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Originally posted by: fisher
wow, if you can't trust your mom not to cheat on you, who CAN you trust?
Originally posted by: fisher
wow, if you can't trust your mom not to cheat on you, who CAN you trust?
Originally posted by: Alkaline5
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Bottom line though is either way the girl is not wrong for what she did. They weren't married and it sounded rocky to begin with. A lot of times one person is doing something the other person wants and they don't want to hurt any feelings. A lot of times this is due to guilt trips, but it doesn't have to be.
WTF, man? Bottom line is you're just speculating about what she did, too. Her family members and ex-fiance believe that she slept with this other guy and lied about it. In a serious, monogamous relationship that's wrong. If she wasn't happy in the relationship then she should have been honest about it.
Edit:grammar
If another family member has an ADULT staying with them they should know that sex goes along with that. I can see not having strangers over, but apparently she knew this guy no matter what his nationality was.
Originally posted by: csaddict
If another family member has an ADULT staying with them they should know that sex goes along with that. I can see not having strangers over, but apparently she knew this guy no matter what his nationality was.
Maybe in your house but there's no way this is appropriate in mine or a lot of other peoples I would guess. It's disrespectful.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: csaddict
If another family member has an ADULT staying with them they should know that sex goes along with that. I can see not having strangers over, but apparently she knew this guy no matter what his nationality was.
Maybe in your house but there's no way this is appropriate in mine or a lot of other peoples I would guess. It's disrespectful.
First off, how old are you and how many guests have you even had over your house?
If a dating couple is coming down on vacation, you best not offer them your spare room then and stick to CounterStrike if that is what the csaddict is. Adults like sex, they like it more on vacation since they can relax and 'do it' more often (pun intended). These adults should be respectful as far as not waking the neighbors, getting naked in the public areas of the house, etc...but in their room anything should go.
The disrespectful thing would be to offer couple a room and then lay down no-sex rules.
If you are a bible thumper or virgin I suspect all the sex just would make one jealous.
oh well.
Originally posted by: Wuffsunie
I've been reading through some of the utter sh!t you've been spewing alkemyst, and I have to ask if you believe in loyality to one's family? Not the whole childish "I'll cover your butt while you do something stupid" kind, but the more mature kind that keeps you from pulling sh!t like that on your own family members. Engaged (let alone for three years) pretty much makes one family IMO, and you do not backstab or facilitate the backstabbing of other family members! Doing that kind of stuff to other people is one thing, but you should never, ever do it to your own!
Originally posted by: alkemyst
As an ADULT our sexual sides are private. If her uncle had a problem with that then he should have talked to her privately about it, but he should not be expecting her to change because of his opinion. He sure as hell should not be telling others she is having sex here and there when he doesn't know what's going on.
If an ADULT wants to go out nightly and nail half the bar, it's their purogative. Perhaps it's embarrassing to the 'family' but they need to deal with that end of it.
:roll: Oh, the irony.Now she is an ADULT, perhaps you are not one.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: Wuffsunie
I've been reading through some of the utter sh!t you've been spewing alkemyst, and I have to ask if you believe in loyality to one's family? Not the whole childish "I'll cover your butt while you do something stupid" kind, but the more mature kind that keeps you from pulling sh!t like that on your own family members. Engaged (let alone for three years) pretty much makes one family IMO, and you do not backstab or facilitate the backstabbing of other family members! Doing that kind of stuff to other people is one thing, but you should never, ever do it to your own!
I don't think they were engaged three years, but regardless the discussion should have been between Megan and the uncle. Engaged doesn't = family.
You are basically saying it's ok to backstab a direct family member in order to save a possible one.....
please think.
Originally posted by: Rufio
come on akemyst...think for a second
just because someone is your family member doesn't mean you have to support them when they do stupid crap.
for instance, if you had a brother who was a murderer, you wouldn't do anything about if you knew about it, just because he was a family member?
being family has nothing to do with right and wrong. doing the right thing is most important in this case.
Demote her to booty call. Use plenty of protection. That way you won't get so jealous when she cheats on you in the future. She will again.
Originally posted by: hysperion
Demote her to booty call. Use plenty of protection. That way you won't get so jealous when she cheats on you in the future. She will again.
Originally posted by: wkabel23
Originally posted by: SP33Demon
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