YAGT: Worst day I have had in a very long time.....

[MainFramed]

ok so I know this girl who I really like. She call's me this morning saying her computer sucks and needs some work. So I get over there at about 3:30 and she's not there she had to goto work.....well I obvisouly start working on the computer, which is a big mess. Win ME, cd rom doesnt work, floppy doesnt work, internet settings suck and everything...well I end up meeting her dad for the first time in the 2 years i'v known her and were getting along great chilling im getting really "tight" with her parents. Computer work is going great....I notice its about 5:00 and this girl still isint here. Now I know she has to work...but wtf would she ask me to come over and not be there...to me Its just gay i feel like im being used (am i?) I just dont feel all the comfertable "chilling" whit her parents all day. So anyway her mom relzies she has to go pick her up from work and does by this time its 6:30 she gets back and its about 10 to 7 the girl comes in gives a plesant hi the gets on her cell phone talking with this girl, gets off and i try to talk to her, shes like hold on a sec....calls this guy talks to him for about 10. pizza shows up i eat with her parents while shes on the phone in her room. (WTF???) so then she gets off the phone i show her how to burn a cd since i got xp tossed on there got her cd burner working, floppy...the whole thing works like a beast, running great. (my 1337 skills ) so....shes all happy "thank you thank you" so i try to talk to her and stuff but she has to get ready to *LEAVE* she doesnt have a car yet so she is asking her mom to take her (im pretty much done at this point just doing little stuff to the comp) to meet her friends up town.....begging to leave. i need a ride so her mom offers for her to just take me with this girl. im like "nah if she has to get there right now go ahead" so the mom insist she just give me a ride and they wait for 5 minutes. all set....drop the girl off all i get is a simple "bye thanks so much! your really smart" and she runs off. mom takes me home and i get 50$ ....50$ i didint want....i wanted it to be a friend thing. but i obvisouly am no friend to her.... im just so pissed. i really like this girl alot. we used to be going out for about 3 months then i broke up with her for who knows why.....

ahhhhhhh dont you think thats a little messed up? sorry about grammar im tired and its late...

 

[AvesPKS]

Drop her like a bad habit...you don't need to be treated like that.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Get used to it, kid. Women will break your heart. Then you'll find one that's actually worth a damn and you'll spend years together while she mends your heart.

Then she'll break it.

 

[BmXStuD]

How old are you? I would just been loud and annoying till they threw me out ;0 And been like opps i thought i was here alone. She says why and you say b/c you arent paying any attention to me bye beyootach.
Duh this is how i would do it since im a annoying 16 yr old.

 

[IcemanJer]

There's no getting any (real friendship, relationship, etc.) when you've been labelled as "the guy that fixes computers".

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: BmXStuD
How old are you? I would just been loud and annoying till they threw me out ;0 And been like opps i thought i was hear alone. She says why and you say b/c you arent paying any attention to me bye beyootach.
Duh this is how i would do it since im a annoying 16 yr old.

14, but the friends i hang out with are all older....and people say i act older. this is none of that *crush* BS...dont be fooled by my age.

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: IcemanJer
There's no getting any (real friendship, relationship, etc.) when you've been labelled as "the guy that fixes computers".

im so sick of that damn label!!!

 

[IcemanJer]

Originally posted by: MainFramed

Originally posted by: IcemanJer
There's no getting any (real friendship, relationship, etc.) when you've been labelled as "the guy that fixes computers".

im so sick of that damn label!!!

then you need to be careful about who you help. and more importantly, branch out.

 

[MainFramed]

what you mean branch out....i just feel really hurt right now, i hate it

 

[jonmullen]

Don't get used for your computer services like that. Don't you know the rule nothing is free no matter who it is. Well unless its something very simple for your parents. People end up walking all over you. second $50 for like 4 hours, your way to cheap. Now about your real problem, ditch the girl she does not care about you. No amount of friend computer work will change that just move on.

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: jonmullen
Don't get used for your computer services like that. Don't you know the rule nothing is free no matter who it is. Well unless its something very simple for your parents. People end up walking all over you. second $50 for like 4 hours, your way to cheap. Now about your real problem, ditch the girl she does not care about you. No amount of friend computer work will change that just move on.

i never asked for money....i got your point. they just wrote the check (just so you know)

 

[Anghang]

better stop doing favors for her...she's taking you for granted and will probably continue to do so until you put your foot down and tell her you can't help her...

why? - she may ask....
"i don't have the time" or "i don't feel like it at the moment (doesn't mean you ever will tho...hehe)" - take your pick

if women/girls see they can take advantage of you, they WILL...no doubt about it...
it's up to you to keep it from happening...stand your ground and don't be a pushover...there's nothing wrong with saying no to a female's request...

 

[IcemanJer]

Originally posted by: MainFramed
what you mean branch out....i just feel really hurt right now, i hate it

like... don't do computer service. If you really like the girl then approach her with other means.

and listen to jonmullen

 

[Eli]

I agree.. Just forget about her and move on. You will just beat yourself up over and over if you don't.

 

[crazygal]

Well, you ARE only 14....don't get stuck on this one girl!

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: IcemanJer

Originally posted by: MainFramed
what you mean branch out....i just feel really hurt right now, i hate it

like... don't do computer service. If you really like the girl then approach her with other means.

and listen to jonmullen

yeah i have asked her to the movies and to come over hang out, lots of stuff. shes always like yeah sure. then at the last moment she cant. and everytime i ever try to call her she is like "sorry cant talk"

 

[dolph]

hate to say it, but refer to sig.

 

[TheFirm]

well first off ur 14 so get used to it 2nd tell her how u feel if u like her that much u should be glad ur friends with her and u shouldnt mind that ur not with her u had a chance and u broke her off.... also that does suck how she passed u off so just tell her how u feel and hopefully u will move on. and u got paid so it couldnt be that bad

 

[IcemanJer]

Originally posted by: MainFramed
yeah i have asked her to the movies and to come over hang out, lots of stuff. shes always like yeah sure. then at the last moment she cant. and everytime i ever try to call her she is like "sorry cant talk"

She has given more than enough clues that she doesn't want to hang out with you. get over it and move on.

you're only 14, kid, the worst is yet to come. Learn to deal with it. That's what growing up is about.

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: IcemanJer

Originally posted by: MainFramed
yeah i have asked her to the movies and to come over hang out, lots of stuff. shes always like yeah sure. then at the last moment she cant. and everytime i ever try to call her she is like "sorry cant talk"

She has given more than enough clues that she doesn't want to hang out with you. get over it and move on.

you're only 14, kid, the worst is yet to come. Learn to deal with it. That's what growing up is about.

but yeah thats just it shes fvcking playing with me. ill see her and she'll act all nice and ASK ME to hang out and stuff.....then when it happens it wont becuase of something. so later i will ask and whatnot...i mean one second she wants to she is serioulsy intrested then she screws me. i got the get over her part..... i will......

 

[pray4mojo]

How old is she?

 

[MainFramed]

15

 

[MercenaryForHire]

/makes whip-crack noise

That's you. Check your pants. Are your balls there, or in this random girl's hip pocket?

- M4H

 

[IcemanJer]

Originally posted by: MainFramed
but yeah thats just it shes fvcking playing with me. ill see her and she'll act all nice and ASK ME to hang out and stuff.....then when it happens it wont becuase of something. so later i will ask and whatnot...i mean one second she wants to she is serioulsy intrested then she screws me. i got the get over her part..... i will......

yeah, she's playing you.. she still need you when her computer screws up, so she has to maintain a "friendship" and not be like suddenly out of the blue asks you to fix her computer. (well, I'm using the fixing computer thing here as an example, but it applies to other things to, ie. anything she wants you to do at some point in time.)

Plus.. at 15, she's not going to be interested in someone who's 14. If anybody, he would be an older guy.

 

[MainFramed]

thanks guys, im going to bed.