YAGT: So my girlfriend went to chill with a guy friend...

[Vegitto]

She's boinking him. Sorry, man.

 

[Miklebud]

Originally posted by: Maxspeed996

College has Wasted-Smoked-Destroyed-Owned...more than one relationship....this is the story you will hear from THOUSANDS all across the country...almost identical too!!

Here here. I'm one of those victims. My 4 year relationship got owned. And my story is IDENTICAL to this one, except I was living with the girl.

 

[linkgoron]

Wow you guys are so paranoid.

Haven't you ever been with a friend (girl) for more than 7 hours and didn't have sex?
OMG so her cell died. She could've told you that she was at a girl-friends house and her cell died if she wanted to cheat on you.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Iron Addict

Originally posted by: dug777
Don't act in an upset fashion, you lose all moral authority and high ground teh moment you do that.

100% agreed. Im going to try to be as calm as possible. But Im pretty darn upset.

Yeah, be very very calm.

Make sure to express, even though you may not need to be worried, you were worried and a bit jealous. She may even be flattered that you were worried and jealous.

...Of course, there is the slightest inkling that she is saying to kiss off, but that is a risk you need to take.

 

[Jack Ryan]

Originally posted by: linkgoron
Wow you guys are so paranoid.

Haven't you even been with a friend (girl) for more than 7 hours and didn't have sex?
OMG so her cell died. She could've told you that she was at a girl-friends house and her cell died if she wanted to cheat on you.

Sorry, my original post was rude and insensitive.

Answer: No and I wouldn't trust anyone else to be either.

 

[Zee]

Originally posted by: Iron Addict
i just got a call from her... she heading home. Apparently, she went out with different group of people afterwards...

yeah right.

oh and by the way, break up first rather cheat is completely untrue. One doesnt really PLAN on cheating and wont break up first, and if you do plan on cheating there's no point in breaking up first.

are you still in high school?

 

[j00fek]

so what does she say when your out with your friends and there is a chick there?
man everone has friends of the opposit sex deal with it

 

[Mellman]

when she gets home get some, and then break up w/ her and tell her you have herpes

 

[yllus]

Originally posted by: yllus on 09/19/2006 09:21 AM
I'm making a note in my Outlook Calendar to ask Iron Addict in 60 days whether he's still with his girlfriend. Iron Addict, we demand an update if you break up with this girl.

My original prediction looks like it'll going to be easily met...

See what happens when you ignore the advice of people who've been there and had that happen to them? Now when you confront her, she's going to respond really aggressively and angrily to try to cow you into dropping your line of questioning. It's crazy how the exact same thing happens to virtually all of us.

 

[mikej007]

Originally posted by: Astaroth33
From the last thread:

After some more talks, I have convinced her that her behavior and decision were totally unacceptable. We have come to an agreement that she will never go "chill" with some dude unless I know the dude and approve of him.

That's what I was thinking... I thought after your last thread you two agreed she wouldn't go out with guys one-on-one. And then she goes and does it ANYWAY with a nice smack in your face? D-A-M-N.

Sorry man, but you need to wake up. Ditch her, before she confirms what everyone else in this thread already knows. It'll hurt less that way. If she hasnt cheated yet, she is definitely "putting feelers" out there to see what's available (I invite all the puns to start flying after that line).

 

[IceBergSLiM]

WHY IS YOUR GIRLFRIEND DATING OTHER GUYS? ARE YOU ALLOWED TO DATE OTHER GIRLS?

 

[jhayx7]

Update?

 

[mikej007]

From this thread:

Originally posted by: Iron Addict
You free now brother. B!tches they come they go.

Umm... seems kind of weird advice coming from you...

 

[jaysgirl]

Originally posted by: mikej007
From this thread:

Originally posted by: Iron Addict
You free now brother. B!tches they come they go.

Umm... seems kind of weird advice coming from you...

i think he posted that before he got a call from his girlfriend and was upset
and expecting the worst

 

[Alex]

whoa dude i can't believe you stuck with her for so long....

can i get cliff notes in the first post? this thread is way too long to wade through it for updated details since last week....

 

[Iron Addict]

Originally posted by: jaysgirl

Originally posted by: mikej007
From this thread:

Originally posted by: Iron Addict
You free now brother. B!tches they come they go.

Umm... seems kind of weird advice coming from you...

i think he posted that before he got a call from his girlfriend and was upset
and expecting the worst

yes.

I will give my updates later I gotta run to the class!... Sleep deprived..

 

[dman]

Bookmarked for later.

 

[EPCrew]

http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1930138&enterthread=y

Didn't she agree that she would stop? I had to ask even though I don't believe that was the right way to go about it. You can't control her and the more your forbid anything, the faster it's going to happen.

 

[CKDragon]

Originally posted by: EPCrew
http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...atid=38&threadid=1930138&enterthread=y

Didn't she agree that she would stop? I had to ask even though I don't believe that was the right way to go about it. You can't control her and the more your forbid anything, the faster it's going to happen.

Man, re-reading that third update and realizing the tone ("I wholeheartly thank everyone here that gave me sound advices which brought this to a peaceful end. Thank you ATOT!") and now being given the "can't update now, gotta run" crap, I'm more inclined to think the whole darn thing is shens.

 

[Chunkee]

this is sad...but have been there when i was young and stupid...time to move on...for God's sake...wake up...you are young and in school...go find some chicks to CHILL with and have fun....this chick is dragging your sorry arse all over the place... give ms. spunkdunk the boot

jC

 

[TheAdvocate]

1. dip your wick one last time
2. record it (ahh memories!)
3. mail it to her parents and new boyfriend after she dumps you like she's planning to do

In all seriousness, it isn't hard to tell if she's physically cheating on you unless she's just a total skank. When she comes back from one of the sessions, have sex with her. If she isn't interested and instead goes running for the shower, she cheated on you.

 

[hypn0tik]

Updates?

 

[Chunkee]

Originally posted by: TheAdvocate

1. dip your wick one last time
2. record it (ahh memories!)
3. mail it to her parents and new boyfriend after she dumps you like she's planning to do

In all seriousness, it isn't hard to tell if she's physically cheating on you unless she's just a total skank. When she comes back from one of the sessions, have sex with her. If she isn't interested and instead goes running for the shower, she cheated on you.

...Unless she enjoys the hobagging deluxe repository mode...

 

[iRONic]

Originally posted by: Ronstang
Aren't you the fool who posted a thread about your girlfriend of 3 years wanting to go on "1 on 1" encounters with guys she has just recently met? If so you obvioulsy didn't learn a damned thing in that thread. Whether you are willing to admit it to yourself or not you are being cheated on. You are now a doormat.

 

[scott916]

I seriously don't get why you even bother posting in threads like this. Do you seriously believe that it's even appropriate for her to be doing what she's doing even if shes NOT cheating on you?

If she gave even part of a sh!t about what you think, she would have made an effort to call you waaaaay before 1230. The things you've been describing simply don't happen in any healthy relationship, and always happen in ones where one person is cheating. And I hate to tell ya, she won't break up with you if she cheats on you unless you find out or she decides to be serious with the other guy.