YAGT: Talking on the phone

[Deleted member 4644]

So this girl I've met LOVES talking on the phone for HOURS. Personally, I am not a big phone person. I like conversations like "hey, I'll pick up the chips, see ya, bye."

So.. should I deal with it if I like her. And two, will it probably die down in the future?

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

Do you see her in real life?

 

[Deleted member 4644]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Do you see her in real life?

Yes and that is good... its the phone that is too much. Also the text messages.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

If she prefers hours of phone and texting to face to face contact... run.

 

[iamaelephant]

If you like her, put up with it for as long as you can. If it gets too much talk to her about it.

 

[Dissipate]

I wouldn't go for it. Talking on the phone is a sign of shallowness.

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
If she prefers hours of phone and texting to face to face contact... run.

definitely

 

[CraigRT]

I am not a phone guy either... I'd rather just be doing something with the person or killing time with buddies/doing something productive.

 

[SZLiao214]

How much do you like her? If you like her enough you will deal with it, if not then you will probably stop answering your phone.

You could try making an excuse about having to leave at a certain before it gets to that time.

Example: Its 4:40.
Her: Hey, how are you doing?
You: Doing decent i guess but, i have to go do XX at 5.

 

[Konigin]

No don't deal with it now, because you'll get sick of it and start treating her like crap. No it won't die down in the future.

 

[her209]

PICS?

 

[huberm]

i am in the same boat. I hate talking on the phone, she calls every night.

it got to where she would call and i wouldn't answer. More often than not she would just drive over to my house if i did that :~( .

 

[Pepsei]

it's good to get off the phone as soon as you're done with your business, makes them wanting you more and wondering what the heck you're doing all the time.

 

[Tu13erhead]

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[Pepsei]

Originally posted by: Tu13erhead
They say that you should never talk on the phone with a girl longer than it takes you to have sex...

oh yeah, you don't want to turn into one of her friends. so keep it short.