YAGT. Why do girls always fall for @ssHoles?

[userman]

This happened to her about 4 years ago.

1. Talked to my GF about her former BFs.
2. First guy physically and Verbally Abused her.
3. Beat Her so bad she lost her baby.
4. finally dumped him and fell for another guy that was just as bad.

A different story about where and how I met her and I will not post about that on ATOT. We've been a couple for over a year now.

She says that I'm the best guy that she has ever met, and that she really loves me. (I just wish she would tell me there names.)

 

[UncleWai]

You are just jealous that he got some and you didn't, a case of the sour grape.

 

[userman]

Originally posted by: UncleWai
You are just jealous that he got some and you didn't, a case of the sour grape.

AS in beat her? OR as in sex?

 

[Orsorum]

Because they're confident, or, in the cases where the guy is abusive, the girl usually had an abusive parent or other authority figure in their life.

We gravitate toward that with which we're familiar.

 

[LtPage1]

Originally posted by: UncleWai
You are just jealous that he got some and you didn't, a case of the sour grape.

Read the post, smart one.
OP: Beats me, man, but it's true.

 

[Mo0o]

this is an extreme case. I bet she got abused as a kid

 

[Grey]

Assholes have high self esteem and demean others around them. Women like high self esteem because it means they can provide money/sex/etc.

 

[TheShiz]

girls rarely change the type of guys they go for, maybe you just need to take a serious look in the mirror. you wanting to know the names of ex boyfriends is probably not a healthy thing.

if you really want to enjoy what you have stop worrying about the past, you can't change it.

 

[her209]

Because women are stupid and are incapable of logical thoughts due to their emotions. They want and expect everything handed to them and when they don't get what they want, they'll act like a whore and bang someone who will give it to them. They are taught to hate themselves and the other women around them that they have to pretend to be someone that they really aren't and use anyone that is gullible enough to fill that void.

 

[Howard]

Originally posted by: Grey
Assholes have high self esteem

I wouldn't be so sure.

 

[userman]

Originally posted by: TheShiz
girls rarely change the type of guys they go for, maybe you just need to take a serious look in the mirror. you wanting to know the names of ex boyfriends is probably not a healthy thing.

if you really want to enjoy what you have stop worrying about the past, you can't change it.

EDIT. Before we started dating I she told me that she had been treated very badly before and that One of her former BFs would stalked her.

I do know that I can not change anything in the past. Its just that you dont treat other Humans that way.
The thing that sparked us to talk about her old Bfs was that she ran into one them at a locol store and he said that he would find her.

(She got a restaining order but they dont mean crap) Anyways i would rather know who they are and not get suprised one day.

 

[moshquerade]

they don't always.

 

[userman]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
they don't always.

Very true, But it seams like alot of them do.

 

[EatSpam]

Because assholes are usually really self confident. That's a turnon for most women.

 

[Injury]

Sometimes when you feel certain emotions long enough, no matter how bad they are, you don't know how to cope without them.

 

[Nebor]

Because the beatings feel so good?

 

[fbrdphreak]

Originally posted by: Nebor
Because the beatings feel so good?

:thumbsdown:

 

[Accipiter22]

rotten guys usually don't give a crap, they don't smother a girl, act like pansies, call a girl 200 times, act like saps. They act more 'manly' in an ironic way. The 'nice guy' is usually the opposite of this. Hence most girls prefer the rotten, even if it comes with bumps and bruises.

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: userman
Why do girls always fall for @ssHoles?

Because unlike you, assholes excite their loins. ie: They express dominant alpha-male characteristics that don't come from late night forum posting.

 

[ballmode]

probably so scared to get out... they are cocky and girls think they have it all together but they never do

 

[GuitarDaddy]

Stupid gullable girls go for sorry men

 

[huberm]

*sigh* sometimes I wish i wasn't one of the "nice guys" that never gets the girl

 

[boredhokie]

She's probably already cheating on you, why are you so gullible that you'd fall for damaged goods like that? She wants attention, more than you will ever be able to give her - if you try she'll dump you for smothering her. Find a nice well adjusted girl and stop trying to change people who don't want to be (speaking from experience).

 

[DrPizza]

"why do girls always fall for a@@holes?"

Simple: They don't always fall for that type of guy.
But, since most guys are that type, and the nice guys don't date more than one girl at a time, it stands to reason that most girls are left with 3 choices: become a lesbian (if that's even a choice), don't date, or date an a@@hole.

 

[chipy]

Originally posted by: Nebor
Because the beatings feel so good?

into S&M are we?