YAGT: Should I make her pay me back?

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Gibson486

Lifer
Aug 9, 2000
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: Gibson486
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: blackdogdeek
would you ask anyone else to pay you for a gift they lost?

I bought it for her, not as a gift, but so she could talk to me. I expected to get it back after the relationship was over.

hmmm...that in it self seems to be a heartless statement.....

We've been dating for a year and a half.. it wasn't nearly as much about our relationship as it was about giving her contact with the rest of the world.

I felt really badly for her, she could never talk or go out with anyone.

you have no business doing that then.
 

amish

Diamond Member
Aug 20, 2004
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: amish
Originally posted by: Drakkon
ummm ask the parents for YOUR phone back? you bought it, you own it, you pay for it, it is yours.

well said. give them a bill for each month if they don't.

I'm already cancelling the service.. I'm jjust wondering what I should do with the $100 it cost me for the phone and it's activation fee.

the phone you should get back from her rents but the activation fee you may just have to goatse it. as in bend over and start spreading cause they will probably not pay you back for that.
 

GT578

Senior member
Feb 7, 2000
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You're a cheap boyfriend. WHo the hell would want that back when the relationship is over?? Just cancel the service and be done with it.
 

RbSX

Diamond Member
Jan 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: GT578
You're a cheap boyfriend. WHo the hell would want that back when the relationship is over?? Just cancel the service and be done with it.

I'm a cheap boyfriend?

$200 custom teddy bear for birthday
$400 in clothing for no reason when I was in New York
$100 Ring

The list goes on
 

Drakkon

Diamond Member
Aug 14, 2001
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yes you are a "cheap" boyfriend...if your talying up $ for $ what you've spent on her you are CHEAP...
the issue now sounds more like u need to grow up more than the gf needing more "freedom"
 

Grunt03

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Jun 24, 2000
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I would present the situation to the parents, you have already stopped the service. Talk to them about the
phone and that you would like it returned. If they refuse then take them to court. Of course thi swill mean that you will probally need to find another girlfriend.
 

Grunt03

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Jun 24, 2000
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I would present the situation to the parents, you have already stopped the service. Talk to them about the
phone and that you would like it returned. If they refuse then take them to court. Of course thi swill mean that you will probally need to find another girlfriend.
 

NutBucket

Lifer
Aug 30, 2000
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: amish
Originally posted by: Drakkon
ummm ask the parents for YOUR phone back? you bought it, you own it, you pay for it, it is yours.

well said. give them a bill for each month if they don't.

I'm already cancelling the service.. I'm jjust wondering what I should do with the $100 it cost me for the phone and it's activation fee.

Send a letter (yes as in a piece of paper) Explain she was borrowing your phone and that its not hers. They have no business confiscating your property at any rate.
 

ndee

Lifer
Jul 18, 2000
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Originally posted by: Pablo
Her parents have your phone and won't give it back? Is that something like stealing property? If you really wanted to piss them off, you could call the cops or something...

Yeah, call the cops, I'm sure they won't laugh in your face.
 

Yo Ma Ma

Lifer
Jan 21, 2000
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Why would they take the phone?
Get it back from them.

They're jerks, they hate me. As a matter of fact, they hate all non-asian non-biblethumping guys.

LOL. You shouldn't sneak behind their backs.
 

RbSX

Diamond Member
Jan 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: Yo_Ma-Ma
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: TheAudit
Why would they take the phone?
Get it back from them.

They're jerks, they hate me. As a matter of fact, they hate all non-asian non-biblethumping guys.

LOL. You shouldn't sneak behind their backs.

Tell that to their daughter, she does ALOT of stuff behind their backs. I doubt they know the half of it.
 

FreshFish

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May 16, 2004
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The parents are withholding YOUR property. Go to their door, demand it back. If they refuse, call the cops.

BTW, they sound like dicks ( i know parents like that)

good luck
 

blueskye13

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Nov 3, 2004
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call the parents...if the phone and bill are in your name it is legally yours....if they do not get it back report it stolen
 

rahvin

Elite Member
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Take pictures of her "paying" you back and mail them to her parents.

I've already got pictures

Admitting on the internet that you are in possesion of child pornography is probably not the smartest thing to do. You also have implied in the same thread that you have likely commited statutory rape (depending on what state you live in).

You aren't the smartest cookie in the box are you?
 

RbSX

Diamond Member
Jan 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: rahvin
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Take pictures of her "paying" you back and mail them to her parents.

I've already got pictures

Admitting on the internet that you are in possesion of child pornography is probably not the smartest thing to do. You also have implied in the same thread that you have likely commited statutory rape (depending on what state you live in).

You aren't the smartest cookie in the box are you?

I was younger than 18 at the time, it wasn't statuatory, the laws are different in Canada. I did ALOT of research into this, because I was in alot of trouble.

And I don't have any nekkid pics of her.. just rather revealing pictures.. people on this board have seen them. They're of her in her bikini and stuff.
 

farmercal

Golden Member
Mar 23, 2000
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You said she can't date or see anybody, but you also claim to have been dating her for a year and a half. If she can't see anyone, how can she date you? What constitutes a date in your mind? As far as the cell phone goes....sometimes you just gotta let go.
 

RbSX

Diamond Member
Jan 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: farmercal
You said she can't date or see anybody, but you also claim to have been dating her for a year and a half. If she can't see anyone, how can she date you? What constitutes a date in your mind? As far as the cell phone goes....sometimes you just gotta let go.

She goes out occassoinally.. with friends and I'll meet up with them.
 
Jul 12, 2001
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like other people said, its your property...get it back from them.


edit: and you better update this thread and tell us how you confront them...
 

RbSX

Diamond Member
Jan 18, 2002
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Originally posted by: MrDingleDangle
like other people said, its your property...get it back from them.


edit: and you better update this thread and tell us how you confront them...

I will don't you worry.
 

AnyMal

Lifer
Nov 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: rahvin
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: dabuddha
Take pictures of her "paying" you back and mail them to her parents.

I've already got pictures

Admitting on the internet that you are in possesion of child pornography is probably not the smartest thing to do. You also have implied in the same thread that you have likely commited statutory rape (depending on what state you live in).

You aren't the smartest cookie in the box are you?

I was younger than 18 at the time, it wasn't statuatory, the laws are different in Canada. I did ALOT of research into this, because I was in alot of trouble.

And I don't have any nekkid pics of her.. just rather revealing pictures.. people on this board have seen them. They're of her in her bikini and stuff.
You'er getting stupider with each post. Forget the phone. Forget her. Move on.
 
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