YAGT: Worst day I have had in a very long time.....

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: MainFramed
thanks guys, im going to bed.

Please confirm that you have read the above thread contents, will grow a pair, and cease communicating with this girl.

- M4H

 

[MainFramed]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: MainFramed
thanks guys, im going to bed.

Please confirm that you have read the above thread contents, will grow a pair, and cease communicating with this girl.

- M4H

ok agreed

now g'night

 

[conjur]

Originally posted by: IcemanJer
There's no getting any (real friendship, relationship, etc.) when you've been labelled as "the guy that fixes computers".

Ayup...

And, btw, have you told her how you feel about her?

If you have and she just keeps using you like this...dump her arse. She'll just keep using you and bat those pretty little eyes at you and you'll come a followin' with tail wagging.

Women is evil!

 

[crab]

Just drop her...then become mad rich. The best revenge is massive success.

 

[LeStEr]

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
Drop her like a bad habit...you don't need to be treated like that.

 

[bujuranks]

Return the favor, when she ask you to hang out or fix her computer say yes but don't show up. When she ask you what happened tell her something unexpected came up. Do this from now on. Find someone else, move on you are not going to get anywhere with this girl she already knows how to use you to her advantage.

 

[Angrymarshmello]

You were used. It happens. Never talk to her again.

 

[RbSX]

Come back when you've got a real problem kid. Compared to the stuff you go through when you are marginally older, you ain't seen nothin. Toughen up now, and it will serve you later.

Best of luck.

 

[narzy]

if you don't feel comfortable with the $50, give it back, with a note for her on your feelings (if she won't talk to you on the phone, or you don't see her in person.) as far as "being only 14" its a good time to learn proper signals. she may think she is being a friend, she may be just using you, I don't know her, I don't know the way she thinks. If it makes you this upset, tell her, explain that you arn't there just to be a computer guru, that you have feelings and you've expressed them, and if the only interaction she is going to have with you is to fix her computer, you really not interested. What I tell my friends, is that if I wanted to fix a computer, I'd break mine...or work on my ROCK project. (Recycled Old Computers for Kids). if she says ok sorry and things change great, if she says ok sorry and things don't change forget her, if she says nice knowin ya, walk away too. But it will let her know your not a tool to be used only when she has computer problems. and will let you know how she really thinks of you. say you went over there with the assumption that she was going to be there, and that you were very uncomfortable working there when she was not.

People you can call me what ever you want, or think what ever you want about what I am saying, but there is somthing to be said about facing your feelings and problems dead on. most of us run away, turn our backs, whatever, and personally I think that's a bad way to live life. so I don't.

 

[jonmullen]

Ok I hate to be the one to break it to you, but no matter how old you act or look or whatever there is no such thing as a real serious relationship in HS. I am 16 and saying this. The deal is no one really know what they are looking for or what they really want. That said, some how you have fallen in the "Friend who fixes computers catagory" there is not getting out. My only advice is next time you meet a girl dont even mention computers of stuff like that untill she gets to know you for you. Next time she wants you to come and fix her computer say yah sure, its $25 (if your decent, thats not that much). Also did I get the sense that the version of XP you got on her computer is not well LEGAL. So take our advice and forget this girl, or else your going to get flammed even more for being whiped.

 

[hg321]

To hell with the girl, there will be plenty more...But Cash that check FAST

 

[DerwenArtos12]

Your never gonna get anywhere with this chick so move on. i recently rean across a web page that has like a 10 page theory on this entire type of situation. i will see if i can drag it up.

 

[IBuyUFO]

Sounds like you set yourself up for this fall. Doesn't sound like she led you into anything. She did not say that she liked you.

 

[EY2K]

...but, hey, you got $50


well, ok not what you're looking for, but at least look on the upside . . . "j00 got $50 mane" (gotta say it like Tony Montana )

 

[monk3y]

Originally posted by: AvesPKS
Drop her like a bad habit...you don't need to be treated like that.

 

[Sid59]

i look it like this ..

you got free pizza and 50 bucks to do something mindless and sniff her hair. All courtesy of her parents.

 

[hdeck]

well, you broke up with her so i don't see why you are so pissed off.

 

[idNut]

Welcome to the fvcking club man. 70% of girls are major shallow bitches with only their bodies to offer. 25% have depth to their personalities as well as their chests and are really ugly. The rare 5% are good-looking with a good personality but usually they are few and far between and taken.

"Girls are good for nothing but heartache and disappointment."-My father (one of my favorite lines)

If I wasn't a misanthrope, I'd be a misogynist.

 

[johnjohn320]

Yeah, she just wanted you to fix the comp. You could end up being good friends (you said you have been 2 years already?) but I wouldn't expect a relationship. Take the $50 and take another girl out.

Also, if this is the worst day you've had a in a very long time, you must not be very old. I'm only 17, and even I can tell you it gets a hell of a lot worse than that...

 

[Lonyo]

Originally posted by: hdeck
well, you broke up with her so i don't see why you are so pissed off.

Hi, I broke up with you, be my friend please. <- probably not gonna happen (in the way you want)

 

[johnjohn320]

but yeah thats just it shes fvcking playing with me. ill see her and she'll act all nice and ASK ME to hang out and stuff.....then when it happens it wont becuase of something. so later i will ask and whatnot...i mean one second she wants to she is serioulsy intrested then she screws me. i got the get over her part..... i will......

Yeah man, you can see one of my old YAGTs if you don't believe me, that's not actually uncommon. Bullshit and weird, yes, but not uncommon. I started hanging out with one chick, same age situation actually (she's 18, I'm 17). She acted interested, etc. Invited me over a few times, unlike with your situation it did happen, we hung out a lot and talked nearly every night and just had a lot of fun. I took her to prom, prom sucked (she barely acknowledge me the whole time), and she hasn't spoken to me since, despite my efforts.

Girls are fvcking weird, and there's nothing you can do except say "I've done all I can do. Next!"

Ok I hate to be the one to break it to you, but no matter how old you act or look or whatever there is no such thing as a real serious relationship in HS. I am 16 and saying this. The deal is no one really know what they are looking for or what they really want. That said, some how you have fallen in the "Friend who fixes computers catagory" there is not getting out. My only advice is next time you meet a girl dont even mention computers of stuff like that untill she gets to know you for you. Next time she wants you to come and fix her computer say yah sure, its $25 (if your decent, thats not that much). Also did I get the sense that the version of XP you got on her computer is not well LEGAL. So take our advice and forget this girl, or else your going to get flammed even more for being whiped.

Your first sentence is untrue, a better way of putting it would be "serious high school relationships are rare." Rest of your post makes sense, though.

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: FFMCobalt
Get used to it, kid. Women will break your heart. Then you'll find one that's actually worth a damn and you'll spend years together while she mends your heart.

Then she'll break it.

Deep Thoughts by Jack Handy.

 

[isekii]

Did you think you'd get ass for fixing her comp ?
I dont think she meant anything but you fixing her computer.
Why take it so hard ?

 

[her209]

Date her mom. That'll teach her.

 

[StageLeft]

She's using you. Stay clear of this girl. She sees you as nothing but somebody to fix her computer. Fvck that.