Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: Ultima
I say it's BS. You live in north america, not korea, and she should show you a little more respect than that. North America is about freedom, not repressive cultural norms from the home country.
Yeah screw it, NA is all about freedom. Just this morning, I called my mom a b!tch, my grandma a hag and wished my sick grand dad death. Screw it, I am free and not bound by some stupid cultural norms.
Originally posted by: Ultima
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Originally posted by: Ultima
I say it's BS. You live in north america, not korea, and she should show you a little more respect than that. North America is about freedom, not repressive cultural norms from the home country.
Yeah screw it, NA is all about freedom. Just this morning, I called my mom a b!tch, my grandma a hag and wished my sick grand dad death. Screw it, I am free and not bound by some stupid cultural norms.
Yes, exactly, NA is about the freedom to do exactly as you described. You don't like that? Too bad. And if you're the type of person to wish your sick grand dad dead, then more power to you.How's them rolling eyes?
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Kick + Curb = Her
And oh yeah, pics? She'd better be at least an 8.5/10 for you to put up with that bitchy attitude.
- M4H
Originally posted by: SherEPunjab
Originally posted by: MAME
Originally posted by: polm
I just went to a Korean store with my Korean girlfriend. She is close with the family that runs the store.
My GF always tells me how delicate our relationship is, due to the fact that I am a White Jewish guy. Her cousin even cussed me out last weekend for dating her.
I know absolutely no Korean, and my GF never clues me in to the social intricacies of Korean culture.
But when we went into the store she bowed and spoke exclusively in Korean the entire time. She never introduced me. Never even motioned towards me.
The store owners brought us some candy flavored yogurt which I drank and said thank you twice for.
Then I bought about 20 dollars worth of stuff, and said thank you again.
Then my GF bowed and they shared more Korean with each other.
I started to walk out the door because I thought the conversation was ending with my GF's bow and final exchange of words.
But as I am opening the door to leave, she sais , in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, "say Good-Bye". I know it doesn't sound like much, but her tone was very demeaning.
I stuttered a "Good-Bye" and ducked out feeling kinda embarrased.
I told my GF that I didnt appreciate the way she handled that situation. That I was uncomfortable to begin with ,and her ignoring me and then talking to me like a child just made it even worse.
She got mad and now she wont talk to me.
To be fair, you did mess up. She was doing the right thing as far as her culture was concerned and she probably didn't want to mess up anything but you dropped the ball there.
totally ignoring him and completely talking in Korean when he probably doesn't understand one word is the right thing? sure she showed respect to the elders and the family that ran the store, but she also has at least a little obligation to him dont ya think? maybe she didn't have to introduce him as her b/f, but she could at least say, this is my friend, Sal Weinerberger [or whatever].
Also, i think its a bit rude to talk entirely in Korean. Fair enough, maybe the family didn't speak English well, but she could have at least talked to him directly even if just for a minute. from what he says it looks like she totally dis'd him and didn't even acknowledge him.
Originally posted by: FuZioN
Originally posted by: iamme
in the end, just buy her a nice, fake Louis Vuitton/Gucci/Burberry/Prada purse and she'll be happy.
ROTFLMAO ;-)
*edit*ontopic.
Korean Pride!! its a culture thing moreso then other asians..even some of the americanized ones.
last korean girl i met was adopted (white parents) so didnt have to deal with that hahahaha.
This isn't the movies. There is no culture out there that allows a person to be totally discounted and unacknowledged as living. It was simply ignorant.Originally posted by: MAME
Originally posted by: SherEPunjab
totally ignoring him and completely talking in Korean when he probably doesn't understand one word is the right thing? sure she showed respect to the elders and the family that ran the store, but she also has at least a little obligation to him dont ya think? maybe she didn't have to introduce him as her b/f, but she could at least say, this is my friend, Sal Weinerberger [or whatever].
Also, i think its a bit rude to talk entirely in Korean. Fair enough, maybe the family didn't speak English well, but she could have at least talked to him directly even if just for a minute. from what he says it looks like she totally dis'd him and didn't even acknowledge him.
No offence, but it could very well be culture driven and she was doing the appropriate thing
Originally posted by: Whisper
Having dated three and a half korean girls, .....
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: Whisper
Having dated three and a half korean girls, .....
clarify please.
Originally posted by: Whisper
Originally posted by: ajpa123
Originally posted by: Whisper
Having dated three and a half korean girls, .....
clarify please.
three full korean girlfriends, and one half-korean, half-caucasian. All very sweet.