I just went to a Korean store with my Korean girlfriend. She is close with the family that runs the store.
My GF always tells me how delicate our relationship is, due to the fact that I am a White Jewish guy. Her cousin even cussed me out last weekend for dating her.
I know absolutely no Korean, and my GF never clues me in to the social intricacies of Korean culture.
But when we went into the store she bowed and spoke exclusively in Korean the entire time. She never introduced me. Never even motioned towards me.
The store owners brought us some candy flavored yogurt which I drank and said thank you twice for.
Then I bought about 20 dollars worth of stuff, and said thank you again.
Then my GF bowed and they shared more Korean with each other.
I started to walk out the door because I thought the conversation was ending with my GF's bow and final exchange of words.
But as I am opening the door to leave, she sais , in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, "say Good-Bye". I know it doesn't sound like much, but her tone was very demeaning.
I stuttered a "Good-Bye" and ducked out feeling kinda embarrased.
I told my GF that I didnt appreciate the way she handled that situation. That I was uncomfortable to begin with ,and her ignoring me and then talking to me like a child just made it even worse.
She got mad and now she wont talk to me.
My GF always tells me how delicate our relationship is, due to the fact that I am a White Jewish guy. Her cousin even cussed me out last weekend for dating her.
I know absolutely no Korean, and my GF never clues me in to the social intricacies of Korean culture.
But when we went into the store she bowed and spoke exclusively in Korean the entire time. She never introduced me. Never even motioned towards me.
The store owners brought us some candy flavored yogurt which I drank and said thank you twice for.
Then I bought about 20 dollars worth of stuff, and said thank you again.
Then my GF bowed and they shared more Korean with each other.
I started to walk out the door because I thought the conversation was ending with my GF's bow and final exchange of words.
But as I am opening the door to leave, she sais , in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, "say Good-Bye". I know it doesn't sound like much, but her tone was very demeaning.
I stuttered a "Good-Bye" and ducked out feeling kinda embarrased.
I told my GF that I didnt appreciate the way she handled that situation. That I was uncomfortable to begin with ,and her ignoring me and then talking to me like a child just made it even worse.
She got mad and now she wont talk to me.