YAGT: So my girlfriend went to chill with a guy friend...

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
ok dude, too many red flags here...i really hope you're not online right now cause you're kicking that bitch to the curb...or at least giving her an ultimatum..."straighten the ****** up, or i'm out"

Judging from the other thread and this one combined, this would be his best option.

 

[quakefiend420]

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
ok dude, too many red flags here...i really hope you're not online right now cause you're kicking that bitch to the curb...or at least giving her an ultimatum..."straighten the ****** up, or i'm out"

Judging from the other thread and this one combined, this would be his best option.

was his thread the one about guy friends and his gf wanting to kick it with them 1 on 1? basically her wanting to date while she was with him?

link?

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: quakefiend420

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: quakefiend420
ok dude, too many red flags here...i really hope you're not online right now cause you're kicking that bitch to the curb...or at least giving her an ultimatum..."straighten the ****** up, or i'm out"

Judging from the other thread and this one combined, this would be his best option.

was his thread the one about guy friends and his gf wanting to kick it with them 1 on 1? basically her wanting to date while she was with him?

link?

yep, I think it will be on page 2 of the ATOT forum

 

[MichaelD]

I'm just waiting to find out what happened. I read every post in this thread AND his other one. Of course, I gave my opinion in the other thread; Stumps and I (and others too) are in total agreement on what is going on here.

 

[Stumps]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
I'm just waiting to find out what happened. I read every post in this thread AND his other one. Of course, I gave my opinion in the other thread; Stumps and I (and others too) are in total agreement on what is going on here.

yep, Iron Addicts GF is a cock gobbler

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You were generating good advice earlier, then you had to step across the line

See you in two weeks.

Anandtech Moderator

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: MichaelD
I'm just waiting to find out what happened. I read every post in this thread AND his other one. Of course, I gave my opinion in the other thread; Stumps and I (and others too) are in total agreement on what is going on here.

yep, Iron Addicts GF is a cock gobbler

I mean, Jesus J. Jumping Christ, after all that BS in the other thread. "I talked to her." "We talked it out and she's not gonna do it." :roll:

Whatever! She went and did it ANYWAY and in his FACE. Cell phone's dead my ass; that's the oldest line in the book...I've used it myself countless times. So...you couldn't find a pay phone? Use someone else's phone?

Went out with another group of people after, eh? Puh-leese. :roll:

ps
This guy and the guy with the GF who just started college and wants to drink and party should get together and write a tome on "How to be a modern, spineless, progressive doormat of man."

 

[eakers]

this reminds me of a backstreet boys song

:music: Listen baby, I'm sorry
Just wanna tell you don't worry
I will be late
Don't stay up and wait for me
I said again, your dropping out
My battery is low
Just so you know
We're going to a place nearby
Gotta go :music:

 

[91TTZ]

Is this guy trolling? It seems it's every week that he posts about his "girlfriend" hanging out alone with random guys. He's either a troll or a mega sucker.

 

[Vich]

Originally posted by: michaels
Oh the old battery dead line..lol. She has a cock in her mouth right now or is bent over geting drilled.

ROFL, my thoughts exactly

 

[dabuddha]

Originally posted by: Iron Addict

Originally posted by: Mo0o
Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?

I'm 99.8% sure she's not cheating on me. She wouldn't, i kno her well. She will break up with me if she's got the urge to cheat.

I used to think that too :/

 

[Viperoni]

I also find it wierd a "different group of friends" managed to get ahold of her... yet she was unable to get ahold of you until she was done chilling with them.

 

[BD2003]

Originally posted by: Paddington
Where do you think your relationship with this girl is going? Do you want to be married to a woman whose idea of a good time is to hang out with other men, one-on-one? And in case you don't know, NO THAT IS NOT NORMAL.

I dunno, it's becoming more and more normal. I know plenty of other girls with BFs who don't know where that line is. They dont know because they ARE completely innocent. They don't truly understand the way guys are.

Thankfully, my gf doesn't usually give me headaches with this, and I likewise do the same. Because she knows how guys are, and I obviously do as well.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Viperoni
I also find it wierd a "different group of friends" managed to get ahold of her... yet she was unable to get ahold of you until she was done chilling with them.

*ding* Winnar! Give that man a cee-gar!

 

[y2kc]

Originally posted by: Iron Addict

Originally posted by: Mo0o
Do you have any particular reason to suspect she would be willing to cheat on you?

I'm 99.8% sure she's not cheating on me. She wouldn't, i kno her well. She will break up with me if she's got the urge to cheat.

I have been in your shoes. I too was in denial. I was 100% sure she wasn't cheating... blasted my friends that suggested that she was despite the obvious signs (dead cell phones, etc). I learned the hard way...

"where there's smoke, there's fire"

And even if she isn't cheating you two apparently have different ideas of what monogamy is. Sounds like compromise isn't an option (nor should it be)...

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: BD2003
I know plenty of other girls with BFs who don't know where that line is. They dont know because they ARE completely innocent. They don't truly understand the way guys are.

I have a bridge that I'd like to sell you.

 

[misle]

Hell, if I was her, and you whined this much, I would cheat on you to.

2 questions:
Do you trust her?
If not, why are you with her?
If you do trust her, chill the fvck out.

I have female friends and we hang out all the time. It's not a big deal.
You should sit down with her and explain that you are a jealous, insecure wuss and you need to know where she is 24/7, because you're afraid that she'll find someone better (which at this point wouldn't be difficult).

 

[Vich]

Originally posted by: MichaelD

Originally posted by: Viperoni
I also find it wierd a "different group of friends" managed to get ahold of her... yet she was unable to get ahold of you until she was done chilling with them.

*ding* Winnar! Give that man a cee-gar!

hahaha

 

[lokiju]

Everyones gonna think I'm an ass, but years ago I was with a girl that was in a relationship and I was tapping it on the side, I saw her use the "my battery is dead" excuse so many times on her bf it's not even funny, yet he was a sucker and a push over and always looked the other way or always forgave her, if I were in her bf's shoes I would have kicked my ass and put my foot down with her or broke things off.

Either way you're being played, acting all innocent of it doesn't mean she doesn't realize what shes doing, you need to say whats up to her and if she pulls some B.S. "but I had no way of calling" shyte, then tell her you're going to put things on hold to think about the relationship or just all together break it off and be done with it.


Just my opinion.

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: michaels
Oh the old battery dead line..lol. She has a cock in her mouth right now or is bent over geting drilled.

rofl....

 

[Maxspeed996]

Originally posted by: Stumps

Originally posted by: MichaelD
I'm just waiting to find out what happened. I read every post in this thread AND his other one. Of course, I gave my opinion in the other thread; Stumps and I (and others too) are in total agreement on what is going on here.

yep, Iron Addicts GF is a cock gobbler

College has Wasted-Smoked-Destroyed-Owned...more than one relationship....this is the story you will hear from THOUSANDS all across the country...almost identical too!!

 

[pontifex]

just get rid of her. its obvious that she's cheating on you.

 

[Jack Ryan]

Where is the update

 

[thehstrybean]

Originally posted by: JonTheBaller
I hope she has updated dental records

Ouch....



Seriously, don't worry...You should trust her....


That said, I'd probably feel the same way....

 

[Jack Ryan]

Wait, I just read the other thread. Come on man, the signs are there. I know it is hard since you are not looking at it from the outside, but you guys just went through this a few weeks ago! She is ALREADY going out with another dude? Come on man, it is beyond "letting her be her own person", it is about respect for you and she isn't showing that.

Life is too short, don't waste your time trying to fight her. If she doesn't understand your point of view (or doesn't care), find someone who will. Life will be more enjoyable.

 

[iamme]

so.......this is the same guy who she wanted "alone time" with in your other thread?

dude, salvage your self-respect and tell her it's over. she doesn't give a damn about how you feel and there's a good chance she's thinking about cheating, or may have already. end the relationship and i'm 99% sure she'll end up with that guy.

the best retribution would be to convince her into one last session of make-up sex. immediately after you're done, spank her on the ass, tell her it's over, and kick her out of bed.