YAGT: Social "S.N.A.F.U" with my Korean girlfriend ?

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sxr7171

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Originally posted by: DougK62
EXTREMELY typical behavior for a girl - teenager all the way up to their mid-late twenties.

At least she apologized - most won't even do that. Most would make YOU apologize in that situation.



I didn't find the part where she apologized, the last I read was that she refused to talk to him.
 

NetGuySC

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My wife of two years is Korean and I'm caucasian, and we live in South Carolina.

When we go shopping at Korean shops, she and the shop owner will speak in korean and that's fine with me. I know that both of them are more comfortable speaking korean and I am usually very interested in all you can buy there that you can't buy at WalMart .

Maybe you can call it training but I know to say goodbye to elders whenever I depart, but my wife was never rude or made me embarassed when we first started being together. At first, I was a little apprehensive speaking Korean for I only knew a couple of words and was scared I would embarass myself or offend the person I was talking to. But over time I found that most Koreans that I have met are just impressed that you attempted to speak Korean even if you made a mistake.

If my wife ever treated me like you girlfriend did when leaving the shop I would have been upset. It has happened to me but I think my wife was much more tactful at the time, than your girlfriend.

Overall I have an extremely good impressions of Koreans that are here and in South Korea, but perhaps I am biased
 

NetGuySC

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I wouldn't say that we do not talk in the shop for we do while we are shopping. But at times she may start talking to the owner about a new rice cooker and it turns out to be a long conversation. It is just that we usually do not visit the korean shop but once a mon or so, and when we go they have to catch up on the gossip I guess

By the way does anyone here get the Korean satellite service? I know it is out there but would like to hear from someone who has it. It may not be an actual korean satellite, bt a system where you can get many Korean channels.
 

iamme

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Originally posted by: NetGuySC
I wouldn't say that we do not talk in the shop for we do while we are shopping. But at times she may start talking to the owner about a new rice cooker and it turns out to be a long conversation. It is just that we usually do not visit the korean shop but once a mon or so, and when we go they have to catch up on the gossip I guess

By the way does anyone here get the Korean satellite service? I know it is out there but would like to hear from someone who has it. It may not be an actual korean satellite, bt a system where you can get many Korean channels.

holy crap, i had no idea you could get Korean channels via satellite TV. my parents would LOVE it...

 

bleeb

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I currently have Korean Satellite TV service at my home. Believe you me, the thing is ON all the time! Freakin Korean Dramas are TOO ADDICTING!! Beware!!! And you have been warned.

I think we pay about 250 bones a year for 3 channels, all MBC channels. Lots of dramas, korean news, specials, sports, and lots of music.
 

kami333

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Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: NetGuySC
I wouldn't say that we do not talk in the shop for we do while we are shopping. But at times she may start talking to the owner about a new rice cooker and it turns out to be a long conversation. It is just that we usually do not visit the korean shop but once a mon or so, and when we go they have to catch up on the gossip I guess

By the way does anyone here get the Korean satellite service? I know it is out there but would like to hear from someone who has it. It may not be an actual korean satellite, bt a system where you can get many Korean channels.

holy crap, i had no idea you could get Korean channels via satellite TV. my parents would LOVE it...

I know you can get Japanese tv (one channel) through satellite so I wouldn't be suprised.
 

The Sauce

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Let me make a blanket statement here: white + traditional Korean = fuXor. Cant' work.

I dated a traditional Korean woman for a year. I was crazy about her. But Korean culture is unwaveringly exclusionist and xenophobic. Her family cut her off completely, disowned her, and harassed her until she left me. Previously good friends of mine who were Korean suddenly hated me and became antagonistic. Just forget it...it's not worth it.
 

sxr7171

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Dish network apparently provides every single ethnic group with programming, besides Dish beats DirecTV even on regular programming.
 

bleeb

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Originally posted by: Snatchface
Let me make a blanket statement here: white + traditional Korean = fuXor. Cant' work.

I dated a traditional Korean woman for a year. I was crazy about her. But Korean culture is unwaveringly exclusionist and xenophobic. Her family cut her off completely, disowned her, and harassed her until she left me. Previously good friends of mine who were Korean suddenly hated me and became antagonistic. Just forget it...it's not worth it.

With a handle as "SnatchFace" of course her parents are going to hate you dawg.
 

imported_vr6

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korean people are cocky and snoby, espeically the ones that have have parents who have a little $. Now i am not saying that ALL of them are like that but in my experience, they have this "korean Pride" thing that they live by,
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: sxr7171
Dish network apparently provides every single ethnic group with programming, besides Dish beats DirecTV even on regular programming.

I like those ethnic movies on late night PPV.

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0roo0roo

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the thug thing comes from social/economic class. on the range of asians, koreans are near the bottom in that area from what i remember, chinese/japanese at the top.
 

dr150

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Originally posted by: nick1985
my girlfriend is 100% german and her whole family besides her parents lives in germany. her family in germany is furious that she is dating a "wild american teenager". she lives in america, what do they expect?!


My experiene is quite the opposite. I have a German wife. I'm American. All her friends and family is relaxed and cool about her married to an American.

I make a good impression of being respectful and charismatic. If I acted like an ass, then nobody would want to interact with me--regardless of what country I'm from.

There's arrogant people EVERYWHERE in this world. One would do good to AVOID them as much as possible.
 
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