YAGT: Should I call my Ex-gf back?

[Sentinel]

Originally posted by: iroast

Originally posted by: Sentinel
You broke up with her, so you don't owe her anything.

Um, it's the other way around.

Originally posted by: Ilmater
I broke up with her a couple months ago.

 

[iroast]

Originally posted by: Sentinel

Originally posted by: iroast

Originally posted by: Sentinel
You broke up with her, so you don't owe her anything.

Um, it's the other way around.

Originally posted by: Ilmater
I broke up with her a couple months ago.

What i meant was that he does owe her because he broke up with her. If she had broken up with him, then he owes her nothing.

In any case, it's his call ;-)

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: iroast
Just call her. Keep it friendly, courteous and short. No harm in that.

No harm? She's a girl. I didn't enjoy breaking up with her. Calling her again will be like breaking up with her again.

i sense you still have more feelings for her than you want to admit.

Hah. No. Not every guy that doesn't want to be mean to a girl wants her back.

 

[Ilmater]

Originally posted by: iroast
What i meant was that he does owe her because he broke up with her. If she had broken up with him, then he owes her nothing.

In any case, it's his call ;-)

I was thinking the same thing Sentinel was, but yes, you're right. That's exactly why I feel I owe her.

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

If you can get some action, I say hit it

Jason

 

[l Xes l]

why dig up the old tax returns?

 

[J Heartless Slick]

Originally posted by: Ilmater
Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

Call her and find out what is going on. You do not have to do anything else you do not want to.

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: Ilmater
Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

Can you honestly not make this simple life decision on your own and without ATOT intervention?

 

[thestranger]

next time she calls get some random girl to answer for you and sound like you just gave her the "BIG ONE"..

 

[SMOGZINN]

Originally posted by: jbourne77

Originally posted by: Ilmater
Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

Can you honestly not make this simple life decision on your own and without ATOT intervention?

Can you honestly not crap on threads? Do you have a problem knowing that other people are having a conversation, and you have nothing constructive to add?

 

[SMOGZINN]

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: iroast
What i meant was that he does owe her because he broke up with her. If she had broken up with him, then he owes her nothing.

In any case, it's his call ;-)

I was thinking the same thing Sentinel was, but yes, you're right. That's exactly why I feel I owe her.

We owe our ex's nothing, nor do they owe us. We must only stay with a person as long as we both choose to do so. To stay with a person one moment longer is a fraud.

 

[alm4rr]

Originally posted by: Ilmater
Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

reason why flip to answer is turned off on my phone

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: SMOGZINN

Originally posted by: jbourne77

Originally posted by: Ilmater
Topic pretty much says it all. I broke up with her a couple months ago, and we haven't spoken since. It didn't end on a bad note or anything, I just didn't see a point in spending a bunch of time on the phone with someone that I wasn't going to see again.

Friday night I was in a bar, my phone started ringing, so I took it out and started opening it (I set my phone to answer when I open it. When I saw it was her, I just kind of freaked out and closed the phone quickly. I doubt she even heard anything from the bar, but I'm sure she knows I picked up and then hung up.

So should I call back and explain myself? I don't want to make her feel bad, but at the same time, I do NOT want to start talking to her again.

Can you honestly not make this simple life decision on your own and without ATOT intervention?

Can you honestly not crap on threads? Do you have a problem knowing that other people are having a conversation, and you have nothing constructive to add?

Eat my ass.

 

[ThePresence]

That's why I love the dump button on my Nextel. I see who's calling w/o opening the phone, if I don't want to answer I hit the dump button to send it to voicemail. Of course there are 1000 other ways to do that, but I can do it w/o flipping open the phone.

yes, I know you can too.

 

[Sentinel]

Honestly, if you broke up with someone- you still wouldn't owe them anything. You broke up with them because you aren't in love/want to move on/etc. and how you handle that is your call.

 

[DragonMasterAlex]

Originally posted by: krnxpride83
why dig up the old tax returns?

Sometimes they're fun I used to go out with this woman who was a bit too old for me (14 years older than I am), but *damn* did she have the body of a 25 year old and the lust of a 35 year old. That woman had *stamina* the likes of which I have never seen (vegetarian, she was in *superb* shape). Suffice to say, the opportunity arises to hit that again, I am SO there

Jason