Originally posted by: hysperion
Originally posted by: Iron Addict
Why I am mad:
1. She does NOT understand why I was mad. I wasn't upset because I was jealous. I was upset cause I was so worried about her safety and well being.
2. She doesn't understand why I have no trust in her. It's not because of her "evil" intentions that I can't trust her, yet because of her lack of "common sense." (As you can see in another thread and many other examples I havent mentioned.)
3. She thinks her guy "friends" are her true friends. (uhhh... sure)
4. She thinks I'm such a horrible boyfriend for being upset and getting worked up like this.
5. She CANNOT admit or realize that it was her mistake.
I really wish I could be with my gf or even marry her in future. But, the part of her where she can't even see what she did wrong or admit her mistakes just pisses me off. This kind of problems will probably visit me again unless she's willing to open her mind and see her mistakes which probably wont happen. I dont know if I should break up with her or not as of now.
1) Shens! You're mad because you thought she was cheating on you- why lie to ATOT and yourself? Besides, who can blame you- I'd be damned if my girlfriend was out screwing around with another guy @ any time of the day unless the guy is family.
2) You don't trust her because she's a woman. Women cheat- as do men- and you don't want to be posting another YAGT next week about it......
3) That's what she tells you.
4) She already thought you were a horrible boyfriend or she wouldn't be out with other guys til midnight in the first place..
5) She'll admit to her friends that you were the mistake in a week or so.
Best advice I can give is to put your foot down and mean it- otherwise you just look like a b1tch. If you feel as strongly as you do then tell her that it won't happen again while you're dating her and mean it.....