across her lower back, while he was banging her the beejesus out of her, and think, "I've got your taco right here, Jason."

LOL...so cruel.

 

[Judgement]

Originally posted by: PanzerIV

Originally posted by: JJWalker
I wonder if Pecho looked down at your name tattooed across her lower back, while he was banging her the beejesus out of her, and think, "I've got your taco right here, Jason."

LOL...so cruel.

heh wow, at least comments like this will help him from making the mistake of getting back together

 

[Schadenfroh]

fed ex her to me, wait, ups ground, im too cheap

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: lnguyen

Originally posted by: Citrix
people make mistakes. give her a second chance.

Out of curiousity, have you ever been in a situation when someone cheated on another? I'm not trying to say anything, but a lot of ppl say this but have never experienced it. the essence of trust is completely lost. At least for me, this is something that is extremely difficult to get back. Probably just because of how i've grown up.

For most people trust is what they label it as...however the real deal is they cannot accept their guy or girl with another person sexually.

If you are OK with your SO's past, you can then either deal with cheating or not ... if you are already still thinking about the guy's she banged 5-10 years ago, chances are there is no resolution possible.

Everyone gets sexual cravings for others no matter how pure they are. Whether they admit that or not is another matter and whether they act upon it or not something totally different.

People in America and other countries like it tend to think of 1 guy for 1 girl, yet in many parts of the world both man and woman do not think that way and tend to think of sex as just a part of dating much the same as a kiss. Personally to me a virgin is fun as far as surprising her and what not that first time..but overall they prove boring unless you want to constantly be the teacher and dealing with getting her to cooperate.

Give me a woman that knows what works and what doesn't any day.

 

[troglodytis]

i can help you get over her!
what's her number/address?


and, dude, your mom is still HOT!

 

[Childs]

Originally posted by: gururu
first off, its hard for me to draw sympathy for you when you refer to 'mexican' as the lowest of the low your girl would have done it with (I'm mexican btw).

hahahaha...glad I wasn't the only one who thought that was a strange thing to say. OP kinda looks mexican too.


Anyways, just let it go. By your own admission she has a history of cheating. Once you get those doubts you can't trust her anymore. And by looking at your pics, you guys do not look like a couple. I know other forum members like to say she looks like your mom, but its not that. You just don't look right together. her debts are her debts, so don't feel too bad about it. You are going to because after all, you wanted to marry this woman, but the whole relationship is tainted. Anytime she's friendly with some guy you'll wonder if she's gonna cheat. Its not your insecurity, but she has a history of it.

You should at the very least do like a trial seperation thing, but I bet you she'll have someone else in a few months.

 

[Childs]

One other thing, perhaps you are a bit too mature for women your age. They don't want mature now, they want it later. If you go out with a girl who has had it rough, she'll appreciate those qualities.

 

[DrPizza]

Originally posted by: Childs
One other thing, perhaps you are a bit too mature for women your age. They don't want mature now, they want it later. If you go out with a girl who has had it rough, she'll appreciate those qualities.

Bingo...
She won't quite fathom what she lost, although she thinks she knows now, for quite a few years.

 

[shiner]

Originally posted by: Citrix
people make mistakes. give her a second chance.

He has already done that.....it's somewhere in one of the first posts.

 

[shiner]

[Sean Connery]Knock, knock.[/Sean Connery]

[Red]Who is there?[/Red]

[Sean Connery]I don't know, but Megan is a whore![/Sean Connery]

 

[Childs]

Originally posted by: shinerburke
[Sean Connery]Knock, knock.[/Sean Connery]

[Red]Who is there?[/Red]

[Sean Connery]I don't know, but Megan is a whore![/Sean Connery]

hahahaha. that was surprisingly funny. as soon as I saw Sean Connery I started hearing his voice when reading the post.

 

[DAGTA]

Get the ring back and cut her completely out of your life.

 

[dirtboy]

Originally posted by: Red

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: rh71
glad you found out about her being a cheater

He knew that when they first started dating.

Min, be honest (I know you will!). If you were getting involved in a relationship, and 6 months down the road your partner says "Well, I cheated on my last boyfriend but we were in an abusive relationship and I was trying to get out."

Would you cut ties right there?

I would just have sex with her until I got bored and then I would break up with her. I would never get serious with someone who cheated. If they did it once, they'll do it again.

 

[Zee]

before you ever bang her again, be sure to she gets tested if you value your d!ck

 

[Anghang]

i didn't read thru the whole thread, only your initial post....so...

get the ring back
pay off your debt
do what you need to do to gain some closure, even if it means forgiving her
then cut her off, never answer or return her calls
and most importantly...know that you're better off w/o her

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: spidey07

Originally posted by: Tomato

Originally posted by: spidey07
women cheat. its what they do.

"I don't feel loved/romantic...maybe if I get some I'll feel loved."

They generally do it because they're not getting something they need from a relationship and go outside it to find it rather than actually address the problem.

It means they have deep rooted problems. Avoid.

Please note men cheat too, spidey. For differing reasons, though... "there was a hot piece of ass in my face so I tapped it."

yeah, but we don't do it to fill a void/hole. we do it just to get something different.

Well, technically ... :evil:

Oh, and all you whiny little bitchs going "OMG he said 'Mexican'" should go get in on the Hot Deal for free boxes of No More Tears and Tampax Ultra-Absorbent. The negative connotation is being made by you.

- M4H

 

[DaiShan]

Eh, collect the following supplies:
1 Plastic bag
1 Roll of Duct Tape
1 Stun Gun
1 Shovel

Now I want you to use your imagination on what you could possible do with said supplies...


Seriously though, sorry to hear about your breakup, but fwiw I think you are doing the right thing, for me at least something like that would prevent me from trusting her ever again, and no relationship can last without trust. Oh btw, you might not feel bad now, but in a few days/weeks you will start feeling really sh!tty, thats when you need to think about all the f'ed up sh!t that happened and be like yeah I'm better off without her.

 

[PingSpike]

Originally posted by: captains
get the ring

Yep. Get it and never look back.

 

[welst10]

Originally posted by: SampSon
All humans "cheat".

Simply because monogamy is not in human nature. No matter how much you force your willpower.

So wrong a statement. You may say all humans have desire to cheat. But only a small portion do cheat.

 

[amcdonald]

If she had gotten drunk and made out with a guy, it would be understandable, if not expected, to forgive her.

However, she was running her mouth about how much you suck, then hung out & made out with a guy for a few weeks.
She's a cheating whore with absolutely no respect for you. DO NOT LOOK BACK. simple as that.
Let her play with someone else's emotions and learn from her mistake(s).

 

[olds]

She lied, she's toast.