Normally I would suggest this for the two of you:
Philadelphia shuts down Swingers Clubs, compares them to Brothels
Many people just lump swing and sex clubs in the same company with brothels, adult bookstores and peep shows, strip clubs, and "gentlemen's clubs."
Legally, however, there is a difference. Prostitution is a crime, and gentlemen's clubs - officially adult cabarets - are heavily regulated. Rules include descriptions of which body parts dancers must keep covered and what customers may do.
Members say swing clubs are none of the above, more akin to private clubs, except members may doff their clothes and engage in sex - if they choose.
The clubs don't violate prostitution laws, said Young, Tizer's attorney, because what sex does occur is spontaneous and consensual, and no money changes hands. They are not adult cabarets, because employees don't strip. They don't run afoul of liquor laws, because they typically serve a buffet dinner, dessert and breakfast and are BYOB
Tizer said he and his wife, Pat, also known as "Redhead," the club's online Web hostess, got involved in swinging when they married nine years ago after unsuccessful earlier relationships.
"This will not fix a bad marriage, but it can make a good marriage between open, honest couples stronger," Tizer said.
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but Philadelphia like most of the Country is now saying sex is bad and evil except for procreation, church donations and votes.
Keep voting the way you are and you will have to pick a number to be assigned who, when, where you will have sex only to make a baby with a designated wife.
Enjoy