Originally posted by: Syrch
Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: Syrch
Its hard to say, it feels like its not the right hting to do, to just give up on the relationship...
So you're saying it's the relationship that 'everyone' objects to, not the person herself?
Well most everyone finds her to be a really good person (except for my mother). So they don't necessarily object to her but they don't see us together.
Issues that some have with her are as follows:
1. She got pregnant and ended up havinga miscarriage. I left work early (with her) when she started to blotch and took her home asking her the entire way there if she wanted to see a doctor but she refused. I took a half day losing pay (which i didn't care about and still don't) and then stayed at my house with her not feeling well. I took her to her house around 9pm with her still blotching some. I called her at around 10pm as i was getting ready to lay down and she said she was feeling better and not to worry about her. I woke up at around 6pm and called her but I got no answer. Then at 6:45ish am i got a text message from her saying that she had a miscarriage and her friend (who i have yet to meet after 6 months of dating) took her to a hospital 35mins away when there is a hospital within 10 minutes of her house. She told me she didn't want me to be there b/c she didn't want to wake me up. Everyone seems to find this suspicious.
2. People say that I've changed and that I give more to the relationship than she does. When i talk to them i see what they are saying but when i'm with her i guess im blind to see it at those times.
3. She wants me to change. I have something that I hold when im asleep and I have since i was 3 years old. She pretty much wants me to throw the object away b/c she thinks that since i'll hold it and her i'm not sleeping with her. I happen to be most comfortable when i have the item and sleep better but she tells me it bothers her deep down and makes her feel like she is not enough. So she has told me for the last 4 months either put it away or the relationship is over.
4. She gets really "bitchy" when she doesn't get what she wants and won't stop until she gets what she wants. She was playing WOW and i was in the shower and I got a call that i had company coming over to play D&D. Well i needed to go to the local grocery store to get food. I said that I wanted her to come b/c i feel its rude to just leave someone as the house (especially being i have a roomate who isn't too fond of her). That wasn't enough of an explaination and got an attitude until i was willing to say stay and play wow (which this time i didn't to see what would happen and she was pissy the entire time).
I can list more but these are the things that are on my mind.