So last night I was with the girl I have been seeing for the past month or so. We were sitting in the hot tub when she asked "why are you with me?" I was not really sure how to respond, so I said because I enjoy your company, and like being with you. Not really sure if thats the response she was looking for, and I wasn't really sure what to say to that question. Its only been a month and I suspect she was looking for a "Because I love you" or something like that which I don't want to say if I don't mean it. She said that it seems like all I want to do is just fool around when we are together and that I don't pay complete attention to her when she is trying to talk to me. Not really sure what I should say or do, any advice?